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Ugh. Loss mentioned.

haileyqhaileyq member
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I'm not sure really the most appropriate place to post this, I was doing the Pact Grads check in but it feels weird to post this there with all the excited mommas... so here it goes.

I knew I was just feeling too good for it to be true, so at work 2 days ago I had one of the docs US me and our machine is crummy used mostly for IV starts, so he told me 12 weeks was really early to see anything. He didn't see a heartbeat but wasn't worried because of that. However, it didn't look like a 12 weeker to me, it looked more like 9. So I went in for an US with my OB the next day and sure enough, missed m/c at 9w4d.

I was completely devastated until a few hours later when my SIL called and they discovered some birth defects on her A/S. Now I just feel like the lucky one, at least we get to try again for a healthy baby. This is just a really bad time for my whole family it turns out.

So, I'm taking Cytotec trying to pass everything and hoping I can avoid a D&C, trying to still be there for my brother's family. I guess this puts me back on the Preggie Pact check in! Thanks for anyone who read to the end. Loss isn't fun but we all know it does happen. I just keep loving up my 13 month old!
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