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~*~June Check-In (BFP Warning) ~*~

Hi lovely ladies, I hope you are all having a great week!

This is a weekly check-in for women who have suffered the loss of an angel with an EDD in June, no matter what the year.  You are welcome to join us, just post an intro including your EDD and the information below:

Where are you in your TTCAL journey/cycle, etc? Any updates/appointments you'd like to share?

Good luck to all of you!! If you leave for PGAL, please send me a PM so we can all congratulate you. If you are taking a bump break, please do the same!

BFP Warning below. Please skip if you are having a bad day.

 

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BFP Warning:

Congratulations this week to @rmpar29 (6/26/2013)! We wish you a happy and healthy stay on PGAL!

 

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QOTW: April showers bring May flowers. So, what’s your favorite spring time bloom?

 

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June Bugs:

@uneek13236/29/2013- How are you doing this week?

@peggels24 6/4/2014- Again, I’m so sorry AF showed ((hugs)). What’s the plan for this cycle? Did you decide to start temping?

@MrsG80inTN 6/7/2014- Looks like your temps are still wonky. Do you think the stress at work could be causing an AO cycle?

@sgio7485 6/10/2014- Look’s like you’re gearing up to O! FX for good timing! Are you using the monitor this cycle?

@racegurl87 6/11/2014- Again, I’m so sorry AF showed ((hugs)). How are you doing? What’s the plan for this cycle?

@meganwelch 6/17/2014- How are you feeling this week, symptom wise? Doing anything to keep yourself busy while you’re on the bench?

@kittymeowbark 6/21/2014- Looks like still no AF L  How are you holding up? Still feeling as emotional?

@GLB30 6/26/2014- I’m so glad you have answers, that must be such a relief (although I’m sure it’s frustrating to have to deal with!) and I’m also so thankful that you’re in a good place- you deserve it! How are the interviews going? Anything looking promising?

If your name is missing from above, please let me know and post an update. Some are not included as we have not heard from you in many weeks.

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TTC since April 2012

BFP #1, 10/03/2012 - EDD 6/15/2013 - MMC 11/15/2012 - D&C 01/04/2013

BFP #2, 04/06/2013 - EDD 12/17/2013 - MC 04/19/2013

6/12/2013 Diagnosed with Balanced Translocation (12 & 16)

IVF #1 with PGS: 10/2013: Canceled 9/27/2013 for issues with genetic lab

IVF #1.5 with PGS: 11/16/2013: Canceled. 11 eggs retrieved, 9 mature & 9 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

IVF #2: 1/22/14: Canceled. 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 7 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

IVF #3 with PGS: 5/10/2014: Switched to FET in July. 10 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized, 2 healthy embryos!

FET #1: 7/31/2014: Transferred 2 nearly perfect (6AA, 6BA) healthy embryos- BFFN

Laproscopy: 10/2014: Healthy uterus

IVF #4: 12/8/2014: Canceled. 17 eggs retrieved, 15 mature, 10 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos



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Re: ~*~June Check-In (BFP Warning) ~*~

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    Hi @Jbasore1123 - hope you're having a good week!  Congrats to @rmpar29 - so excited for you lady!!!!!  

    AFM - I got CHs for CD20... yesterday FF took them away, but today they are back.  Implantation dip?  I'm not sure if it's stress, weight loss and working out, or allergies / breathing with my mouth open at night, but it's definitely annoying.  I guess I'll just wait it out and see what's what.  I'm taking my progesterone which hopefully is going to help, but since I O'd so late (If I did at all) who knows what's up.  

    QOTW - I love Irises!!!!!  LOVE!

    Hope everyone is doing ok this week.  Hugs to those that need them.  I will do my best to check in later, but have a stressful week at work and have to leave early to take my cat to the vet today b/c she has lost basically 1/3 of her body weight in the last couple of years and we're not sure what's up.  

    Me 35 / DH 36
    TTC since 09/2009
    Hashimoto's diagnosis 11/2011 / Endometriosis removal surgery 04/2013
    Other diagnosis: 1 mutation - PAI-1 gene
    BFP#1 9/27/2013  /  EDD 6/4/14  /  MC 10/17/2013
    BFP#2 3/4/14  /  EDD 11/13/14  /  CP
    BFP#3 6/7/14  / EDD 2/16/15  /  CP
    BFP #4 11/7/2014 / EDD 7/17/15  /  CP
    Current  Plan: Waiting to change RE... Appt on 1/16
    RXs: Metformin, Levothyroxin, Baby Aspirin, CoQ10, Vitamin D, Folic Acid, Pre-natal. Progesterone post O.

