Just point her toward mothering.com. In my experience, no one changes
their mind from arguments of strangers on the internet, no matter how
good the arguments are. Hopefully everything will work out for her!!! She must have known the reaction she'd get....
Does she not understand there are more options than just hospital or unassisted? I hope it works out for her baby. there's just so much that can go wrong and so many advantages to having someone around who knows what to expect and how to help the mother obtain the birth she wants.
Engaged 10/2/1202 BFP (a lil quicker than expected) 12/7/2012 Married to my best friend 12/24/2012 Beautiful baby girl arrived 8/15/2013 BFP #2 3/13/2016
Humans have never done unassisted births out of choice. Long before hospitals, community people or family members who were knowledgable came to help with delivery. Only remoteness and lack of options forced women to birth alone.
Re: Unassisted home birth
F15 December Siggy Challenge:
it works out for her baby. there's just so much that can go wrong and so many advantages to having someone around who knows what to expect and how to help the mother obtain the birth she wants.
Engaged 10/2/1202
BFP (a lil quicker than expected) 12/7/2012
Married to my best friend 12/24/2012
Beautiful baby girl arrived 8/15/2013
BFP #2 3/13/2016