Op edited her post. She wanted us to tell her how easy it would be for her to get sole custody because her ex is filing for joint. I need to remember to quote for proof
MamaUnicorn said:I honestly didn't think your first response was that snarky.
I honestly didn't think your first response was that snarky.
My X is a convicted pedophile.I have full legal and physical custody, but I cannot terminate his rights.Ask a legal professional what your options are and don't presume that a blunt answer is the same as a insensitive one. The first thing we tell every person when asked a legal question is to ask a LEGAL professional in your STATE. We have all been through shit, nobody minimized yours don't pretend like you are the first to get here. Honestly, this journey is hard and REAL! It will not do you any good if we pussyfoot around. That is why we are realistic when we answer. ETA: I am not trying to scare you away, just telling you that sometimes the best help is hard to hear. Don't attack us because it is harsh. Shake it off, put on a helmet and get ready to fight for your kid and your happiness. Welcome to SP!
If you are looking at a big battle you may want to change your SN to be more incognito. Then you can share more without feeling as worried.