BD really stands for Big Douche

inthelost

In my case it does anyway. He sent me a random message on Easter. Why he always enjoys to fuck with me on holidays I'll never understand, but every single holiday he contacts me without fail. He never asks about Liliana though. It's just to insult me and piss me the hell off. He knows I'm friends with his sister-in-law and he messaged me and basically said that he wanted me to REALLY look at his SIL's profile and KNOW that that was the kind of life I would NEVER be able to give a baby. No, maybe I can't right now but I will give her a better life some day. I'm working on it asshole. I'm doing the best I can with what I have. And I don't see you stepping up to help us in ANY way. I'm doing the best I can, and I don't need a guilt trip from an absent father on what I can't give my daughter. I really, really don't need it! And he was all like "you're just waiting on PAYDAY aren't you? I bet you are" ...we have family court on June 25th again, that's what he's refering to as my "payday" but ya'll should be proud of me because this is the very first time that I did not respond!!!! So many things I wanted to say but I fought the urge, go me! lol. I'm not going to let him get to me...he's just looking for a reaction, trying to piss me off and my guess is he really just can't stand that his brother and sister-in-law make him feel like shit for being a deadbeat...haha.

MinnesotaMomma91

Good for you for not responding

20thirteen

High five for not responding. What an asshole.

MinnesotaMomma91

I give you this gif fornot responding

laurstarx

You have way more self control then I ever could. Good for you girlfriend.

Who he thinks he is for telling you what life you can give her when he isn't doing shit is beyond me. Asshole. You're there for her and give her love and support.. Exactly what she needs.

inthelost

I know. I usally DO respond whenever he has contacted me in the past b/c I thought I could get him to care, or talk SOME sort of sense into him. Now I know there's absolutley no point that reasoned cannot be talked into him and I'm just so done over arguing! Unless he has a legitimate question about the well being or whereabouts of his daughter, I will NOT respond to him!  And by the way: I work, I go to school AND I'm raising her by herself. She might not have everything a baby could ever want but she has everything she NEEDS like food, clothes etc. I would not let my daughter go without. I would sacrifice before she went without. She deserves that. And no one will ever love this baby girl more than I do. She has her mother: the woman who gave birth to her and she has unconditional love and support from that mother. That's what she really needs...

freeatlast2014

You are an amazing mother . Babies don't want anything but love and food. He is a complete asshole and doesn't deserve to rent any space in your head. Fuck him.