Last week, I had my first OB appt after being released from my RE from IVF #2. It was our very first BFP, after over 2 years of trying. I was very nervous to leave RE and move on to my OB. I was very worried from the very beginning bc I felt that my HGC numbers were very low when we got the BFP.
At my appt last Monday, I asked if I would be getting another u/s. The nurse said it was not necessary as I had just had one 2 weeks prior. However, I pressed for the u/s because I just felt like something was wrong. I had lost all symptoms at that point, and needed some reassurance. I ended up getting my u/s appt on Thursday, and my suspicions were validated. My baby's heart had stopped. I should have been 8w6d, but was measuring 7w5d.
I went ahead and scheduled a D&C for later that afternoon because I just didn't want to wait for nature to take over. D&C went well, and DH and I were home around 9 pm after a very emotional and exhausting day. Physically I feel fine. I am barely bleeding and had no cramping. Does this start later??
I am so sad and lost at this point. I don't know why, but I ended up calling RE office next morning to see about when I can go back in for our FET. I was advised I needed to wait one cycle and after my 2nd period starts, I can call RE to start the FET process.
I am wondering if you all thought that I should wait longer than 2 cycles to start the process again. Also, I have heard that chances of getting pregnant are higher after a m/c. Is there any truth to that??
********Warning BFPs and Losses Mentioned*********
ME-38 DH-39 DX: DOR TTC since Nov 2011.
5/6/13 IUI#1 BFN
6/3/13 IUI#2 BFN
7/3/13 IUI#3 BFN
8/813 IUI#4 cancelled bc no stim
Referred to IVF
IVF #1 9/25 start Stims
10/10 ER 7 Mature Eggs
10/11 Fertilization Report-nothing fertilized so a rescue ICSI performed. 4 eggs were fertilized.
10/13 3 embryos transferred on 3 days(7 cell, 5 cell and 4 cell)
10/25 Beta BFN
IVF #2 Start Stims Feb 2014
2/7 ER 14 Embies...9 Fertilized
2/12 ET 2 excellent grade. 2 frosties
2/21/2014 First BFP EVER....ELATED
3/28/2014 Miscarried. DNC performed that day. 8w6d
6/20/2014 FET 2 frosties.
6/30/2014 SO HAPPY...BFP #2
7/21/2014 First u/s. Low heart rate. Scheduled 2nd u/s in 1 week. 6weeks
7/28/2014 U/S #2...no heartrate. Scheduled DNC for 8/1/2014 7weeks