I'm being induced next Thursday at 39 weeks. Last night at the hospital they told me my daughter is only measuring about 35 weeks in my ultrasound. I'm 80% effaced and dialated 1/2 to 1 cm. I'm so nervous. They told me she might not be getting the nutrients she needs. But the ultrasound can also be off a pound? I don't fully understand and I'm a first time mom.So any advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm in Fayetteville Arkansas and going to Washington Regional.
Has she been measuring consistently behind? Have they diagnosed you with IUGR?
These concerns are things you really need to address with your practitioner. Is it possible to make an appointment to discuss with them to make sure you fully understand what's going on? Or bring it up at your next appointment before the induction, if you have one already scheduled?
Why didn't you ask your doctor if you didn't fully understand? We unfortunately aren't medically trained/and have no access to your medical records or ultrasound. Please call your doctor.
Whats IUGR stand for? The doctor last night said she was perfectly healthy and sounded great on the monitor. She also told me that she could just be small. Monday I have to go back to triage so they can monitor her one more time. And im never going to see my doctor again. Dr. Clouatre at Creekside in Johnson. He was doing a check to see if i was dialated and then he supposedly had to check to see if it was her head 3 times it was rediculus. The first time he checked he said yep thats her head and two seconds later let me see if thats her head. like are you serious you just said yep thats her head. It was terrible. So i talked to a dr last night at the emergency room and she is going to deliver my daughter and induce me thursday especially if she isnt getting the nutrients she needs. And no she has never measured behind she has always been on schedule doing great.
If she has never measured behind and is doing great, then why is there a concern that she isn't getting enough nutrients? None of this makes sense.
IUGR = Intra-uterine growth restriction. I don't know much about it beyond that one of the diagnostics is a baby measuring less than the 10th percentile. They can induce early for that diagnosis. But that's not something that would just randomly appear out of nowhere.
You really need to ask more questions and not leave your appointment on Monday until things are clear because this doesn't add up.
Ok, first of all, who told you your DD was measuring small? An ER doc? An OB?
I'd be very hesitant to induce based on one u/s, as there is a level of human error involved. If you haven't consistently been measuring small, which I'm assuming is the case, then there's not really any need to induce.
I was diagnosed with IUGR, my DD consistently measured between the 4-5th percentile. I had several ultrasounds and was monitored the entire pregnancy before ultimately being induced at 38 weeks because her weight was estimated at 4lbs.
Why are you just now deciding not to go with your OB? I find it hard to believe that him not being able to determine if it's a head is worthy of changing OBs this late in the game.
thank you. im going to ask monday. i think if there was anything wrong tho my dr would have told me during the tests but he told me i have nothing wrong with her and shes healthy as a horse. but im also never seeing tht dr again. so ya.
It was an er dr. that told me she was measuring 35 weeks instead of 38 weeks. And there was no reason for my o/b to have to check for her head 3 times since the first time he checked he said yep thats her head. And the hospital told me he did a membrane sweep when he did that without telling me and my consent.
None of that makes sense. I don't think I'd trust an ER doc vs. a doc who specializes in OB. I also don't think there's anyway to tell he did a membrane sweep.
My doc couldn't find the HB on the Doppler on the first try, should I change docs?
It sounds like your baby has intrauterine growth restriction. When they say nothing is wrong, I am guessing they mean genetically. ..As in your baby is probably just small because he or she is not getting the nutrients...perhaps because your placenta is not functioning appropriately. This is likely why they want to deliver you. Especially with you being term.
IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54
2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4; BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
I wouldn't trust an ER doctor to decide you need to induce. DD was borderline IUGR (12th% overall! but her belly measured less than 2nd%). My OB never told me nothing was wrong, they told me she was stable and sent me for BPPs, NSTs and cord dopplers twice a week before inducing at 39w3d. Turns out she was just small and has consistently been around 10th% since birth.
Married 1/2/99.
TTC since 4/09.
