I have never taken any anxiety meds. I am very hopeful for my IVF number 1.
I can't really rule out the issue of anxiety when I do experience spotting, bleeding, cramps. It is really hard not to think something is going wrong again(8 losses). I remeber my coworker bleeding really badly when she was 8 weeks pregnant, she went to the hospital, stayed on bed rest and everything ended up well. She has a healthy baby girl. I my case it would be tears, NOT again and despair. I am a huge proponent of your body knowing what you think. If you change the gears into 'yes, it's another loss' there is nothing stopping your body from reacting the same way.
Did you consider taking meds for anxiety for the first trimester? Do they have any negative side effects?
If you don't agree with my thinking process please don't replay. There are some people here who are very snarky and I don't need snaky right now. I'm really anxious but really positive about what's to come so I want to eliminate any negativity. I'm just hungry for information. Thank you ladies!
TTC since 2007; Unexplained; 8PG: 4CP, 2EP, 2MC w/HB at 8-9 weeks
Getting ready for DIVF #1 - Transfer 12/16!
Re: Anxiety meds - RPL
I'm 37 and we only have few more tries left - 2 IVF cycles. That's also all we can afford. I want to give myself the best possible shot I can.
Thank you for your response. Yoga definitely helps. I'm just curious if anybody tried the medicated approach. I will mention it in my first new RE appt.
Thanks again!
Getting ready for DIVF #1 - Transfer 12/16!
Friends for 17 years. Married 10. TTC since Jan 2009.
2013: IVF#3/FET#4 Elisabeth CJ born April 30, 2014
Cerclage, P17, and 3 months of bed rest brought us our Rainbow.
Dum spiro, spero.
It is so easy to judge. Suggest to relax etc. Being a slight PTSD victim I am so much more prone to being hurt, so much more sensitive. Event after horrific losses I was able to pick myself up and kept going. I also took 2 year break after the last one. I just couldn't continue at that pace.
I will definitely discuss it with my doctor. I want the best chance I can get and if it means prozac so be it. Like you said it may do more good than harm.
Thank you again for sharing. I am so have your pregnancy worked out this time! Bed rest must be sucky but oh well. We do it all for one good reason!
Thank care girl! And thank you!
Getting ready for DIVF #1 - Transfer 12/16!
Getting ready for DIVF #1 - Transfer 12/16!
I have never taken any antidepressants. I know it would be silly to take them if I don't need them. Ina sense I feel that I would benefit from it if it would make me less caring about the outcome. It's just so hard not to freak out when you start spotting or bleeding and I know my body has a physical reaction to loss.
This is all so hard to explain. I will talk to my doc. I want the best chance I can get for the 2 cycles we can afford.
Thank you for chiming in... and good luck with your BFP!!!
Getting ready for DIVF #1 - Transfer 12/16!