I have a friend that was two weeks behind me in her own pregnancy. However last week they discovered there was no heartbeat. She's obviously reeling right now and trying to process. I have no idea how to be there for her. I worry that my presence may serve as a reminder rather than a comfort.
I thought of sending a gift card so she can treat herself, or simply send money with another friend of ours to treat her when they go out (she's wanting a girls drinking night out with some college friends).
I want her to know that I care without seeming condescending or making it worse. I have a magical ability to put my foot in my mouth.