Well ladies, I guess I belong here now. I just found out my son's (11 months) father has been getting high when he claimed to be working late or working out. We had been TTGP shortly after our son's birth. I guess now I know a contributing factor to lowering our odds of conception. It is possible I conceived last cycle, currently CD 22 today so awaiting to test next week. My son and I packed our things and went to my parents. I have no idea what I am going to tell my son when the time comes....but I can say my son has a mom who loves him more than most kid's mom and dad combined, so we will get through this.