Hi everyone!
I am 38 and my wife is 43. My wife has a 12 year old daughter, which was conceived through IUI and Donor Sperm, and we also have a 22 month old daughter together. My wife has been an Egg Donor three times, and she has had ten 'batches' of her own eggs frozen. To have DD, we had IVF using my sperm and one 'batch' of DW frozen eggs (got pregnant with DD on first try!). We are having assisted contception again, and are again having IVF using my sperm and DW frozen eggs, but have been told that the likelihood of DW being able to carry again is very low, and have been advised to look for surrogates if the first round of IVF does not work, as it will save time.
Re: Introduction (Children mentioned)
Me: 40 DH: 38
TTC since November 2012
Elias (Eli) born 9/2/17 at 7:07pm weight 8lbs 10oz and 20.5 inches long!!
BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14
BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14
I don't see why your wife would have trouble if her eggs were retrieved at a younger age and you are doing IVF. But I'm no expert. But I hope you are successful.
And @KirstenAlecia I wouldn't judge you if a brick did hit your husband. Lol
Me:39, DH:40
DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04
TTC#3
NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13
Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks
CP 2/14
All welcome
"It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt
@hooligans4 The problem isn't the age of my wife's eggs. She has a very small amount of irremovable scar tissue on her womb which some got after having DD which will probably stop her from being able to carry a child.
This will be my first cycle using donor eggs next month. I am so thankful for women like YW. What an incredible gift she is giving to help others have a child.
I'm also on the Third-Party Reproduction board and there are a few ladies using a surrogate so if you and YW have any specific questions you can introduce there too! Both boards are awesome!!
Good luck to you
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14
Me: 41, DH: 45
DD, 6/15/2013
TTC #2 beginning January 2014
AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11
July 2014: IUI #1. Follistim + Pregnyl. 2 follicles--BFN
September 2014: IUI #2. Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone. 4(?) follicles--BFN
October 2014: IUI #3. More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone. 4 follicles--BFP! Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158. M/C 11/1/14
December 2014: IVF #1. Microdose Lupron protocol. 9R, 9M, 9F. 3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
August 2015: IVF #3. 14R, 13M, 11F. Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing. 3 normals. FET planned for 10/2015.
My Ovulation Chart
TTC #1 with IUI and donor sperm
First IUI May, 2014, Clomid + Trigger = BFN
Second IUI July, 2014, Clomid + Trigger = BFN
Third IUI Dec, 2014, Femara + Follistim + Trigger = BFN
Fourth IUI Feb 2015, Femara + Follistim + Trigger = C/P