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    ***Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

    All Welcome


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    Howdy ladies!  Thanks for the check-in @jbasore1123 – how are you doing?

    @peggels24 6/4/2014- Again, I’m so sorry AF showed ((hugs)). What’s the plan for this cycle? Did you decide to start temping? 

    I think I have some sort of mental block against temping.  It just doesn’t work for me (forgetting about it until I’m up and in the bathroom; removing the BBT from my alarm clock in my sleep; not getting enough sleep).  I give up – I shall try again on CD1 next cycle in the hopes that I can get into a pattern.  As for the rest – HIO is the plan J  I’m also working on my PCP to give me full thyroid panel tests because I’m suspicious that there may be an issue there. 

    I’m in a great mood today! 

    QOTW:  I would definitely say Tulip even though I don’t actually grow any.

    Congrats @rmpar29

    BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013
    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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    @racegurl87 - sorry AF showed.  Sounds like you have a lot going on this cycle, but all good things.  Will be thinking about you!!!!
    @peggels24 - AF is mean... Temping was weird for me to get used to... I started mid-cycle though just to get the data... that was weird b/c it was my first BFP cycle as well.  If you're willing to go ahead and start temping now I think that might be helpful just to get you in the habit, but it's hard to say... Just a thought.  I'm bad with OPKs... I just don't test well :-) 

    Me 35 / DH 36
    TTC since 09/2009
    Hashimoto's diagnosis 11/2011 / Endometriosis removal surgery 04/2013
    Other diagnosis: 1 mutation - PAI-1 gene
    BFP#1 9/27/2013  /  EDD 6/4/14  /  MC 10/17/2013
    BFP#2 3/4/14  /  EDD 11/13/14  /  CP
    BFP#3 6/7/14  / EDD 2/16/15  /  CP
    BFP #4 11/7/2014 / EDD 7/17/15  /  CP
    Current  Plan: Waiting to change RE... Appt on 1/16
    RXs: Metformin, Levothyroxin, Baby Aspirin, CoQ10, Vitamin D, Folic Acid, Pre-natal. Progesterone post O.

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    ***Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

    All Welcome


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    @kittymeowbark 6/21/2014- Looks like still no AF L  How are you holding up? Still feeling as emotional?

    Hi @jbasore1123    Thank you for the check-in. How are you doing?

    Still no AF on CD36. Trying to be patient and understand things take time. I was not expecting this and hate being in the limbo phase. Hopefully Af freakin shows already so I can move on.

    I have been very emotional and all over the place this week. My baby shower was supposed to be the Saturday that just passed, so a lot of painful emotions are creeping back up and I feel just a tad bit unstable. Sigh.




    @rmpar29 --Congrats! H&H 9 months to you.

    @MrsG80inTN - Sorry to hear your temp is still wacky and gl at the vet. Hope your cat gets better soon. Has he/she been throwing up?

    @racegurl87 -sorry to hear about the timing being crappy but gl on the move.

    @peggels24 --totally understand the frustration with temping. Gl to you next cycle and fx that temping gets easier.


    Have a happy Tuesday everyone :)


    Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
    TTC since 2012
    BFP#1EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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    My EDD was June 8, 2014.  Our little Christopher was born March 13 instead and lived a wonderful 1 hour 20 minutes due to bilateral renal agenesis. He was beautiful.

    Where are you in your TTCAL journey/cycle, etc? We have been cleared to TTC and I did ovulate prior to getting my first PP but AF showed up this past Sunday... so we were unsuccessful. I am currently CD3. I usually ovulate CD16/CD17 so fingers crossed for this time. I just bought some preseed to help out. Have any of you ladies used this and would recommend it? 



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    Hi @jbasore1123 thanks for the check in! How are you?

    Looks like I am gearing up to O! I am using the fertility monitor this cycle. OPKs were making me a little crazy, so I figured I'd give this a try. According to the monitor I peaked on CD14 and CD15, so I'm *thinking* I may O soon if not already. Negative OPK today (I just had to check!) No temp shift just yet. Hoping for a longer LP this cycle too. I've had great timing this cycle and I'm trying to feel more positive about things. 

    MrsG80inTN I am having the same thing with mouth breathing this cycle. I might temp vaginally this cycle, my temps seem really low.
    racegurl87 So sorry for AF. Moving into a new house is stressful, I'm sorry timing with O won't be great :(
    peggels24 I forget to temp sometimes too. I have to put the thermometer on top of my phone at night so I temp when my alarm goes off!
    kittymeowbark Sorry for the limbo :( I am so sorry about Saturday. ((hugs))
    Shannon0922 I am so sorry for the loss of Christopher. Welcome to the check-in.

