I posted a few weeks ago about baby shower games for a "high tea" themed baby shower. Long story short-- I asked the Gma to be if she needed help with the shower-- she asked me to plan the games. I hate games, but MTB loves them. I live in NY and am travelling to Fla for the shower, so transportability is an issue.
I decided to call the MTB and see what she thought were good games/ activities. Turns out she likes the super cheesy embarassing games like guessing baby food flavor, melted choc bar in the diaper, measure the belly, craft activities etc.
BSB-- I can't bring myself to plan these games. I am doing Bingo, a "guess how many" game and something like this (and even this one is out of my comfort zone)
Am I being an ass- since I am clearly doing the opposite of what MTB wants?
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Re: Am I being an ass?
I will say, too, that a "high tea" shower just doesn't really "go" with the games she likes.
LOL!
I am staying with MTB and am not renting a car so I feel a little funny asking her to drive me around while I buy supplies for her baby shower games. So I feel like I would have to have everything set up before I arrive.
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
LOL- yes, I feel like an ass!
It just seems so undignified? We aren't kids either (we're 34-- not sure if that makes it better or worse).
I fully admit to having a pole up my butt when it comes to baby shower games.
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
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