I met with DS's OT said his dx of SPD never existed that it was maybe an immature sensory system! She said that she thinks its more inattentiveness but we couldnt be certain until school started how much his inattentiveness or activity will cause disruption in school. Pedi confirmed this. She said in good conscious he needs more PT not OT.
While I am happy we finally understand DS's difficulties, if I didn't ask the proper questions at this last meeting DS would still be attending unnecessary OT!
The pedi ordered a PT evaluation and did a preliminary once over. She said if there is any hypotonia it is on the very mild side and he may just need some exercises to help his core.