LGBT Parenting

New Here :)

Himee33Himee33 member
edited April 2014 in LGBT Parenting

Hi all! I have been lurking for a few months and since Lauren @Laurenblum decided to join, I figured I would introduce myself!

We have been together a little over 2 years now and currently live in Chicago.We are registered domestic partners and will officially be married in June. We plan on having a big wedding maybe in 2015/2016. We just decided spending money on a baby is more important right now!

We have been TTC since January 2014. Even though it's only been a few months it feels like years. When we started we knew it was going to be a long and slow process with some ups and downs, but I didn't realize the emotional roller coaster I was about to get on. I think this process has also been extremely hard for me because even though I have Lauren, her family and a few friends here, all my family and close friends are in Oregon.

As Lauren said I have had 3 medicated IUIs all resulting in a BFN. The first one was Clomid (yuck!) and the rest were Gonal F. On top of prenatal vitamins I also take Ubiquinol CoQ10 and just started taking baby aspirin.

I ended my last Cycle with Gonal F 300 iu. Although I respond really well to the fertility drugs it just seems like I'm not ovulating all the eggs. Last cycle I had 4-5 mature eggs which resulted in me having about 6 huge cysts. Some I believe were left over from the previous cycle.

Lauren and I have decided that IVF is the best option at this point and knowing our insurance covers it makes our decision easier. I am currently on BCP till May 20th. I will be starting 20 units Lupron on May 14th. If my bloodwork and ultrasound look okay on May 20th then I will start Gonal F 300 iu, Menopur 150iu and 5 units Lupron. For about 10 days. Woah!  Right now we are just taking everything one day at a time and preparing for this next step! 

I don't know anyone personally that is or has gone through what I am. It's Comforting for me to read your stories and know I'm not alone and have the support of a great group of people when needed!

ME-34  DW-28
Together since 1-2012
Married 9-24-2013
Started TTC with RE January 2014.
Open donor sperm

IUI #1 (1-31-14) Clomid + HCG Trigger=BFN
IUI #2 (2-27-14) Gonal F + HCG trigger=BFN Benched for 2 weeks due to cysts. Placed on BCP
IUI #3 (4-7-14) Gonal F + HCG trigger=BFN Benched for 3 weeks due to 6 cysts. Placed on BCP

IVF#1 Lupron 10iu, Menopur 150iu, Gonal F 400iu, HCG trigger
ER#1 (6-3-14) 9 Eggs, 8 Fertilized, 
ET#1 (6-8-14) 2 Day 5 Blastocysts transferred
6-20-14 BFP 12dp5dt Beta 114.9
                      15dp5dt Beta 365
Low progesterone start PIO/Crinone
6-23-14 Ultrasound shows no sac. Beta dropped. Chemical.
IVF#2 Menopur 150iu, Gonal F450iu, Ganirelix, Lupron trigger
ER#2 8-13-14 7 Eggs, 3 Fertilized and frozen
FET scheduled for 10-11-14
FET Canceled due to thin lining

IVF #2  Fresh Cycle Scheduled for December 2014


Re: New Here :)

  • Welcome and thanks for joining us! I hope that this first round of IVF brings about your healthy take home baby!

    Me: 30  DW (aka C): 29

    Together since 2/15/11 ~ Legally married in NY on 9/29/12

    ***CP mentioned***

    We've been working on baby #1 since July 2013 using Open ID donor sperm.  8 IUI attempts with 5 actual IUIs and one chemical pregnancy.  We have one fresh IVF cycle under our belts as well as a FET.  I have endometriosis and a uterine septum that was corrected via surgery in November 2013. 

    11/14/14 -  Second HSG shows that tubes are still clear and ute is looking good. 

    12/6/14 - Started BCPs in prep for IVF #2

    12/22/14 - Saline u/s and endometrial scratch (All was clear and OUCH!)

    1/2/15 - Began stimming for IVF #2

     ****All Welcome!****

    We are Mommas to four fur babies - 3 dogs and 1 cat.

