It's not ganging up, it's we all see a liar and a one upper when we see one. The "LOOK AT ME" shit is old, the excuses and exaggerations are old. It's one thing to be young and naive. It's one thing to not listen and get your ass handed to you. But it's a whole other ball park to keep crying over the same shit. If you guys have really been trying for three years (or four- however you math) and you doctor doesn't do an SA, the only thing we can figure is that is a lie- either you got some clomid on the black market and hoping that does the trick behind your hub's back or there is something else going on bc NOTHING YOU SAY MAKES ANY SENSE. You are completely clueless and lack any intellect on the infertility you supposedly suffer from- obviously we think you are a troll and wish you would crawl back into the cave you came from and stop eating up this boards time. We have real losses, problems, and issues. Screw your head on straight once you get it out of your ass.
January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this! June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
November 2010- FAILED FET! BS! January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world! November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs) April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs. FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP BABY BOYVINCENT!
We can't wait to meet you! Conception: Potato Love!
Like @Momarazzi007 said, what you're saying makes no sense. It sounds made-up. I hope that's the case because if it's real, you and your dr are both being foolish and reckless.
Happily Mrs. C
start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
Hoping holistic approach works!!!
BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!
Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
Back on metformin Aug 2013
Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw,and red raspberry leaf
DS weaned in April 2014
Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.
Planning medicated cycle end of summer. FX I get KU before then!!!
Honestly, given where she lives and that she is seeing an OB, the OB story seems sadly normal to me. I had to push for a S/A with an OB with my oldest.
My bf has pcos w endo and they did SA first before they would put her on clomid knowing she had to be treated no matter what to see if it was worth it- you can only do so much of it. She never saw RE and I know many other women who are OB only and not a one was able to move forward w/o checking the male factor of the equation. It is medical negligence and 36 cycles later should be malpractice. My bff's husband never had mfi and this round has had to do SA again before being told clomid would be route of choice again. When asked if he HAD to do it bc of previous experience- what did OB say? It is STANDARD PROCEEDURE to retest SA FIRST to make sure they aren't fighting decreased semen production in addition to her known issues. Apparently where you live medicine is practiced differently and the risk of lawsuit for unnecessary medication isn't a factor. I'd be interested in seeing the malpractice statistics... That and am teetering on being beyond impressed they are getting more hours billed and kick backs from pharmaceutical companies for not diagnosing both parties and prolonging treatment through not doing proper and timely testing. Boom.
January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this! June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
November 2010- FAILED FET! BS! January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world! November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs) April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs. FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP BABY BOYVINCENT!
We can't wait to meet you! Conception: Potato Love!
*shrugs* my OB ordered DHs SA before he would do any testing on me at all (aside from blood work). He said there was absolutely no point in treating me until we knew what DH was working with. This was before we even got an RE referral- DH did the SA and visited the urologist first.
Re: cycle#35 suck it
my bad.
Thanks for all ganging up at once, there was a lot of useful info in there...
and FWIW, I too don't know what PO stands for....
Don't forget to go back and edit the other gazillion posts where you said 4 years instead of 3.....
Take a hint, grow up and PO since you can't seem to answer any questions or tell the truth!
Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017
June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
BABY BOY VINCENT!
We can't wait to meet you!
Conception:
Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017
June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
BABY BOY VINCENT!
We can't wait to meet you!
Conception:
Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017
Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017