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we got a kitty!

So, this weekend we went to the local shelter to just "look" for a friend for our very social cat.  Current cat is 2 years old and very smart and social.  We have been feeling like he needs a friend for a while, but thought that since we are trying for a baby, maybe 2 cats plus a baby is too much.  However, we just renovated our apartment and had to move out for 3 weeks.  During this time our cat lived with my in-laws and their grumpy cat.  Our cat was soooo persistant and wants to play with her and she didn't want anything to do with him.  The sweetie just was so patient.  When we got home, we felt so bad that he's all alone.  He's always doing things like knocking things off the counter, looking for something to do.

We found a perfect kitty and surprised ourselves by walking home with him from the shelter on our very first day of looking.  We brought him home Sunday night.  He is a year old but is TINY!  He's only 8 pounds and is super playful and cuddly.  I have him in the bathroom for a week for quarantine/health reasons, and last night I was cuddling with him and he FELL ASLEEP ON MY LAP - CUTENESS!!!  I have so much love for him, falling so hard for him.  Feels good. :)

Hopeful that maybe this motherly love for a cat will feed the universal "ears" and I'll get a human baby to use my motherly love on even more! ;)
TTC#1 since Aug 2013, I'm 37, DH 41.  
Maya Arvigo Abdominal massage (daily self care), plus TTC meditations.
I'm very sensitive to diet (gluten, avoid processed foods) and environment. Have a history of inflammation and tendinitis before going off gluten in 2009.  
July 2014 - RE Visit #1: Eggs look good, Endometrioma on R ovary, HSG showed blocked R tube close to ovary. DH SA normal 
DX: Endometriosis probably the IF cause and gunking up tubes.  Since egg reserve is high, RE says I can wait a couple months and then get laproscopic surgery to remove endo & clear tube.  If that doesn't help then move to IVF. 
Dec 2014 - Saw new RE - does not recommend surgery on tube as it isn't likely to help.  Doubts I have endometriosis.  My endometrioma shrunk to neglible size (yay!) 
Seriously considering IVF in March/April
12/17/14 - Natural BFP! 

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  • Yay for a new kitty! I am a hardcore animal lover. I have 5 chihuahuas and 2 cats! For awhile I had 2 chickens, but I live in the city limits and couldn't have a rooster. LoL

    Let's hope this kitty brings some baby luck with it! :)

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  • Aww congrats on a kitty!! We need to see pictures :)

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    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • Congrats!  My cat became a happier animal when he got a friend. 
  • "looking" is dangerous :)  We ended up with two kitties that way.  Love them!
  • Hooray for rescue pets! I agree: pictures please!

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    Congratulations! Kittens are so cute. I would have one if they didn't irritate my allergies.
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  • Pics delivered!!  So our current kitty is the one with the floor and rug in the background. The new kitty is half the size of current kitty.  Here he is in the cage in the shelter, and then 3 pix of him sleeping on my lap in the quarantined bathroom. :) 
    TTC#1 since Aug 2013, I'm 37, DH 41.  
    Maya Arvigo Abdominal massage (daily self care), plus TTC meditations.
    I'm very sensitive to diet (gluten, avoid processed foods) and environment. Have a history of inflammation and tendinitis before going off gluten in 2009.  
    July 2014 - RE Visit #1: Eggs look good, Endometrioma on R ovary, HSG showed blocked R tube close to ovary. DH SA normal 
    DX: Endometriosis probably the IF cause and gunking up tubes.  Since egg reserve is high, RE says I can wait a couple months and then get laproscopic surgery to remove endo & clear tube.  If that doesn't help then move to IVF. 
    Dec 2014 - Saw new RE - does not recommend surgery on tube as it isn't likely to help.  Doubts I have endometriosis.  My endometrioma shrunk to neglible size (yay!) 
    Seriously considering IVF in March/April
    12/17/14 - Natural BFP! 
  • So cute :)

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • Very cute--I hope he settles into the household smoothly.   Enjoy!
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    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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