Hello. I am new to getting help with having a baby but my DH and I have been trying for almost three years now. I feel so behind but I never thought we would be able to afford fertility treatments. Now that I'm in my career we are able to explore this but it feels so overwhelming!
We went to our first meeting on the 16th but it was too late in my cycle to do anything other than take a boatload of blood and a baseline US. My doctor did say that my uterus and ovaries look "really good" which made me happy. He could also see that I was getting ready to ovulate that weekend (between the 18th and the 22nd). My DH and I BD'd every other day the whole weekend and now I am waiting to see if it worked. I am really doubting though since I have all the symptoms of an impending period. Also I used an OPK the whole weekend and never got a positive. I'm not sure if i did it right though.
I don't mind the disappointment from this cycle though since once AF starts we can move forward. Doc says the next steps are a HSG and an hysteroscopy. Also, we'll get my DH in for a sperm test. I'm anxious to get started.
It feels good to just talk about everything. I feel like my husband and sister are tired of hearing me obsess over it.
Me-36
DH -35
Married in 2008
Started TTC in 2011
Began testing May 2014
Test Results
HSG- clear
Hysteroscopy- clear
SA- 11 mil count
45% motility
Diagnosis: MFI
July 2014: Femera 5mg CD 4-8, Trigger, IUI = BFN
August 2015: Femera 5mg CD 4-8, Trigger, IUI = BFN
September 2015: Femera 5mg CD 4-8, Trigger, IUI = BFN
May 2018 after long period of not trying, starting adoption process with family friend's newborn
November 2018 Adoption complete!
Re: New to Everything
Me: 30, DH: 32
My hx: uterus/hormones normal Dx: low AMH 0.5 = poor ovarian reserve
hubby hx: low sperm count, poor motility, started on clomid, retest in May showed no improvement, will be on clomid another 3 months, another retest scheduled for August
Started IVF #1: ~BFP Mentioned~
Good luck!
***Losses mentioned.*** TTC #1 since May 2012. Me: 37, OH: 41. Ectopic August 2012 => tubal damage. Stage 1 endo removed June 2013. IVF #1 Oct/Nov 2013: Long Lupron with Gonal-F. 7R, 7M, 7F. 2 txfer@3d. Nothing frozen. => M/C @ 8 wks. Selected RPL panel all normal. Very hyper and brittle response to stims. IVF #2 (antagonist protocol) Feb 2014 => Converted to IUI (Perfect conditions). BFN. IVF #2.1 w/ new RE June 2014: Antagonist protocol. 33R, 31M, 30F, 19 blasts to test!!! I made it through without crashing!! Hats off to Dr. Fancypants!! ET of one 5AB blast. BFN. 13 10 CCS'ed snowflakes! FET #1 PUPO as of 7/29 Betas: 8/7@24, 8/9@97, 8/11@334 (etc.) Two sacs on 8/15, one seen on 8/18 after a bleed. U/s 8/25 (6+3) "perfect": 5.9 mm + HB@120bpm! U/s 9/4 (7+6): 15.9 mm + HB@172 bpm! Please, PLEASE stick this time!!!!