Diagnosed PCOS. Diagnosed Hypothryoid 11/09.
SHG & SA normal. PCOS Research study started 5/10.
Clomid/Femara cycle #1 - 6/10 = BFN
Clomid/Femara cycle #2 - 7/10 = BFP #1 - Missed miscarriage 9/2/10
11/12 - BFP #2 - 11/22 - m/c
5/1/11 - BFP #3 - Pre-eclampsia, IUGR & bed rest from 32w. DD born via induction 1/4/12.
I would never let an ER doc overrule the OB who had seen me my whole pregnancy. Especially to decide induction date. ERs are not specialists in pregnancy or growth ultrasounds. Holy hell.
If you don't like your OB based on one check and the opinion of a random ER doc, get a new OB opinion. And I'd rather have my OB be sure my baby is head down by checking a few times to be absolutely sure, since at this point in the game it would change the course of action.
Why were you at the ER in the first place? What else is wrong?
Sounds like your looking for us all to say "sure its ok go have your induction!"
I know the end of pregnancy sucks, but baby will come when baby is ready! Dont rush you could cause more issues...
On the off chance something may be wrong I would be calling for an emergency visit to my OB, and NO ONE can force you to be induced if you really dont want one....
Started TTC in 2006, LOTS of trying, and trying, and 7 rounds of IVF with 13 embryos, 2 perfect little boys and 5 loses.... All finished with babies, started to make diet changes, Keto, to be MORE for my kids, lost 30 pounds, still going, and 3 months in, I had a natural cycle, and then ovulated... Hubs and I are going to see what happens now... Maybe a natural pregnancy? After everything we have been through? Or just a return to normal hormones? We shall see what the future holds!
Look all i did was ask advice and ive answered questions yall have asked me. If you have no advice and nothing positive to say then stay off the page. Im just asking for advice im only 20 and going to be a single mom. My dr. is having me come in tomorrow for observation and to monitor my daughter and then were going to go from there so ill post what she says and im going to ask her about IUGR
Look all i did was ask advice and ive answered questions yall have asked me. If you have no advice and nothing positive to say then stay off the page. Im just asking for advice im only 20 and going to be a single mom. My dr. is having me come in tomorrow for observation and to monitor my daughter and then were going to go from there so ill post what she says and im going to ask her about IUGR
Look all i did was ask advice and ive answered questions yall have asked me. If you have no advice and nothing positive to say then stay off the page. Im just asking for advice im only 20 and going to be a single mom. My dr. is having me come in tomorrow for observation and to monitor my daughter and then were going to go from there so ill post what she says and im going to ask her about IUGR
Being 20, being single, and being a first time mom, while difficult I'm sure, are not excuses for being uninformed and not advocating for yourself. If you're at the doctor's and you don't understand what's being done or said, you need to ask questions while you're there not rely on internet strangers after the fact. Your doctors can tell you about your own situation a lot better than we can.
We gave you good advice based on the limited, inconsistent information you've provided here. But a lot of what you've said doesn't make sense so it's all speculation at best, and it doesn't sound like you're really understanding what people are trying to tell you.
Either there is something important that you've left out of your story or you're about to get a completely unnecessary induction in a few days. You need to have a thorough discussion with the doctor at your appointment today. That's all any of us can tell you that is 100% accurate.
I talked to the ob again at labor and delivery they did an NST and an ultrasound on her and I asked her if it was IUGR she said no. My original dr got my due date wrong and come thursday i will be a week past my due date and so they are inducing me come friday morning at 6am. But she said monday after she looked at the ultrasound pictures and said that she wasnt measuring 35 weeks she is measuring over full term. Thank you for the advice.
I talkyOued to the ob again at labor and delivery they did an NST and an ultrasound on her and I asked her if it was IUGR she said no. My original dr got my due date wrong and come thursday i will be a week past my due date and so they are inducing me come friday morning at 6am. But she said monday after she looked at the ultrasound pictures and said that she wasnt measuring 35 weeks she is measuring over full term. Thank you for the advice.
