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New here, my intro

SillySally24SillySally24 member
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Hello all!  I’ve been lurking around for a couple of months now (under a profile from TK), and since we’re now getting serious with our RE, I figured it’s getting real and would get more involved.  A little history about my FI and me…  We’re both 43, no previous children.  Neither of us has been married before either, and we just got engaged at Christmas.  Since my baby clock is winding down faster than the marriage clock, we are putting off the wedding until we “sort out the baby situation” – be that ours, a donor’s or an adoption.  

So, to be honest, we just started trying in December, but my sister (4 yrs younger) is also trying to conceive and having issues so I went to GYN for AMH test and since it’s so bad, she sent me right to an RE.  As of now I’ve just got my age going against me, no other issues fortunately.  But my RE has an awesome attitude and said to me again – that he can give me all the stats he wants, but my body is going to do what it wants…  I started acupuncture a couple of weeks ago, so before we really start doling out the money on IVF and/or DE, we’re going to try some less expensive methods (meds & TI).  

I hope that I can join all of you in the journey….  Thank you for all of the information I’ve already learned from reading all of your posts.  

Me: 43, DOR   FI: 44, SA normal
TTC Since Nov 2013

01/2014: Meeting with RE to discuss options
02/2014: Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
03/2014: on the bench
05/2014: meeting with RE to discuss Donor IVF options
09/2014 - IVF#1 - converted to IUI - BFN

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  • Samuelismomma Samuelismomma member
    Welcome...like your username...my name is Sally;) welcome hope your stay is short!
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  • hooligans4hooligans4 member
    Welcome.
    I'm glad you have gotten good info from our board. Join the over 40 check-in on Thursdays. There are plenty of our members doing meds with TI so you have support. And if you move to IUI or IVF with your own or DE you will have support there also.

    Good luck

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

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  • PrivateOnePrivateOne member
    Welcome!  I'm also 43, trying for our first, but am just about to start round #2 of IVF.  I wish you much luck in your journey of TTC and hope your stay here is short.

    **** siggy warning - bfp & loss ****   ---- All Welcome ---

    Me: 44 - Hashimoto's (under control), DH: 38 - (minor issues)

    IUIs: 2 in 2012 ... Both BFN
    IVF #1: 10/16/13 ... BFP, however it was not viable and ended in an early loss at 7weeks.
    IVF #2: Feb '14 ... Cancelled. Positive beta at baseline appt, became very early loss.
    IVF #2: Apr '    14 ... Retrieval Only. 2 embryos made it to day 3 freeze & will be batched with IVF #3 for PGD testing.
    IVF #3: June '14     ...     Retrieval Only. 4 embryos growing, all arrested before day 5. Two from April thawed, but also arrested.
    Currently benched while determining how to proceed.

    "Keep going until you can't fail"

     

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  • Davie813Davie813 member
    Welcome, congratulations on your engagement, and best of luck! 
    *****Signature/Ticker Warning******

    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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  • ksgsmuksgsmu member
    welcome!
    ***siggy/ticker warning***

    Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
    Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR,  DH: normal

     IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
    - poor responder
    ***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
    IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
    FET 5/20- BFP
    1st Beta- 641
    2nd beta- 2166
    Sono- TWINS!!!!
    Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks.  Healthy and no NICU!  So blessed!



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  • MommalawyerMommalawyer member
    Welcome! Hope your stay here is a short one!
    Me: 38     DH: 36
    Married: July 21, 2013
    TTC#1 (between us): June/July 2013

    DX: MFI (low count and motility)
    Charting/OPK/CBFM July 2013-present
    1st RE Visit: January 2014
    Cycling: 
    March 2014- 75iu follistim + trigger + progesterone + IUI = BFN and OHSS
    (8 million post wash 47% motility, 18mm/17mm/16mm/16mm/14mm follies)
    April/May 2014- Benched due to cysts/enlarged ovaries
    June 2014- 50iu follistim + trigger + progesterone + IUI = BFP!!
    (10 million post wash 60% motility, 20mm/19mm follies)
    Beta 1- 85 Beta 2- 2,752 - EDD 2/27/2015


    Everyone welcome. Strength in numbers!


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  • BeckyP005BeckyP005 member
    Hello and welcome! Good luck to you :)

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • jenfer916jenfer916 member
    Welcome!
    Married for the 1st time in 2009 @ 36.
    Conceived DD naturally after trying for 1 1/2yrs - born May 2012
    Trying to conceive #2 since Fall 2012
    Blocked right tube.
    1st IVF cycle started in February 2014
    Retrieval was 3/4/14 (11 eggs retrieved, 5 fertilized)
    Day 5 transfer was 3/9/14 (3 emryos transferred, 2-3AA, 1-2AA)
    Beta test on 3/19/14 - BFP 294
    Beta test 3/21/14 - 527
    Beta test 3/28/14 - 5307 Not one, but two sacs seen on ultrasound!
    4/4/14 - Saw Baby B's heartbeat! Baby A was stubborn.
    4/11/14 - Lost Baby A :( Saw and heard Baby B's heartbeat @ 154
    Our EDD is 11/25/14. Can't wait to meet our turkey baby! It's a girl!


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  • latershraderlatershrader member
    Welcome and best of luck to you!!
    *TW below*
    Me: 40 DH: 38
    TTC since November 2012
    BFP IUI Cycle 2 Dec 2016
    Baby Boy Due Sept 12 2017
    Elias (Eli) born 9/2/17 at 7:07pm weight 8lbs 10oz and 20.5 inches long!!


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  • SillySally24SillySally24 member
    Thank you for all of your warm welcomes.  Sometimes I feel like I'm totally crazy for going through this at 43, but you all give me comfort knowing I'm not doing this alone.  @Samuelismomma - Sally is my "alter ego" name I created about a decade ago :)  as I hate having to explain my name some days.

    Me: 43, DOR   FI: 44, SA normal
    TTC Since Nov 2013

    01/2014: Meeting with RE to discuss options
    02/2014: Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
    03/2014: on the bench
    05/2014: meeting with RE to discuss Donor IVF options
    09/2014 - IVF#1 - converted to IUI - BFN

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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    Welcome. Hope ur stay here is short & sweet
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  • KirstenAleciaKirstenAlecia member
    Welcome! 
    SIGGY WARNING
    Me 38   DH 34
    married 05-21-11 
    started TTC right away






    BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14 
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  • ewennerewenner member
    Welcome to the board and best wishes on your TTC journey and your engagement!
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  • URMySunshine77URMySunshine77 member
    @SillySally24

    I love your name. It sounds like you have a good plan. I wish you luck.

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