Inequality for all!!!
Okay, I live in California, one of those 13 states that have
laws that require insurance companies to provide infertility coverage leaving
out IVF. However, the state healthcare program has a different “view” on
infertility or “family planning” coverage. I get it, don't want to promote more women to be welfare queens. That term should be on the list of swear words, right up there with F***, and C***! It’s very frustrating! All I have
access to is a family history, lab work, and birth control. I’m currently going
through a gantlet of tests. We were hoping it would be a condition easily
treated and covered, like hypothyroidism and/or endometriosis. I’m disabled, I can’t go to work, and I won’t
ever get a corner office with an HMO that can pay for a few rounds of meds in
the hopes it works. Believe me, I would gladly be working full time at McDonald's if it could get me off "The System" another foul word. DH is worried what the final diagnosis is going to be. He
seems to think that if the news is bad, he will have to have me under a 72 hour
psych evaluation. I personally don’t know; this has been a dream of mine since
I was a little girl, and I refuse to let it go. DH does not qualify for
insurance from work, and it wouldn’t cover me anyway. POOP!
Sorry just very frustrated and needed to vent. My dear family is a little over saturated with my venting at the moment and wants a break.
Re: Insurance (vent)
Waited a long time, tried a lot of stuff, science made me a mom.
@jjgrl55, Right DH doesn’t currently have any insurance, we are hoping for a promotion that would give him benefits, but for legal reasons I would still not be able to get IF coverage, however little, through it.
I was even looking on the covered California site trying to find if I could buy a policy for myself so I could have coverage just for it. With no luck, it’s not even listed… grrr. I have MediCal (California’s version of the welfare program, Medicaid) and Medicare, which gives me coverage for my doctor visits, ER and hospital visits, and vision care. I have no dental, which I do have need of, but have to buy my own separate policy, also grrr.
Personal note, if you haven’t seen my other post, I was hit in the head by one of my parents when I was 3 months old. (DA told my grandmother that had the blow been either a centimeter to the left or right I would have died. I had blood in my nose, behind my ear, and retinal bleeding in my right eye.) So I have been on MediCal since I was transferred to California as a Ward of the court. I ended up with Fibromyalgia which the pain started in 2006, didn’t get a clear diagnosis until years later, and only just managed to get Social Security Disability income granted in 2012. So, I’ve been on “the system” my whole life, not by choice. With all my struggles I had to choose which dreams and goals in life to let go, or hold on to.
This past week I’ve had blood tests that all came back normal, and an exploratory surgery scheduled next month which is covered, but my GYN thinks that I will need Clomid, which will have to be 100% out-of-pocket.
Today has just been a very bad day. I spent a few hours in an ICU waiting room to hear news of my Uncle. For both of my Dad's brothers (who are republican) the ACA has really helped them, or both of them would be in the grave already. However, one may only have months weeks or days. He's only 40.
My stress level is a bit worn
today.
DH: 9/1986
Together 1/2011
Chemical pregnancy: 8/2009
On a good note Clomid is a fairly inexpensive drug. The monitoring with it , however, can be costly. But a lot of OBs and REs are able to code the ultrasound and lab monitoring as necessary instead of fertility. Hopefully for you that's the case.
Best of luck getting your testing under way!
********Siggy/Ticker Warning***********
Me (35) no known issues DH (37) MFI. TTC 21 months (24 cycles)
Dx MFI with low to normal count, low motility, morphology 3%
HSG normal, ultrasound and labs on me all normal.
1 cycle of Clomid 50mg and TI, unmonitored by OBGYN= BFN
1 cycle of Clomid 50mg and IUI, unmonitored by OBGYN= BFN
Started seeing an RE!!
2 more cycles of clomid 50mg (great response), with IUI and Pregnyl trigger (4.8-8 mil good ones after wash) = all BFN
1 cycle of clomid 50mg (3-7) followed by Follistim 75iu (7-11) + IUI = BFN
December 2013 DH saw urologist and is taking Anastrozole, CoQ10, and L-Carnitine
IUI #5 natural cycle (needed a med break) = BFN
IUI #6 Follistim 75iu (CD3-10) + Pregnyl (CD11) + IUI (final count after wash 300K) = BFN
IUI #7 Follistim 75iu (CD3-9) + Pregnyl (CD11) + IUI on 2/20 (post wash count 12.5 million)= BFN
IUI cancelled (DH OOT) Clomid 50mg (CD3-7) 1 follicle +(not well timed) TI = BFN
IUI #8 and last one!! Clomid 100mg (CD3-7) +OPK before US + IUI 4/17 (post wash 8.5 mil)= BFN
Pre-IVF testing complete! SHG great and measurements taken! Labs for infectious diseases completed, FSH (5.4), TSH (1.6), Prolactin (11), AMH (2.6), Estradiol (40).
