Am I the only one NOT having sex?

livkight

You're not alone. We still get it on regularly but everything we try is so uncomfortable and I feel so heavy and gross. So I'm definitely not enjoying it much these days.

hcsmiley417

My DH and I get it on as much as we can. We used to do it at least 3 times a week, now we do it every moment we get. It doesn't hurt for me because he has me so relaxed, he makes me feel beautiful and TMI I'm like a waterfall so it's an easy in and out. Every time I've been pregnant I would always shy away because I felt huge and unattractive and I have loss of pigment in random places on my body and low self esteem. He is extremely turned on by me being pregnant and it's erotic to him. Sometimes we even do a quick in the bathroom as we have a 5,3&1 year olds so it gets tricky. I feel bad for those of you that it actually hurts or can't due to pelvic rest. But it seems that a high sex drive is a minority not a majority so don't feel left out!!!!!

emineminem

BFP at 6 weeks, then we tried once at 9 weeks but it hurt so we held off til 14 weeks. Then twice that week! Nothing agin til 20 weeks and then again at 21 weeks. Now it's been ten days. Not that I'm counting? I think I'm in the mood more during the day, which makes it hard. I get so damn tired after dinner, but I surprised him by being naked in bed on my day off at around noon and that was great!

Aimes33m

No sex drive, at all, so just a handful of times since BFP.  It sucks...I wish I was one of the people that had a better sex drive with pregnancy!

bullybutt

I haven't had sex since conception.  And unfortunately, I'm one of those that gets a super amped up sex drive in the 2nd Tri and doesn't stop until baby gets here.  This has been my biggest dry spell ever.  I hate it.

emeek

with both of my pregnancies i have had absolutely no sex drive. we have sex maybe every 3 weeks because i feel bad for my husband but if he didn't touch me the rest of my pregnancy i would be fine with that.