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  • Welcome! Lots of IVF veterans on this board who have a wealth of knowledge. Looking forward to your updates!
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  • KH826KH826 member
    Welcome!

    I did IVF after 5 failed IUIs, and my protocol was similar to yours (follistim instead of Gonal F). If you have questions, let me know!

    Good luck and keep us posted :)

    Me - 30, My wife - 31 , Together for 10 yrs - Married August 2012

    5 medicated IUIs w/ RE (March - July 2013) = BFN

    Fresh IVF Cycle in September 2013 resulted in 18 mature eggs, 16 fertilized, 12 made it to day 5. Transfer of 2 Grade A blastocysts on 9/15/13, and 10 embryos in the freezer!      *****BFP on 9/25/13 - betas: @10dp5dt = 232; @12dp5dt = 465; @15dp5dt = 1,581   *********William George born June 4, 2014*********
  • Welcome! My wife and I were also totally blindsided by how hard it was for us to conceive a sticky baby. I hope your IVF process goes well! Many women here have had success with IVF. Good luck!!

    A & K, married 7/1/13.

    After 10 months of ttc via medicated IUIs and two early losses, we finally got our boys- Perfect premie twins born 5/27/14.

     

     

  • JGYJGY member
    Welcome!

    Married to my amazing wife 6/12/10 
    TTC since 6/11
    Unmedicated IUI #1 - 6/28/11 - BFN
    Unmedicated IUI #2 - 7/25/11 - BFN
    Robotic Myomectomy (Fibroid Surgery) - 11/15/11
    Unmedicated IUI #3 - 4/24/12 - BFN 
    Progesterone Supported Leuteal Phase IUI #4 - 6/21/12 - BFP!!
    Baby Boy G Born 3/24/13

    On to #2, are we crazy?
    IUI #1 - 11/28/14 - BFP!  Beta #1 (11DPO) 34, Beta #2 (13DPO) 101, Beta #3 (20DPO) 3043
    Ultrasound at 6w4d shows a single, fluttering heartbeat.  Say hello to Sticky Ricki!

     

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  • Welcome - keeping my FX for your upcoming IVF cycle. 

  • Welcome! Join in the discussions, lots of information on here :-)
    T & G My wife and I married 9/10/11 in Niagara Falls, NY
    HSG 12/12/12        
    #1 ICI 12/15/12              BFN on 12/29/12
    #2 ICI  1/11/13                BFN 1/28/13                       
    #3 ICI 2/11/13                 BFN
                   
    #4 ICI August 2013,  Clomid 100mg    BFN on 8/30/13 
    #5 ICI September-Clomid 100,  mg ICI 8/15 and 8/16,  BFN on 9/3
    #6 ICI October-Clomid 150 mg for 5 days   BFN 10/27
    uterine laparoscopy on 11/14-no endo or cysts
    #7 IUI December-Clomid 150mg    BFP 12/21
    12/23 Beta 51     12/26 Beta 209!
    First ultrasound on January 8th 2014-great healthy heartbeat
    Second Ultrasound January 23 (8 weeks) we got to see and hear the heartbeat
    Third Ultrasound Feb 4th(10 weeks), then will  released to OBGYN'
    It's a GIRL!
    We welcomed Adalyn Cooper Elizabeth on 8/29/14
    She was 7lbs 11oz and 19.6 inches long

    Proud foster parents to two little girls ages 2.5 yrs old, M,  and 1 year old, K



  • Welcome
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  • Welcome!  I did IVF and 2 FETs and I'm happy to answer any questions you might have.
    Married my wife 8/2007 ~ TTC #1 since 7/2011
    9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
    IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
    ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
    FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
    Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
    FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
    EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
    *Everyone welcome*

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  • Welcome! I used donor eggs (so no stimming/retrievel for me) but otherwise did IVF - 4 total transfers for what we're hoping is our 1 take-home baby! It can be a rough road but often it just works :). Here to help however I can!
    Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

    It's been a long road to here...
    Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
    June'12 - First RE Visit
    Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
    Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
    Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
    Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
    Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. :(
    Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
    Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
    Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
    Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
    EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
    Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
    We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


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