Started BCP 5/29 and Lupron 6/11 prep for IVF #1! Started follistim 225u/day on 6/28. Monitoring on 7/2 >15 follicles measuring 11-14, E2 758. Monitoring on 7/5 all ready to go!! Great follicle sizes and lining is at 9. Tigger 7/5, ER 7/7 16R 9M 3F. Stimmed too fast in just 7 days. 7/10 3dt of 2 8-cell grade 2 & 4. 7/14 P4 >60.
Holy crap BFP!!!
Beta #1 (14dpo) 7/21 112 Beta #2 (16dpo) 7/23 286 a Beta #3 (18dpo) 7/25 761 Beta #4 (21dpo) 2631!!! Hold on tight little embies!! First Ultrasound 8/7- 1 perfect little bean with a beating heart 117bpm!! EDD 3/30.
Second ultrasound 9/2 Little bean measuring a few days ahead with a heart rate of 161!
PAIF/SAIF/All Welcome!
March 15 Siggy Challenge: You had one job
DH: 9/1986
Together 1/2011
Chemical pregnancy: 8/2009
********Siggy/Ticker Warning***********
Me (35) no known issues DH (37) MFI. TTC 21 months (24 cycles)
Dx MFI with low to normal count, low motility, morphology 3%
HSG normal, ultrasound and labs on me all normal.
1 cycle of Clomid 50mg and TI, unmonitored by OBGYN= BFN
1 cycle of Clomid 50mg and IUI, unmonitored by OBGYN= BFN
Started seeing an RE!!
2 more cycles of clomid 50mg (great response), with IUI and Pregnyl trigger (4.8-8 mil good ones after wash) = all BFN
1 cycle of clomid 50mg (3-7) followed by Follistim 75iu (7-11) + IUI = BFN
December 2013 DH saw urologist and is taking Anastrozole, CoQ10, and L-Carnitine
IUI #5 natural cycle (needed a med break) = BFN
IUI #6 Follistim 75iu (CD3-10) + Pregnyl (CD11) + IUI (final count after wash 300K) = BFN
IUI #7 Follistim 75iu (CD3-9) + Pregnyl (CD11) + IUI on 2/20 (post wash count 12.5 million)= BFN
IUI cancelled (DH OOT) Clomid 50mg (CD3-7) 1 follicle +(not well timed) TI = BFN
IUI #8 and last one!! Clomid 100mg (CD3-7) +OPK before US + IUI 4/17 (post wash 8.5 mil)= BFN
Pre-IVF testing complete! SHG great and measurements taken! Labs for infectious diseases completed, FSH (5.4), TSH (1.6), Prolactin (11), AMH (2.6), Estradiol (40).
Started BCP 5/29 and Lupron 6/11 prep for IVF #1! Started follistim 225u/day on 6/28. Monitoring on 7/2 >15 follicles measuring 11-14, E2 758. Monitoring on 7/5 all ready to go!! Great follicle sizes and lining is at 9. Tigger 7/5, ER 7/7 16R 9M 3F. Stimmed too fast in just 7 days. 7/10 3dt of 2 8-cell grade 2 & 4. 7/14 P4 >60.
Holy crap BFP!!!
Beta #1 (14dpo) 7/21 112 Beta #2 (16dpo) 7/23 286 a Beta #3 (18dpo) 7/25 761 Beta #4 (21dpo) 2631!!! Hold on tight little embies!! First Ultrasound 8/7- 1 perfect little bean with a beating heart 117bpm!! EDD 3/30.
Second ultrasound 9/2 Little bean measuring a few days ahead with a heart rate of 161!
PAIF/SAIF/All Welcome!
March 15 Siggy Challenge: You had one job
The pictures on my last reply are the California law for Insurance to offer coverage, and the Coverage offered to those on Medicare/Medicaid.
DH: 9/1986
Together 1/2011
Chemical pregnancy: 8/2009