Clueless 13 dpo af or implantation

Memyselfi22

Im 13 dpo, exspect af tomorrow. Early in day, had cm yellow tinged (no infection) , as day progressed there was blood spots in cm. yellow tinge disappered to have bright red spotting on tp. That has since changed to dark red/ brown/ little bright red spots and small blood clots, and on pad it looks watery. Im having some cramping. Is this start of Af or implantation

sunlavender

Implantation bleeding is more of a hindsight kind of thing.  There's no way to know until you get a BFP or your period comes.  At 13dpo, however, it's likely the start of your period.

Memyselfi22

days 11 and 12 dpo cm thick clear and milky until changed for a little to yellow. Having few signs, moods, nausia, fatigue, and dizziness. Soreness under arms and cant get warm.

Memyselfi22

This is trouble trying to conceive right. That is what im posting about. Ttc yet having trouble...

lebradford

It sounds like you're starting your period.

CandaceC1020

I mean this in the nicest way possible ... go pee on a stick.  None of us are able to tell if you're pregnant.

Memyselfi22

Who stated I havent been trying for six or more months. Who says I dont have if problems.. And who states im not on med. And see a dr.

Memyselfi22

No shit.. Obviously I have problems if im asking about it. But hey, its ok. Stick ur forum up your ass. Maybe ppl had change attitude here they would get a blessing

CandaceC1020

Maybe you should have mentioned that you've been trying for a period of time ... and maybe you should have mentioned that you're seeing an RE .... This forum is one of the most supportive forums that I've found.  You need to realize that we have people randomly post on here ALL OF THE TIME asking stupid questions about if they're pregnant.  It's frustrating because all of us have been trying for a long time and all of us want a baby more than anything in the world.

If you would have simply stated a little more about your situation, or possibly read the newbie blog before posting, or even mentioned your treatment/diagnosis/protocol in your non-existent signature, then you might have received a warmer welcome.  However, as I previously stated, none of us are familiar with your vagina, your ovaries, your cervical mucus.  Go piss on a stick. 

beekaboo43

NariaDreaming said:

"Oh hai. Mai tits hurt and my vagina is bleeding. Do u think I haz pregnant?"

Hah!  Thank you for my first well-needed laugh of the day.

wishiwaspreggo

I was going to offer kind insight until you blamed our infertility on our attitudes.  ALSO: When one gets pregnant, does God point his finger at our utes and say "I bless thee with child"?  That's what I imagine when someone says they were "blessed" with pregnancy and it drives me crazy.  I have devout Christian friends who literally can NOT conceive due to their conditions.  Did God single them out as unfit mothers?

Ugh... Sorry, guys.  I have PMS.  I hope I didn't offend anyone, I just hate it when people say shit like that.

Okay, fine, here's what I was going to say before my rant: I've gotten spotting at 13 DPO plenty of times.  It's usually the start of your period.  IB would have happened between 8-10 DPO if it was going to happen at all.  Only 30% of pregnant women get IB and usually most don't even notice, like others said, until they get their BFP and think about it.

theholmanherd

Not to add to the MUD here, but in the off chance this is real, take a test! If you're pregnant enough for symptoms, you're pregnant enough to turn a test positive. Also, most tests can tell you if you're pregnant if you're truly one day away from AF. Just FYI.

ronniesgirl1981

@CandaceC1020‌ "Go piss on a stick" is my new favorite saying. I can't wait to use.

CandaceC1020

@Ronniesgirl1981 - Hahaha!  I woke up in a mood.  I triggered last night at midnight and didn't sleep well. When I don't sleep, I'm bitchy.  When I'm bitchy, I don't care.  I actually deleted what I initially wrote.  Way too harsh.  Piss on a stick was much nicer but still just bitchy enough.  

amyelise25

I've been checking out this board for almost a year and post sporadically (so not a lurker) and that was the quickest I have seen ladies jump down a posters throat for a simple question. I'm sorry, her response back was harsh and inappropriate, but I can see where she was hurt by getting an immediate 'are you sure you are in the right place' instead of an answer. And I have seen implantation bleeding discussed SEVERAL times on this board. It was the right question on the right board.

ronniesgirl1981

@amyelise25‌ I had to reread the thread and I don't feel that anyone was unkind to the OP and the snark only started when the OP got rude. The OP never introed and never posted, asking if she's sure she is on the right board is a very fair question.

amyelise25

I respectfully disagree. Alaskadee23's response was not only incorrect (implantation bleeding is a very real thing for women going though IF and has been discussed on THIS board), but it was wasn't a very friendly or supportive response to the OP. I have seen lots of women gently suggest other boards. Another poster who replied after that did ask questions first before making suggestions for other boards. That is more respectful. Again, OP's follow up was innapropriate.

chicory

It's hard not to be angry or irritated when we get these questions on here from posters who aren't already established on 3T. If you feel she was treated too harshly (trying to stay neutral myself) she did get off pretty easy compared to some of the other boards on The Bump. That doesn't make it more OK, but it could have been worse and we all (OP definitely included) could have been nicer about it. It's been two days since she posted, might be safe at this point to say she's gone for now, so let's not let this disrupt the normal good atmosphere on 3T!

theholmanherd

amyelise25 said:

I've been checking out this board for almost a year and post sporadically (so not a lurker) and that was the quickest I have seen ladies jump down a posters throat for a simple question. I'm sorry, her response back was harsh and inappropriate, but I can see where she was hurt by getting an immediate 'are you sure you are in the right place' instead of an answer. And I have seen implantation bleeding discussed SEVERAL times on this board. It was the right question on the right board.

And we have a white knight, ladies.

Anyway, no one jumped down her throat. These posts never go over well and we don't even know her or her background. Appropriate level of response from the regulars.