talked to sm today

MinnesotaMomma91

Bentleys sm a texted me earlier. We had a good conversation(totally civil) she told me bd finally came clean about bentley being his son. But not wanting anything to do with him becauase i wouldnt take him back.

We talked about their pending divorce and her new boyfriend. He seems like a nice guy from what she says. We think in the next five years we would like our kids to meet and help them develoup a relationship but were not ready for that now since were far to poor for traveling.

Anyways, it was good to talk to her, and have no ill will towards her.and.hope things continue to.get better and look up for her.

And now gifs for everyone!

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MinnesotaMomma91

I hope so too. Her and i have known each other longer then bd, while we were never best friends or even close friends weve always been civil.

Unfortunatly some information about bd came to light. He went on a ptsd bender and beat the shit out of his new gf(the stripper) and is now sitting in jail. Hopefully he finally gets some help and acknowledges the ptsd

20thirteen

Whoa, shit.  Wow, I hope he gets help too.

I'm glad that you and the SM can be civil and work things out so that the kids can have a relationship.  Family is the best thing ever, my family has always been a great support for me in all my decisions. Good to know that Bentley is going to know his half siblings.

MinnesotaMomma91

Im glad hell know them too! Even though theyll grow up living across the country from each other at least theyll know each other.

A swears bentley looks like his oldest brother with brown hair.

tig594

MinnesotaMomma91 said:

I hope so too. Her and i have known each other longer then bd, while we were never best friends or even close friends weve always been civil. Unfortunatly some information about bd came to light. He went on a ptsd bender and beat the shit out of his new gf(the stripper) and is now sitting in jail. Hopefully he finally gets some help and acknowledges the ptsd

Hopefully he does get some help.  I wouldn't bet your next pay check on it, though.  

It's good that you can have a decent relationship with B's SM.  And @roxalot, it sucks about your sister, too.  I don't know why people can't put aside their differences for 5 minutes for the sake of the kids.  They are innocent.  

MinnesotaMomma91

Yes @roxalot i want to hug you then slap some sense into your sister because not only does harley deserve to have her aunt around, your sister needs to get her shit together so she can be the aunt harley(and her other cousin) deserve

eg214

Wow! That's insane about the PTSD episode. What does he have PTSD from @MinnesotaMomma91? I don't remember if you said something about it or not.

I'm glad you have a good relationship with her. That will be helpful to your son in the long run.

jellybean529

Thanks for the gif!! And it does sound like you had a great convo with her. I'm glad you're civil and I really do feel for her that both of you share the same douchey BD.

MinnesotaMomma91

@Eg214 bd has ptsd from several special ops deplotments.

@Jellybean529 im so glad for the civility

20thirteen

Thanks for the words Minnesota and tig! I wish the same, that she'll snap back into reality and return to our lives. I don't think that will happen anytime soon. At least not while she is with that POS boyfriend.

MinnesotaMomma91

Thats hard i feel for your family