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MoFreeMoFree member
edited April 2014 in Success after IF
I hope this isn't too personal but is anyone currently or previously been prescribed antidepressants? I have not been able to shake the feelings of sadness, anger, resentment and other negative emotions since my unsuccessful FET in February. I hate the feeling that everyone but me was invited to the party.

I don't want my LO growing up with a depressed, angry mother but these ugly feelings are back in full force and I can't seem to get past them.

I am awaiting a call back from the therapist I saw for IF and marital issues. I need her and probably a scrip for Zoloft to be able to appreciate what I have rather than what I don't and may never have.
TTC since 3-08 IVF # 1 Dec 2011 BFP DD born at 31 weeks 6-24-12

FET #1 Dec 2013 BFN

FET # 2 Feb 2014 BFN

No more frosties

IVF #2. September 2014

PGD yielded 2 perfect 5d blasts

SET November 9, 2014
Nov 23, 2014. Another BFN

Not sure where to go from here.

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    kmc84kmc84 member
    I was on Lexapro for 2-3 months a little over two years ago. I definitely had a situational depression. (My mom had been diagnosed with breast cancer and died very suddenly as an indirect result of her very first chemo treatment, her LONG time SO died three weeks later, a woman I consider my 'second' mom was diagnosed with breast cancer the week after my mom died).

    My PCP was great, and the Lexapro helped me get my head on straight. I didn't notice any side effects from it, which was something I was afraid of. I think it's great that you are being proactive about your health. ((Hugs))
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    TTC# 1 since 5/10
    Me:34 Type 1 Diabetes, Ankylosing Spondylitis, Hypothyroid DH:35 Perfect
    DX: Unexplained IF
    Many IUI's with various meds all BFFN
    IVF #1 11/11 canceled due to OHSS
    IVF #2 Feb/March 2012 ET of 2 on day 3 4/7 BFP! 5/1 u/s blighted ovum
    IVF #3 July 2012 ET of 3 on day 3 7/24 BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w4d on 3/9/13

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    IVF #4 May/June 2014 ER 6/4 18R 8M 8F ET 6/9 1 blast, 2 frosties
    Beta 6/18 BFFN

    FET of 2 blasts 7/24...BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w3d on 3/17/15

    TTC#3
    IVF #5 June 2018- PGS planned, no surviving embryos
    IVF #6 August 2018- ET of 2 on day 3 - Chemical pregnancy
    IVF #7 August 2019-....?
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    I was on Paxil for anxiety and depression for years. I strongly discourage that particular drug. But I strongly encourage you to get help if you need it. There is no shame. Hugs Mo. I'm always around via PM if you need anything.
    TTC with PCOS since November 2009
    IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
    IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
    IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
    beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
    beta #2 11/28 = 2055
    Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
    Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
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    kbeach82kbeach82 member
    edited April 2014
    I have also taken Lexapro and had good results. I have a history of depression that started in my teens and has required treatment on and off. Lexapro in particular helped me get through my PPD after the birth of DS1. My PCP wrote me a prescription for it shortly before I was due with the twins and I started taking it the day after I gave birth. I am so glad that I made that choice. I still take 10mg daily and don't have any side effects. It helps me to be a happier, healthier mommy for my children, and a less anxious partner for my DH. I hope you get the help you need soon. ((HUGS))

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    V born via induction 4.29.11

    TTC #2: IVF (MDLF) August/September 2012

    ER 9/7: 6R, 5M, 4F ET 9/12: 5dt of 2 blasts 

    +HPT 9/17! Beta #1 (9/25) = 1,000 Beta #2 (9/27) = 1,860 U/S #1 (10/11)...TWINS!

    1/8/13 - It's a..boy and a girl!!   

     

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    I have in the past taken St. John's Wort, I like it cuz it was effective and natural. It is a mild antidepressant, but if you pair it with counseling I think it can be very affective. That's what I used after my third miscarriage before I had Hannah.
    Diagonsed PCOS TTC since May 2009
    First M/C December 2010 Second M/C August 2011
    Oct 2011~Second round clomid 50 mg; BFN
    Nov 2011~Third round clomid 50 mg: BFP
    Dec 11- Beta #1 91;Dec 13- Beta #2 186.2
    Dec 27- third miscarriage
    May 25th- Beta #1 369;May 27th- Beta #2 798
    Baby girl born Jan 23, 9lbs 3oz, 21 1/2" long
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    I've taken zoloft in the past and paired it with therapy sessions.  It was highly effective for me.  I found that therapy was a blessing in disguise - I initially hated it, but being able to go and talk to someone unbiased was amazing.  My therapist was able to get me to confront my feelings and figure out how to get past them. 
    Married on October 20, 2012.  Began trying in January 2013.
    RE appointment & testing December 2013 - February 2014= Unexplained IF, possible endometriosis
    IUI#1- March 22 (100mg clomid, 75 mg of Bravelle, Ovidrel trigger) = BFP!!!



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    Huge hugs mama. Ive been thinking about you a lot lately and wondering how you have been feeling. I have taken Lexapro in the past. It was extremely helpful and less side effects than Zoloft. Good for you for reaching out.
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    I too have taken Lexapro in the past.  It was a Godsend for me.  No shame in it....depression is an illness too.....  Good luck... hope things turn around for you soon!
    Me 35, DH 36
    TTC summer 2008
    Diagnose me. DOR, DH perfect
    IUI # 1 6/2010, BFN
    IUI # 2 8/2010, BFN
    IVF # 1 10/2010 Canceled poor response
    IVF 1.2 12/2010 BFP! mc 6 weeks 2 days
    Mental health break for 10 months
    IVF # 2 10/2011 BFN
    IVF # 3 5/2012 BFP! 10 eggs retrieved (best ever)
    7 fertilized transferred 3
    Beta #1 14dpo - 72, Beta #2 17dpo 145 Beta 3 20dpo 521
    First u/s June 15 saw HB 126 bpm missed m/c 7/5/12 10 weeks D&C 7/6/12
    IVF#4 ER 9/30 ET 10/3 Beta 10/16 BFFN. IVF #5 final with o/e. ER 1/21 only 1 retrieved, hoping my lonestar is the one. Beta #1 2/6/13 = 209.... please let this be it! Keep growing lonestar! Beta #2 2/8/13 - 586! , Beta #3 2/10/13 = 1898. First u/s perfect little heart beat at 116 bpm. Measure 6 weeks 1 day. EDD 10/14/13
    3/4/13 measuring right on track beautiful heartbeat 171 bpm, graduated from RE to OB... bittersweet.
    PAIF/SAIF always welcome! Its a girl! 

    Maggie Grace is here!  10/5/13... 8lbs 6 ounces of pure joy!

    TTC#2  No birth control since DD was born.  Getting ready to jump back in the saddle.  Weaning this month. RE
    appt scheduled 5/8.   Here we go again!

    IFV# 6.  10/27  6 retrieved 4 mature 3 fertilized.  2 made it to 3dt 10/30. 1"very pretty 8 cell" and 1 6 cell.  Beta
    11/13.   Please stick embies!!!!  We love you so much already! 11/12/14  POAS, BFP... beta tomorrow!
    11/13 beta #1  924!!!  2nd bet 11/15 1906, one more on 11/17 3rd & final beta 3430.  First u/s 12/5, 7w4d, 2 heartbeats,
    both measuring right on track....2nd u/s... all is well... both beans measuring right on track... released from RE... first
    appointment with MFM 1/5.  Looks like this is really happening!

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