Update

reinedecajun

So I know a lot of you seen my fb post about just having a bad day and just wanted to update that I am awaiting a chemical pregnancy. I have been a poas`aholic because before I had Frankie I had another another chemical and my test consistently got lighter until I eventually tested negative and then began to bleed.

The same thing has happened this week all my test since Wednesday have progressively gotten lighter and today the line.is barely there. At 21dpo my line should be much more visible. I'm not calling the dr because like before I know they'll just tell me to wait and come in for betas and tell me to wait some more.

For now im not bleeding or anything im literally just waiting. Im going to keep testing until its negative so I know whats going on. But thats my update and well see..heres this morning's test.

Boing214

That sucks, I'm sorry. :-(

britbratjf

Sorry lady

lada85

I'm sorry . Keep us updated.

reinedecajun

bellaxanthe said:

Awh hun - I am so very sorry. I know you were so excited and we were excited along with you. Is there anything we can do?

Just being able to at least have y'all to talk to is enough
I think I really need to decide if this is something im willing to go through again. Just the stress already in one month of trying has been redic and killed our sex life, except for the green light days of course. Im just overwhelmed right now

zyas

I'm so sorry Cajun!

bumpuser1509193

I'm so sorry

aylafsu88

Hugs! I am so sorry.

Tink522

I'm so sorry. Hugs to you

Pleione

I'm sorry. Hang in there.

cwm11985

I'm sorry

versed

So sorry

nesenotes

I'm sorry cajun! Big hugs!

lilahbean13

Oh reindeer please keep us updated. So sorry you're having a bad day

alphahelix

I'm so sorry, Cajun. Take care of yourself.

julymommy12

Oh no I am so sorry to hear this. Stay strong.

adorebella

I'm sorry you're going through this.

ThePinkSuperhero

Sorry dear

Barefoot84

I'm horribly sorry you're going through this. We're here to talk to/vent anytime you need us.

reinedecajun

So still hanging on, with low levels. I think im going to go ahead and call the ob tomorrow.

snickersforeveryone

I'm sorry Cajun. Thinking of you and sending you hugs.

lkamenko

I am so sorry! Sending you T&Ps and hoping for a miracle.

EandIMommy86

So very sorry.

punkyshoester

I am so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you.

tiredmomsclub

So very sorry.

reinedecajun

I just got off the phone with the nurse. My OB doesn't run betas unless he sees it necessary. The nurse said that a lighter line has no bearing on the strength of the pregnancy so now I go in at 8 weeks. She was really sweet and just told me not to worry. Which im really trying not to.

pinkangelmoon

I'm sorry

reinedecajun

bellaxanthe said:

Still hoping for you here too. Please keep us posted and please know I'm sending sticky baby vibes to you.

Still hanging on, no news is good news right? I think ill be able to breath once my appointment comes.

reinedecajun

mom2JBMS said:

@reinedecajun I don't know if this is of any encouragement but I thought I would share the story of Sam. I took a pg test about 4 days before I was expecting af and it was positive so I called the dr. as I had a past m/c they had me come in for a confirmation. The test in the office was negative and I did blood work my number was a 5 and between 0-5 they consider not pg. Well I peed on all the sticks which seemed to get lighter and lighter every day and eventually about 4 days after af was expected I had some light bleeding. So I assumed m/c but was suspicious because it was no where near as awful as my first. Well when I was about 5 days late the next month I took a pg test and I was pregnant. So crazy! I called my friend and was like I can't believe this I didn't even remember having sex in that time period. Fast Forward 9 months or almost. Sam was born 36 weeks and 3 days. I still fully believe that Sam was there the whole time. I measured 3 weeks ahead for most of the second half of my pregnancy. I am sure she was my "chemical" pregnancy. I am praying and hoping when you go at 8 weeks you will be blessed. I hope this encourages you and I hope your ending is also getting to bring home a squishy baby!

I love this story thank you for sharing with me. I have big happy tears now