Okay, this is going to be EXTREMELY touchy. If I am way off base here, please feel free to flame me/correct me/put me in my place.
I have been stewing about the TTC posts on this board. What I am concerned about, is there are some women who are OAD Not By Choice on here, and I am concerned that it might be hurtful to them to hear about people making the choice to expand their families.
This might be their only "safe haven" from people having more children and fertility talk so-to-speak.
If I were OAD not by choice, I would assume the talk on OAD is about being OAD and the benefits/negatives and some discussion around making decisions, but I just want to caution people that your happy news might upset some people.
I am really touchy about it coming from the loss boards, so again, if I am off-base here, please call me on it.
I get that this is life, and that people will hop off of this board, I am simply saying that we should keep those in mind that might be here from different circumstances. That is all. For the regulars, we WANT to know your thoughts and feelings and how you are doing, but this is a OAD board after all.
(@JackofTheBox, I know you, and that you are going to think this is 100% directed at you and it is not, it is about the potential for what could happen in the future with newbies not understanding that you are a beloved part of this board and the one who really got this board talking in the first place).
I am just asking people to keep that in their minds as they make posts in the future. That is all.