JFC - you were measuring a month behind and now you're overdue? And someone missed 6 weeks of estimated growth the first time they looked at the ultrasound? Both you and that OB sound like idiots.
I dont know. and calling me fucking stupid really u need to check urself im just saying what the dr said. If ur that ignorant of a person replying and posting that then u need to just STFU. thank you
I dont know. and calling me fucking stupid really u need to check urself im just saying what the dr said. If ur that ignorant of a person replying and posting that then u need to just STFU. thank you
A responsible OB is not going to change your due date based off an u/s done in 3rd Tri or have as much crazy going on as you described in this post @Serenitymay8. Nor should they schedule an induction based off a single growth scan. Growth scans are notoriously inaccurate in 3rd Tri. And how the hell does an OB get the due date wrong by several weeks and not catch it till you're a few weeks from term?
You need to educate yourself about what proper care is before your baby gets here. You either have an exceptionally stupid OB or you are grossly misunderstanding/misinterpreting everything your OB says.
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A responsible OB is not going to change your due date based off an u/s done in 3rd Tri or have as much crazy going on as you described in this post @Serenitymay8. Nor should they schedule an induction based off a single growth scan. Growth scans are notoriously inaccurate in 3rd Tri. And how the hell does an OB get the due date wrong by several weeks and not catch it till you're a few weeks from term?
You need to educate yourself about what proper care is before your baby gets here. You either have an exceptionally stupid OB or you are grossly misunderstanding/misinterpreting everything your OB says.
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All of this. Especially the bolded.
I didn't think it was possible for this whole thing to make even less sense than it already did, but there you go. Do you truly not see how none of this sounds right at all?! Have you really managed to stay this uninformed for the last 8 or 9 months?
I dont know. and calling me fucking stupid really u need to check urself im just saying what the dr said. If ur that ignorant of a person replying and posting that then u need to just STFU. thank you
@serenitymay8 carefull, there's a bunch of trolls around here. Dont take anything you read in this communities very seriously, there's a few people here that have either no life or sex and try to get in your nerves to make you as unhappy and frustrated as they are.
My OPINION on your issue is to get an extra opinion from another Dr if possible. Sometimes it's complicated to get transfered to another OB due to liability issues but you could give it a try. In most cases they have a team of Dr.'s ask if you could see someone else in the same Drs offic you've been going to.
Good Luck
"Don't worry about the haters... They are just angry because the truth you speak contradicts the lie they live."
I dont know. and calling me fucking stupid really u need to check urself im just saying what the dr said. If ur that ignorant of a person replying and posting that then u need to just STFU. thank you
@serenitymay8 carefull, there's a bunch of trolls around here. Dont take anything you read in this communities very seriously, there's a few people here that have either no life or sex and try to get in your nerves to make you as unhappy and frustrated as they are.
My OPINION on your issue is to get an extra opinion from another Dr if possible. Sometimes it's complicated to get transfered to another OB due to liability issues but you could give it a try. In most cases they have a team of Dr.'s ask if you could see someone else in the same Drs offic you've been going to.
Good Luck
Yes, god forbid anyone give her the advice she asked for and try to prevent anything harmful from happening unnecessarily to her and her baby. What bitches.
@jessig13826 , I am really getting sick and tired of you. You are going all over the place spreading potentially dangerous misinformation because you have NO clue what you're talking about and are highly uneducated. Meanwhile, you call the people who have real and correct answers trolls. Honey, you have no idea what a troll is. If you need a little help you can't look in the mirror, YOU are the troll. Shut the fuck up and go the hell away if you are going to continue to instigate arguments with the people who are giving factual answers. They are not trolls just because you act like an idiot.
