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stephy1221stephy1221 member
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A few of the ladies on TTCAl recommended the TTC a rainbow sibling check in when I introed there so I figured I'd check it (and the board) out. Our loss is  recent, 2 weeks past d&c and was with my 2nd pregnancy, my DD is 3yrs old.

We live in New England, I am a working mom (hate that term, what mom isn't?) that enjoys running, reading, trashy reality tv and adult beverages. Look forward to getting to know everyone..
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Oct Angel*BFP 1/25/14 * EDD 10/6/14 * US#1 2/26/14 *US#2 3/3/14 no heartbeat*d&c 3/12/14*

BFP 1/17/15 * EDD 9/30/15

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    Mom2anAngel2Mom2anAngel2 member
    I just wrote this on the check in, but I will say it again... Welcome from a fellow New England Momma!  I am very sorry for your loss and hope that you are being kind to yourself by allowing yourself time to heal.

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie - (B9PH)

     

    Lilypie - (0YVF)
     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

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    stephy1221stephy1221 member
    @mom2anangel2 thank you for the welcome. Where abouts in New England? We are in southern New England and anxiously awaiting some spring weather. The grief of the loss has been devastating and some days are better than others. Thank you for the well wishes.
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    Oct Angel*BFP 1/25/14 * EDD 10/6/14 * US#1 2/26/14 *US#2 3/3/14 no heartbeat*d&c 3/12/14*

    BFP 1/17/15 * EDD 9/30/15

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    Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    So very sorry for your loss. Welcome though!

    [spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow

    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


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    MJM3108MJM3108 member
    So incredibly sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board, though. It's a pretty awesome place filled with amazing mommas!
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    KJsbabeKJsbabe member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    BFP #1 5/20/10 Natural MC at 5w4d 5/28/10
    BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
    BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
    BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
    "Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow, that is patience."  Let it Be (blog) ♥ My BFP Charts
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    This time I'm not leaving without you.
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    stephy1221stephy1221 member
    Thank you all for your kindness.
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    Oct Angel*BFP 1/25/14 * EDD 10/6/14 * US#1 2/26/14 *US#2 3/3/14 no heartbeat*d&c 3/12/14*

    BFP 1/17/15 * EDD 9/30/15

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    Mom2anAngel2Mom2anAngel2 member
    stephy1221 said:
    @mom2anangel2 thank you for the welcome. Where abouts in New England? We are in southern New England and anxiously awaiting some spring weather. The grief of the loss has been devastating and some days are better than others. Thank you for the well wishes.

    We are in Central MA.  I am so ready for the spring weather as well.  DS keeps pointing to the door wanting to go outside and play.  We still have some snow in the backyard, but as soon as the ground starts to dry up we will be out for sure!  I am hoping the fresh air will help lift our moods in more ways than one! 

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie - (B9PH)

     

    Lilypie - (0YVF)
     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

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