Okay so...IDK WTF to think right now.
First, we have court 18 JUN. 3 days before ManChild's birthday. Hah. $10 says he was just planning on sending his attorney in his place bc along with the papers I filed for CS, Custody, and Visitation...I got one from HIM for CS determination with an attachment from his dick fuck attorney. SOOOOOOO looks like we filed PPW a week apart, his first.
I'm thinking because he only filed CS PPW, he is true in stating he wants nothing to do with her but pay his CS. Now I'm wondering why I even filed PPW at all. Now he has the opportunity to see her. Please someone encourage me and tell me something good about the fact I filed this PPW. That it saves me from headache down the road when he wants to finally see her?!?! My thoughts are that now he will have to come to Virginia, because it's not a simple "send your attorney in your place" thing and go off VA standards for CS. He may or may not come to VA. I'm hoping to God he doesn't, but IDK if he can send his atty in his place for custody and visitation or if he doesn't show, my wishes are granted period...atty or not.
HE ALSO HAD THE BALLS TO PUT IN THE PPW THAT HE WANTS ME TO PAY HIS ATTY FEES. WHATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT THEEEEEEEEEEEEEE FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK. Are you kidding me? I have ZERO income, a car that has no A/C and needs fixing before it gets 100 degrees outside and I have a baby in the back, and the IRS up my ass for $1,000 in back taxes. I know courts don't care about the two of the latter but are you fucking kidding me? I offered to work this out with him month 5/6 of my pregnancy...BEFORE I knew he had an atty. The bastard got the atty while we were still together and as soon as he found out I was PG. Probably did it while he was visiting me using my computer and my car. IDK the likelihood of that being awarded or if it can be deducted from the CS he will owe me...aka...I won't get any in back CS because attorneys are THOUSANDS. And if it does get awarded how the fuck am I supposed to pay it with no income? All because he's an idiot, had a knee jerk reaction, and got an attorney when one wasn't necessary. He could just have easily gotten his ass here and filed the PPW for $25 like I did OR worked it out with me to file the PPW and worked it out amongst ourselves.
I AM SO PISSED OFF.
I emailed my atty bc she is out of the office until Tuesday, but hopefully she can give me some insight on the atty fees BS.
It really is a fuck it friday.
PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014
Re: I was served.../Court Date/Bastard
Throwing leaves
Throwing leaves
Throwing leaves
Try not to think of whats missing. Which i know is hard. But think of what she has instead.
She has a mommy who loves her unconditionally, she has grandparents, she has your friends, and any siblings you may have.
And remember. This will be her normal and thats okay, because thats better then having a bad dad around