Venting!

20thirteen

My sister is a total bitch! I haven't spoken to her in about 2 months, she doesn't return my texts or voicemails, and she just texted me asking if I could lend her $200. Mind you, she is always broke because she can't manage her money and her boyfriend, this real piece of shit who has IT training but doesn't go out to get a decent job, loves to party every night. Oh, and they just got back from Ultra Music Festival. In Florida. They were there for a week. She had enough money to take this vacation but now they can't afford their rental car. Wait, rental? But sis, what happened to your car? Your boyfriend's car? Oh, yeah, his was repossessed and you can barely pay your car payments and you're on the verge of getting your car repo'd too. Are you fuckin serious? You're going to ask me, A SINGLE MOTHER, to borrow money? You want to take $200 out of my account that I would use on diapers, formula, food, etc. to cover a $35 check you wrote? What. The. Fuck.

Oh, I just got another text mid-rant that someone else loaned her the money. Are you fucking serious? I can't fucking believe the nerve she had to ask me for money.

tig594

I'm sorry.  I hear you, though.  It takes a lot of nerve for her to try bumming money off you.  I hope you told her to grow up and start being responsible.   

I was ranting about the same thing last week.  BDs crazy shit-stirring aunt sent Aria a birthday card that said something in it about how she wasn't invited to Aria's birthday party.  Yeah, sorry, bitch.  I am a single mom who gets no support from your nephew and I can't afford to feed the whole damn town.  This is the same woman who was telling everyone Aria wasn't BDs around the time I had her.  I tore her a new one about that and told her since she wanted to spread lies about my kid then she didn't have to worry about seeing Aria EVER.  I told her not to send her/buy her ANYTHING.  She still does, though.  Next time I'm writing "refused" on the envelope and sending it back.

20thirteen

tig594 said:

I tore her a new one about that and told her since she wanted to spread lies about my kid then she didn't have to worry about seeing Aria EVER.  I told her not to send her/buy her ANYTHING.  She still does, though.  Next time I'm writing "refused" on the envelope and sending it back.

I wish I could do that with BD and his mother. Only, for BD, I'd write "refused" on his forehead.

20thirteen

I told her this morning to never ask me for money and she got pissy like "I figured that status was about me" and "thanks for public FBing about me" and really mad that I said anything. And so I fucking blew up at her. Really? You're mad that I made a status about you that no one knew was about you but it's ok that your own BF tagged you in a post calling you a slut on FB. That's ok, but what I did was not. Ok, sure. I called her a cunt and told her to delete my number. I shouldn't have done that but it's too late now. I'm so upset that she would seriously choose that piece of shit BF to be in her life and I hate that we've grown so far apart.

MinnesotaMomma91

Oh @roxalot im sorry, i give you creepy internet hugs. Im sorry that went down with your sistee. But your sister needs to hit rock bottom before your guys relationship can heal. More hugs for you

20thirteen

Thanks Minnesota. I'm probably more hurt than she is. I haven't stopped crying

MinnesotaMomma91

All the hugs for you today! Its hard to watch someone you love throw their ife away and its harder on you then it is on them because they refuse to see that they are drowning in a metaphorical ocean and you are just trying to get them into the saftey of the life boat.

jellybean529

Oh @roxalot I'm so sorry. Family drama is the WORST. It shows just how self centered she is that she would ask you for money when you have Harley's needs to worry about, whilst she's blowing tons of money on luxuries. That's just crap. Big virtual hugs to you.

freeatlast2014

Oh man, I totally feel for you. It's so hard to watch someone self destruct and take down those in her path (which is what borrowing money and getting you involved can do in a sense). I hope that you feel better soon by detaching a bit...I've had to do that with my sister as well.