I dont know. and calling me fucking stupid really u need to check urself im just saying what the dr said. If ur that ignorant of a person replying and posting that then u need to just STFU. thank you
@serenitymay8 carefull, there's a bunch of trolls around here. Dont take anything you read in this communities very seriously, there's a few people here that have either no life or sex and try to get in your nerves to make you as unhappy and frustrated as they are.
My OPINION on your issue is to get an extra opinion from another Dr if possible. Sometimes it's complicated to get transfered to another OB due to liability issues but you could give it a try. In most cases they have a team of Dr.'s ask if you could see someone else in the same Drs offic you've been going to.
Good Luck
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Well aren't you sweet? Sounds like you got a little butthurt over something silly before this.
She should definitely take the advice given to her seriously and she will, if she has any common sense. If what she wrote is true and not a misunderstanding on her part she is with a horrible OB. She should not go forward with an induction till the questions are answered. Especially with the EDD disrepancies. What happens if she induces now that she's "overdue" only to find out her idiot OB was wrong again and her baby isn't even full term? The whole thing is just ridiculous and risks her health and her baby's. If that makes me a miserable troll for saying so I'll gladly own the title.
Telling her to disregard good advice and opinions just because of the snark mixed in (andplusalso your slamming of other PPs) is a lot worse than what the "trolls" said.
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It was an er dr. that told me she was measuring 35 weeks instead of 38 weeks.
But wait then you said....
she was an ob dr. on call for labor and delivery i wasnt in the er i was in labor and delivery in washington regional.
So it was an ER doctor... but you weren't in the ER...
And by the way, hun, being 20 doesnt excuse you from knowing things and making sure you understand what is going on. I'm 20 and I make damn sure that I understand everything the doctor has told me before I leave every appointment. As a PP said, I'd rather have my OB double and triple check where my babies' heads are, than be surprised come delivery day and have something go wrong.
You need to sit down with your OB and make sure you 100% understand exactly what theyare telling you, and if the situation really is as JACKED UP as you are telling it to be, then you need another opinion. If it isn't and this is all just you misunderstanding what you are bing told, you need to pay more attention to the doc and ASK MORE QUESTIONS.
ETA these ladies are truly trying to give you good advice. yeah we can all be snarky, salty hoes, but under that they are truly trying to help and are concerned for you and LOs well being. Take what they say to heart.
I dont know. and calling me fucking stupid really u need to check urself im just saying what the dr said. If ur that ignorant of a person replying and posting that then u need to just STFU. thank you
@serenitymay8 carefull, there's a bunch of trolls around here. Dont take anything you read in this communities very seriously, there's a few people here that have either no life or sex and try to get in your nerves to make you as unhappy and frustrated as they are.
My OPINION on your issue is to get an extra opinion from another Dr if possible. Sometimes it's complicated to get transfered to another OB due to liability issues but you could give it a try. In most cases they have a team of Dr.'s ask if you could see someone else in the same Drs offic you've been going to.
Re: Induction at 39 weeks
These concerns are things you really need to address with your practitioner. Is it possible to make an appointment to discuss with them to make sure you fully understand what's going on? Or bring it up at your next appointment before the induction, if you have one already scheduled?
IUGR = Intra-uterine growth restriction. I don't know much about it beyond that one of the diagnostics is a baby measuring less than the 10th percentile. They can induce early for that diagnosis. But that's not something that would just randomly appear out of nowhere.
You really need to ask more questions and not leave your appointment on Monday until things are clear because this doesn't add up.
I'd be very hesitant to induce based on one u/s, as there is a level of human error involved. If you haven't consistently been measuring small, which I'm assuming is the case, then there's not really any need to induce.
I was diagnosed with IUGR, my DD consistently measured between the 4-5th percentile. I had several ultrasounds and was monitored the entire pregnancy before ultimately being induced at 38 weeks because her weight was estimated at 4lbs.
Why are you just now deciding not to go with your OB? I find it hard to believe that him not being able to determine if it's a head is worthy of changing OBs this late in the game.
