Grr....vent.

jellybean529

Ex Wife 101: Do not read your ex husband's twitter account.

Not even sure why I did this, but I was on XH's twitter last night and I saw him post/brag something about how on his last flight to CA he was hitting on the girl next to him on the plane. His last (and only) CA trip was in April 2012. The day he took that trip (it was a business trip) I was home with our DD, who had been up ALL NIGHT vomiting, and had a freshly broken toe (as in, I had broken it two days before he left). We had JUST moved to MA, I was alone, with no family/friends/help, with a sick toddler, having to maneuver stairs on crutches while he was flying on a plane across the country hitting on another girl and now he's bragging about that?

Remind me again why I wasted 13 years of my life with this asshat?

MinnesotaMomma91

Im sorry, i totally understand where your comming from. I had to block xh fb for similar reasons. Its hard to see that he was a creep.

Remember your a wonderful person and you deserve better then a man who doesnt respect you.

Hugs for you, divorce is a hard road and comes with many emotions.

tig594

Just because he was hitting on her doesn't mean she didn't shoot him down like the sleazy insect he is.    You know Mr. Big Man didn't included THAT part in his story.  He's probably lying because guys just do that.

Edited so I could complete my post.  WTF TB??

jellybean529

Oh I know, he's a dumbass who walked out on the best life he could have ever had. I just can't believe I was so blind to all this BS that had been going on our entire relationship.

I deserve better. And I'll find it. 

eg214

mrs.tbc said:

Oh I know, he's a dumbass who walked out on the best life he could have ever had. I just can't believe I was so blind to all this BS that had been going on our entire relationship.

I deserve better. And I'll find it. 

Here here to the best life he could ever had. I LOVE how my basketcase EH tells me every quarter how he "Chose Me" and how he's sorry for everything he ever put me through...and then in 2.4 seconds is right back to being a crazy asshole and thinks I am the crazy one. I mean like literally. I will never understand it. Whatever, he has to live with his fucked up choices the rest of his life.

And yes. You deserve better and you WILL find it and it WILL be eye opening and amazing.

jellybean529

@eg214 Funny how the moods change to fit their needs at any given time, right?

Thank you though. We all deserve better. And so do our babies.

eg214

It's absolutely mind blowing @mrs.tbc. I will forever be confused by it. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde stuff. "I love you and miss you so much and I am so sorry" then "I hate you, you are a bitch, and I'm so glad we are through." ALL UNPROVOKED. I've saved every single email and FB msg from when we were dating in 2008 until now. It would be a great book on psychosis...or just the sad evolution of war and PTSD.

inthelost

wow. I'm so sorry. Men are major fucking assholes sometimes. You deserve so much better! 

tig594

It's called psych-o-path-ic!  

jesuisfatiguee

That is obnoxious at best. I'm sorry.

Now, stay off your ex's social media! It's not worth it!

jellybean529

Lesson learned  

freeatlast2014

Eh, I think men get desperate for attention and need to stroke their own egos. That's why it's best to stay away.

That being said, my XH put that he is separated on FB. We were still living together and I hadn't even gotten served yet with divorce papers. Oh yeah, and he created said FB page 3 days earlier. Again, still married and living together. You go get that new girlfriend, honey. You go get her!