I hate that I have to intro over here, and that any of us ever have to be here. I just had my second miscarriage on Friday. Last time was a MMC and I waited it out to let it happen it home and fortunately my body cooperated with no complications. That was in September with an EDD in April. This time I just wanted it over with so after finding no heartbeat on Friday morning (after spotting on Thursday night), we scheduled the d&c for Friday afternoon. Now I find myself alternating between being overcome with sadness and being SO angry. I just don't understand. I want answers.
So I have a few questions for you ladies. I have already been seeing a RE and had a basic infertility workup that came back with no answers (this was after ttc for a year) so my official diagnosis is unexplained infertility. Can anyone explain the difference in what they will be testing for after multiple miscarriages that is different than what they did for infertility? I did have the fetus sent for chromosome testing this time so maybe that will give us some insight. I plan on asking my doctors all these questions but is there anything that I should make sure I add to my list of questions that you've learned from experience?
The mad side of me wants to start taking action. The sad side of me wants to stay on the couch for a few more days and allow myself to grieve. How long did you take before going back to work?