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Full moon?

20thirteen20thirteen member
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Christ! After stewing all day about BD's mom, BD texted me. It's been 2mo. His excuse? Oh he just got a new phone after his went missing for a month. And in all that time, you can bet he was not having trouble getting in contact with people that he wanted to talk to rather than figuring out a way to ask me if he can see DD. not that I even want him to see her. So, to keep the peace we have and so that he can't use anything against me, I'm letting him know what my schedule and my BF's schedule is like (since BD is NOT allowed to see DD without BF present) and suddenly he stopped texting me. I gave him a date to see if he was available and he neither confirmed nor tried to negotiate a different date. I'm about to text him again saying that his lack of response is not an answer and I will take it as that date doesn't work for you. Seriously, WTF is his problem? I'm not going to sit and wait for him nor am I going to make DD suffer his bullshit.
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Re: Full moon?

  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    Im sorry what total bull shit! I hate the sudden disapperance move
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  • eg214eg214 member
    Wow. I love the "if its not my way I'm done" card. See that one too often. Sorry.

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  • freeatlast2014freeatlast2014 member
    Ugh why did he even bother then?! Just to make himself look/feel like he's doing something? Puh-leez
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  • 20thirteen20thirteen member
    He's a dick. He tells me Sunday is ok but he "has a dinner thing to go to at 5". By "dinner thing" do you mean date? Because, you know, awesome. Put yourself out there. Make your life a priority over THE TINY HUMAN WE CREATED. Plus, does he think that I'd be upset that he's dating? He's already met my upgrade. I don't give a fuck what he does unless it hurts DD, who, at this point, has NO IDEA who this random person is who has only seen her like 3 times her whole life.

    We agreed on noon. And I told him that if he was late but didn't tell me in advance that he was running late, that he wouldn't see her, because I'm not obligated to wait around for him. Plus I did that voluntarily for 4 years, I'm not about to make DD go through it.
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  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    Hopefully bd doesnt stand her up!
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  • freeatlast2014freeatlast2014 member
    edited April 2014
    Good luck!
    And a man traveling alone has no excuse not to be on time when you have to do it everyday on your own with a tiny human.
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