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    BFP #1 10/5/13 MMC 11/13/13 D&C 11/15/13
    BFP #2 5/14/14 EDD 1/19/15 Beta 1: 728 Beta 2: 1858 We have a heartbeat! 166 @ 7w3d  Please be our RAINBOW!
    Baby G is a BOY!

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    kittymeowbark - hugs - sorry AF hasn't come yet and that things are so emotional.  Thinking of you.  My cat hasn't been throwing up really and she's still eating fine so we don't know what's up... 
    sgio7485 - FX that you had good timing.  My temps are all over the place so I am considering vaginal temping as well but just not sure I want to go there if you know what I mean. LOL
    Shannon0922 - I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet Christopher.  Glad that you are able to TTC again so soon.  Cycles are often wonky after a loss so don't be too surprised if you O at a different time than you used to.  I've never used Preseed or anything like that.


    Me 35 / DH 36
    TTC since 09/2009
    Hashimoto's diagnosis 11/2011 / Endometriosis removal surgery 04/2013
    Other diagnosis: 1 mutation - PAI-1 gene
    BFP#1 9/27/2013  /  EDD 6/4/14  /  MC 10/17/2013
    BFP#2 3/4/14  /  EDD 11/13/14  /  CP
    BFP#3 6/7/14  / EDD 2/16/15  /  CP
    BFP #4 11/7/2014 / EDD 7/17/15  /  CP
    Current  Plan: Waiting to change RE... Appt on 1/16
    RXs: Metformin, Levothyroxin, Baby Aspirin, CoQ10, Vitamin D, Folic Acid, Pre-natal. Progesterone post O.

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    ***Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

    All Welcome


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    Symptoms slowly decreaseing but not much... Hoping it will get better soon. My tummy is constantly gurgling. in the mean time I have been watching Netflix and playing minecraft... When I am finished cleaning and cooking and stuff lol. Nothing new to report.

    QOTW: I love the cherry blossoms... Don't have any around here but When I libed in DC I would go see them everyweekend they were in bloom.
    -Megan


    Started dating Hubby May 17 2005. Married since Aug 20 2011 
    Me:30   Hubby:31
    TTC since May 2012 
    HSG Dec 2012 Fill no spill on left side, right side normal (most physically painful experience of my life..)
    Metformin Started May 2013
    PG#1: BFP 10-21-13. EDD 6-17-14 mmc 12-9-13 m/c occurred with cytotec on 12-11-13 
    PG#2: BFP 07-25-14.  EDD 4-5-15   *Hoping this is my rainbow*
    Diagnosed with PCOS, Hypothyroid,IBD/UC, (UC in remission as of July 2014)
    *I will always love you Fetey the first.* 
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    Hi ladies!

    @MrsG80inTN- Let's hope you did O and had great timing! FX!
    @racegurl87- I vote you christen that new house pronto! You'll need a stress relief workout after moving all that stuff anyway ;)
    @peggels24- what makes you think there could be a thyroid issue going on?
    @kittymeowbark- Huge (((hugs)))
    @Shannon0922- Welcome to our check-in. I'm so sorry for your loss of Christopher
    @sgio7485- Yay for good timing! FX!
    @megalwelch- (((hugs)))

    Hi ladies! I stopped BCP on Friday and started my suppression medication on Sunday. I start stimming tomorrow and have my first monitoring ultrasound on Friday- things are finally moving along! I'm so scared we won't get any healthy embryos yet again. If we don't, we will be benched for a year as we save up money for egg/embryo adoption and get on the list. I really don't want to wait another year.
    QOTW: I love roses and lilies.

    TTC since April 2012

    BFP #1, 10/03/2012 - EDD 6/15/2013 - MMC 11/15/2012 - D&C 01/04/2013

    BFP #2, 04/06/2013 - EDD 12/17/2013 - MC 04/19/2013

    6/12/2013 Diagnosed with Balanced Translocation (12 & 16)

    IVF #1 with PGS: 10/2013: Canceled 9/27/2013 for issues with genetic lab

    IVF #1.5 with PGS: 11/16/2013: Canceled. 11 eggs retrieved, 9 mature & 9 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

    IVF #2: 1/22/14: Canceled. 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 7 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

    IVF #3 with PGS: 5/10/2014: Switched to FET in July. 10 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized, 2 healthy embryos!

