My first pregnancy, I lost my baby at about 8 weeks in, which is common and normal I've heard too many times. The loss was devastating for our whole family. I got pregnant with my son just 3 months later and today he is 8 months old. What a blessing he is! Wasn't a successful pregnancy supposed to help me get over that loss??? I STILL cry about it all the time. DH tried helping me by giving her a gender and we named her, too. I think that made things worse. My son is amazing and it makes me wonder all the time what "she" would've been like. I'm not dramatic about things ever. Ever. I don't get why I can't just get over this. What would've been her first birthday is coming up on May 10th and I'd really like to do something that might give me closure. Ideas??
Feeling like a big bloated hormonal whale of a tale. It's awesome.
Re: Closure/making peace
@Dutchkatie is wise. Create a place where you can go anytime you want to remember or cry or just say hello.
We have a headstone for Harrison, though we never got his remains so nothing is under it but it's got his name and it's somewhere we can go and bring him flowers and say hi.
Can you plant a tree or a flowering bush or make a special place in the garden, something like that?
(((hugs)))
BFP#1 1/31/12, EDD 10/6/12 Harrison Gray born sleeping @ 18w6d. You changed our lives little guy.
BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby!
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TTC #1 since 7/2011
ME: 37 DH: 38
SA-12/28/11-normal
HSG-1/16/12-possible blocked left tube
BFP#1---CP 7/9/12
Hysteroscopy-8/9/12-blocked left tube for sure, proceeding with IUI#1
IUI#1 (Gonal-F + trigger)=BFP#2 m/c @ 19w1d D&E 1/23/13
IUI #2 (Gonal F + trigger)=BFP#3 EDD 1/6/14 TWINS!!!
Identical girls born 11/17/13
BFP#4 EDD 8/27/15 MMC at 7w6d
BFP#5 m/c at 6w
BFP#6 EDD 10/5/16 Going Strong! It's a Girl!
EDD 1/31/13, MC May 17. EDD 3/31/13, MC July 26. I miss you so much already my angel loves
BFP #1 - 01/12/12, EDD 09/12/12, Medical Induction @ 21 weeks 05/03/12
BFP #2 - 10/30/12, EDD 07/04/13, Natural m/c @ 5 weeks 11/01/12
BFP #3 - 02/07/13, EDD 10/12/13
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