I would call my BF from my childhood and tell him how angry with him i have been since his death. He would tell me that i was being a bitch. I would tell him to STFU, and we would hug and be happy again. LOL
I would also call another friend i lost to cancer my freshman year. I would tell her i missed her and how my life turned out.
My mom. Sometimes I have dreams where I talk to her, and I literally wake up crying. I would like to talk to her about LO. She wanted to see a grandchild so bad.
I am kind of a downer on this question. I have lost grandparents, aunts, friends, etc.....but there was no unfinished business. It would be nice to hear from them again but what would it do besides make me miss them again? I wondered before if I could "call" baby #1. I don't know what I'd say but I think women who lose a child carry a hole around inside themselves the rest of their lives. Nothing can close it, but maybe if we could know their soul went on unharmed, it would get smaller.
I would want to talk to my grandmother that I never met (I am sure she is my guardian angel) and my lost babies to tell them I loved them and did the best I could.
I'd call my grandpa. He died before I was born, but I hear such great stories about him and would love to get to talk to him. They had all boys and I was the first granddaughter (they wanted a daughter/granddaughter so badly), so I wish I could have filled that role for him, ya know?
My grandmother, however, was so bitter about me coming along after he died that she didn't really warm up to me. I came from the least-favorite son (according to my dad), so that didn't help.
January OAD Siggy Challenge: Creative Snow Sculptures
I am kind of a downer on this question. I have lost grandparents, aunts, friends, etc.....but there was no unfinished business. It would be nice to hear from them again but what would it do besides make me miss them again? I wondered before if I could "call" baby #1. I don't know what I'd say but I think women who lose a child carry a hole around inside themselves the rest of their lives. Nothing can close it, but maybe if we could know their soul went on unharmed, it would get smaller.
I would want to talk to my grandmother that I never met (I am sure she is my guardian angel) and my lost babies to tell them I loved them and did the best I could.
Re: A call to the beyond.
Oh damn. I was going to say Elvis, but you all make me feel bad now.
OK, I guess a friend that passed. To tell her we miss her.
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
I'd call my grandpa. He died before I was born, but I hear such great stories about him and would love to get to talk to him. They had all boys and I was the first granddaughter (they wanted a daughter/granddaughter so badly), so I wish I could have filled that role for him, ya know?
My grandmother, however, was so bitter about me coming along after he died that she didn't really warm up to me. I came from the least-favorite son (according to my dad), so that didn't help.
January OAD Siggy Challenge: Creative Snow Sculptures
January OAD Siggy Challenge: Creative Snow Sculptures