    FET #1: 7/31/2014: Transferred 2 nearly perfect (6AA, 6BA) healthy embryos- BFFN

    Laproscopy: 10/2014: Healthy uterus

    IVF #4: 12/8/2014: Canceled. 17 eggs retrieved, 15 mature, 10 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos



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    @jbasore1123 ((hugs)) I pray for healthy embryos this time!!!  

    As far as the thyroid - from conversations that I've had with numerous people and from my last TSH levels which weren't sky high but warranted further testing (or at least the Dr yesterday agreed) plus major difficulty in losing weight.  I'm hoping that there is not an issue but I am happy that the further testing was done so that I will know for sure.
    BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013
    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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    @peggels24... My thyroid levels were actually "normal" technically, but I still got diagnosed with hashimotos... my doc likes them closer to 1 if possible so I'm on 75mcg of meds to help... Hope you get some answers.  If you need to chat, holler.

    Me 35 / DH 36
    TTC since 09/2009
    Hashimoto's diagnosis 11/2011 / Endometriosis removal surgery 04/2013
    Other diagnosis: 1 mutation - PAI-1 gene
    BFP#1 9/27/2013  /  EDD 6/4/14  /  MC 10/17/2013
    BFP#2 3/4/14  /  EDD 11/13/14  /  CP
    BFP#3 6/7/14  / EDD 2/16/15  /  CP
    BFP #4 11/7/2014 / EDD 7/17/15  /  CP
    Current  Plan: Waiting to change RE... Appt on 1/16
    RXs: Metformin, Levothyroxin, Baby Aspirin, CoQ10, Vitamin D, Folic Acid, Pre-natal. Progesterone post O.

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    ***Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

    All Welcome


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    @jbasore1123 Thoughts and prayers for all good news for you!!!

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    @jbasore1123 - thinking of you and crossing all I've got :-) 

    Me 35 / DH 36
    TTC since 09/2009
    Hashimoto's diagnosis 11/2011 / Endometriosis removal surgery 04/2013
    Other diagnosis: 1 mutation - PAI-1 gene
    BFP#1 9/27/2013  /  EDD 6/4/14  /  MC 10/17/2013
    BFP#2 3/4/14  /  EDD 11/13/14  /  CP
    BFP#3 6/7/14  / EDD 2/16/15  /  CP
    BFP #4 11/7/2014 / EDD 7/17/15  /  CP
    Current  Plan: Waiting to change RE... Appt on 1/16
    RXs: Metformin, Levothyroxin, Baby Aspirin, CoQ10, Vitamin D, Folic Acid, Pre-natal. Progesterone post O.

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    ***Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

    All Welcome


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    @jbasore1123 --so much love and positive energy your way. Gl and fx.

    Keep thinking positive thoughts. This is your time :)
    Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
    TTC since 2012
    BFP#1EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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    @MrsG80inTN-- What did the vet say about kitty? Hope he/she is doing better
    Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
    TTC since 2012
    BFP#1EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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    kittymeowbark - Well... long story short we don't have answers yet... she spent the day at the vet yesterday (after a traumatic morning fighting with me to go into the cat carrier)... She had chest xrays and more blood tests.  The chest xray showed a mass in her chest which may or may not be a symptom of what the vet thinks she has (hyperthyroidism)... We'll get the T4 tests back today and know if it's that and then have to determine next steps.  I'm hoping it's that and not cancer... Other than that she's mad as all get out at her mom and dad and won't come out of the closet except to eat, drink, and do her business... she's normally very loving and she's just plain mad right now.  So of course that's making us worried too.  Thanks for asking - sorry for the wall of text.

    Me 35 / DH 36
    TTC since 09/2009
    Hashimoto's diagnosis 11/2011 / Endometriosis removal surgery 04/2013
    Other diagnosis: 1 mutation - PAI-1 gene
    BFP#1 9/27/2013  /  EDD 6/4/14  /  MC 10/17/2013
    BFP#2 3/4/14  /  EDD 11/13/14  /  CP
    BFP#3 6/7/14  / EDD 2/16/15  /  CP
    BFP #4 11/7/2014 / EDD 7/17/15  /  CP
    Current  Plan: Waiting to change RE... Appt on 1/16
    RXs: Metformin, Levothyroxin, Baby Aspirin, CoQ10, Vitamin D, Folic Acid, Pre-natal. Progesterone post O.

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    ***Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

    All Welcome


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    @MrsG80inTN Fx that kitty feels better soon and stops being so scared/mad. Gl and big hugs.
    Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
    TTC since 2012
    BFP#1EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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