i can't escape them

Jodee37

pregnant women. they are everywhere i turn. took DS to the park today, 5 pg chicks there with their toddlers. stopped off at pedi's for f/u, 2 pg chicks in the waiting room. on our way home popped in to Target to get DH some socks and even in the MENS section 2 more pg chicks.

what in the fuck. i can't handle it today. this shit never gets an easier does it... thanks for letting me vent.

Momarazzi007

Awe! I totally get that!!! I am finally able to pick up my girl at her school and every freaking other mom is pregnant! I think they made a pregnancy pact... It is weird... And this is all their third child (I swear it is borderline creepy) and I'm over here w just one getting third degree of when am I going to give her a sibling and don't I think she should have one? 10 preggos against me- I am almost to the point where I am going to let them know we are going through infertility issues and them let them feel like jerks. Outta my way double strollers and bellies, I just want my single child please...

SassFrass

It just takes time, everyone's process is different. Some days it doesn't bother me and I smile when I see some random pregnant woman because it makes me happy, and I always think that maybe that was their miracle baby too and have been in my shoes. other days when I hate the world, I throw myself a pity party...

I don't think it will ever be easy. especially since others don't understand where we have been, and how far we have come...

HawaiianSunset09

It so feels that way doesnt it!? Big hugs.

MNgirl326

I have pg women all around me too- 3 women at school have had babies this year, and one more is ready to go any day.  5 friends on FB are either pg or are have recently announced. 

And 2 neighbors told me they are pg on Sunday.  Both of them, on the same day.

Stab my heart out with a knife. 

 

Hugs to everyone!

GraceyandTroy

It's so hard.  Sometimes I just look at them and tell myself they're not really pg, they'r just fat and then I feel better about myself. 

Jodee37

^LMFAO @GraceyandTroy  i just can't be happy for them. not right now. and it's not within me to imagine they have struggled either. i'm full of envy and can't see straight.

i hope i didn't offend anyone with my griping. i generally don't want to vag punch pregnant chicks, but today just isn't my day. thanks ladies. i'm off to drown my sorrows in some wine.

Momarazzi007

Vag punch pregnant chicks!!! Love it!!!

Bananappeal145

UGH! I hate that! I took DD to a play gym last week and there were about 20 other kids there around her age, and the other moms....every. single. one. was pregnant or had 0-9 month old baby strapped to their chests. I didn't notice it at first and then I was surrounded. It sucked.

Bananappeal145

Jodee37 said:

. i generally don't want to vag punch pregnant chicks, but today just isn't my day. thanks ladies. i'm off to drown my sorrows in some wine.

LOL, I am dying!
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Momarazzi007

How we feel:

CeCe8579

I you, @Momarazzi007‌ :-)

I got an invitation for a baby shower about 30 minutes before our adoption class Tuesday. I am PMSing too so I tossed it in the trash. I've turned down 4 other invites to baby showers in the last year. I just can't handle it. I do send gifts though.

Momarazzi007

(HUGS) @iloveshanej

CeCe8579

Thank you @Momarazzi007‌

Jodee37

@momarazzi007 ha ha that was awesome. so true.

you guuuuuuuuuys, i work with 99% women, all of which are in their ripe childbearing age. no joke, over the last 9 months i lost 2 babies and watched 9 of them get pg and have their babies. going to work was torture. thankfully there's only 1 pg chick now (though i'm sure a new wave will happen) so i don't want to stab anyone's eyes out.

Momarazzi007

Awe (hugs) @Jodee37‌!!!