J12 now has a TTC group!

reinedecajun

Here! https://forums.thebump.com/group/176-july-2012-ttc

I'll be posting later this afternoon.


ETA: I guess you have to be invited, so just put your name here and i'll get on this afternoon and send everyone a invite who wants to join

steelermama86

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EandIMommy86

I want to join to keep up with who is ttc, but I am done ttc. Is that ok?

reinedecajun

Sent yall invites!

EandIMommy86

How do I accept

EandIMommy86

Figured it out. Never mind.

julymommy12

Love!!! Me me me!

aylafsu88

We are planning to start trying again this summer so add me!

EandIMommy86

kimmer1412 said:

I want to join to keep up with who is ttc, but I am done ttc. Is that ok?

Not trying to be mean here but that is just weird and kind of creepy.

I do not see why wanting to keep up and offer support for those on here TTC is creepy. I like everyone in J12 and am excited for everyone ttc. So if you find that creepy I apologize, but that is not my intent.

RTaylor12

We are thinking of starting to try again in the fall if my test results come back negative for the molar pregnancy....maybe I'll hold off until then. FX! Good luck to all you TTC mamas! I was surprised to see a few of you respond!

SallySunrise

YAY BABIES!!!!

EandIMommy86

kimmer1412 said:

kimmer1412 said:

I want to join to keep up with who is ttc, but I am done ttc. Is that ok?

Not trying to be mean here but that is just weird and kind of creepy.

I do not see why wanting to keep up and offer support for those on here TTC is creepy. I like everyone in J12 and am excited for everyone ttc. So if you find that creepy I apologize, but that is not my intent.

I guess I don't see why you can't be supportive and keep up on the J12 board like the rest of us. Kind of defeats the purpose of a separate board if everyone from j12 joined, it should be a board for j12 that are trying or plan on TTC.

I see your point. I can get overly excited for people in these situations. If people prefer I opt out that is fine, I understand your point.

SallySunrise

kimmer1412 said:

TaviaBrad said:

kimmer1412 said:

TaviaBrad said:

I want to join to keep up with who is ttc, but I am done ttc. Is that ok?

Not trying to be mean here but that is just weird and kind of creepy.

I do not see why wanting to keep up and offer support for those on here TTC is creepy. I like everyone in J12 and am excited for everyone ttc. So if you find that creepy I apologize, but that is not my intent.

I guess I don't see why you can't be supportive and keep up on the J12 board like the rest of us. Kind of defeats the purpose of a separate board if everyone from j12 joined, it should be a board for j12 that are trying or plan on TTC.

I see both of your points here. And I also see the beginning stages of sub groups with specific rules to join causing drama... Boo to that.

(Not saying either of you individually are causing drama. Just think that's where this whole group idea is going.)

mama0226

Sign me up

nesenotes

I have the sads that I'm not ttc but when I do decide I want in! Until then I'm in the if you are no longer ever going to ttc, yes its super weird you would want to join.

KarmB

Congrats to all the TTCers heere!! I'll support y'all over here so I dont have to read about CM.

SallySunrise

@kimmer1412‌ it does make sense! Totally get what you're saying, and I don't necessarily think there's anything wrong with the concept, except that it has the potential to bring some women (the ones in the sub groups) closer, leaving others out. I'm not saying it's intentional, or mean, or wrong in any way. It's the nature of socialization. I'm just saying, when subgroups are created, some people aren't gonna like that they aren't or can't be in certain ones. Drama is going to ensue whether it really *should* or not, because it plays with our emotions, and our emotions aren't always logical.

EandIMommy86

Sheesh, I did not know it was that serious. I will leave that group then. Thanks for the input.

nesenotes

SallySunrise said:

@kimmer1412‌ it does make sense! Totally get what you're saying, and I don't necessarily think there's anything wrong with the concept, except that it has the potential to bring some women (the ones in the sub groups) closer, leaving others out. I'm not saying it's intentional, or mean, or wrong in any way. It's the nature of socialization. I'm just saying, when subgroups are created, some people aren't gonna like that they aren't or can't be in certain ones. Drama is going to ensue whether it really *should* or not, because it plays with our emotions, and our emotions aren't always logical.

But the same thing could happen on any other board. There is a reason you like this bmb more than your original right? Things change and evolve, but I'm sure the core of j12 will still be the same.

SallySunrise

@nesenotes‌, definitely! Again, I'm not saying it's necessarily a bad thing. I'm just saying, it's going to cause some blunders for a while! Just like fb groups did, just like wolves/plastics did, etc. When they announced a couple weeks ago that these groups were in the works, this board shouted with a resounding - NO! This will cause so much drama! - and now people are joining them. I'm just saying, I still think that! Not saying it shouldn't exist, not saying it will be the demise of J12, not saying people shouldn't join them if that's their cup of tea. Zallz I'm sayin is, I see some drama in the future!

nesenotes

@SallySunrise‌ if it makes you feel better I think everyone involved in any wolfpack/plastic insanity has learned their cliquey lesson. But i get what you are saying.

reinedecajun

As soon as I get the monster down for nap ill get to my computer and add everyone

Kdoy705

i'll join - honestly i'm terrified that having another baby is coming up so quickly, but we will be starting in a few months.....yikes!!! 

ashleynaka

Please add me in.  Not actively TTC, but not preventing either (all because I can't make up my mind and am a super planner, so I decided to let God decide when the time is right).

reinedecajun

fishybride82 said:

It won't let me in.  I tried to accept and it said "Whoops. You are not allowed to GET"

: (

I resent your invite, idk??????

tiredmomsclub

H just gave us the go to start trying this summer! I'm so excited. He originally said we'd have to wait to start trying next summer. I'm so glad he changed his mind. Id love to join either now or when the summer gets closer.