This whole thing is just bizarre.
My doc couldn't find the HB on the Doppler on the first try, should I change docs?
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
Married 1/2/99.
TTC since 4/09.
Diagnosed PCOS. Diagnosed Hypothryoid 11/09.
SHG & SA normal. PCOS Research study started 5/10.
Clomid/Femara cycle #1 - 6/10 = BFN
Clomid/Femara cycle #2 - 7/10 = BFP #1 - Missed miscarriage 9/2/10
11/12 - BFP #2 - 11/22 - m/c
5/1/11 - BFP #3 - Pre-eclampsia, IUGR & bed rest from 32w. DD born via induction 1/4/12.
If you don't like your OB based on one check and the opinion of a random ER doc, get a new OB opinion. And I'd rather have my OB be sure my baby is head down by checking a few times to be absolutely sure, since at this point in the game it would change the course of action.
Why were you at the ER in the first place? What else is wrong?
Started TTC in 2006, LOTS of trying, and trying, and 7 rounds of IVF with 13 embryos, 2 perfect little boys and 5 loses....
All finished with babies, started to make diet changes, Keto, to be MORE for my kids, lost 30 pounds, still going, and 3 months in, I had a natural cycle, and then ovulated... Hubs and I are going to see what happens now... Maybe a natural pregnancy? After everything we have been through? Or just a return to normal hormones? We shall see what the future holds!
Baby Dust To All!!!
We gave you good advice based on the limited, inconsistent information you've provided here. But a lot of what you've said doesn't make sense so it's all speculation at best, and it doesn't sound like you're really understanding what people are trying to tell you.
Either there is something important that you've left out of your story or you're about to get a completely unnecessary induction in a few days. You need to have a thorough discussion with the doctor at your appointment today. That's all any of us can tell you that is 100% accurate.
You need to educate yourself about what proper care is before your baby gets here. You either have an exceptionally stupid OB or you are grossly misunderstanding/misinterpreting everything your OB says.
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I didn't think it was possible for this whole thing to make even less sense than it already did, but there you go. Do you truly not see how none of this sounds right at all?! Have you really managed to stay this uninformed for the last 8 or 9 months?
@serenitymay8 carefull, there's a bunch of trolls around here. Dont take anything you read in this communities very seriously, there's a few people here that have either no life or sex and try to get in your nerves to make you as unhappy and frustrated as they are.
My OPINION on your issue is to get an extra opinion from another Dr if possible. Sometimes it's complicated to get transfered to another OB due to liability issues but you could give it a try. In most cases they have a team of Dr.'s ask if you could see someone else in the same Drs offic you've been going to.
Good Luck
"Don't worry about the haters... They are just angry because the truth you speak contradicts the lie they live."
-Dr. Steve Maraboli
@serenitymay8 carefull, there's a bunch of trolls around here. Dont take anything you read in this communities very seriously, there's a few people here that have either no life or sex and try to get in your nerves to make you as unhappy and frustrated as they are.
My OPINION on your issue is to get an extra opinion from another Dr if possible. Sometimes it's complicated to get transfered to another OB due to liability issues but you could give it a try. In most cases they have a team of Dr.'s ask if you could see someone else in the same Drs offic you've been going to.
Good Luck
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Well aren't you sweet? Sounds like you got a little butthurt over something silly before this.
She should definitely take the advice given to her seriously and she will, if she has any common sense. If what she wrote is true and not a misunderstanding on her part she is with a horrible OB. She should not go forward with an induction till the questions are answered. Especially with the EDD disrepancies. What happens if she induces now that she's "overdue" only to find out her idiot OB was wrong again and her baby isn't even full term? The whole thing is just ridiculous and risks her health and her baby's. If that makes me a miserable troll for saying so I'll gladly own the title.
Telling her to disregard good advice and opinions just because of the snark mixed in (andplusalso your slamming of other PPs) is a lot worse than what the "trolls" said.