If you're trying on your own (no meds) when do you do it? All cycle long? Use ovulation test? We only do it the days the test gets 2 lines.. im wondering if we shluld just do it 3 days weekly during my cycle.. Maybe the test is not accurate.. We've given up on iui s bc we've had 5 with no luck .. We have a DS from 2 iui 3.5 yrs ago. We are sad to see him with no siblings and hoping for a miracle. Ivf is not covered and too expensive at this time. Just wondering I can do to try harder. I often wonder if I have endometriosis, but scared to have a lap.. No real signs of it except infertility Tia !
As long as you do the day of your + and the following 2 days, most Drs will say that is plenty. Depending on when you O, like say for ex you know you are around CD 14- 16, you can try sex EOD from around CD 11- 12, until you confirm your O.
Are you charting your cycles?
Spontaneous pregnancy #1 DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
732973 Clomid Cycles
2 IUIs
3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016 Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3 Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
Charting would probably help you figure out what is normal for your body and when O happens in relation to positive OPKs, but to answer your original question we've tried a number of different patterns over the last 3 and a half years and none of them have been even a tiny bit successful.
We are currently doing the old fashioned way. I know I usually O on cd 15/16 so I try for eod from cd 8. Once we get a +opk, anywhere from cd 12-14, I try like hell to do everyday until O is confirmed with bbt. It's worked twice, even though I mc both times.
I kind of try to have sex at least two or three times a week any way for the sake of my marriage. DH and I tend to get crabby towards each other if we go too long w/o getting intimate. But when I know I'm close to o-time, I try to bump it up and go every day or every other day.
Happily Mrs. C
start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
Hoping holistic approach works!!!
BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!
Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
Back on metformin Aug 2013
Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw,and red raspberry leaf
DS weaned in April 2014
Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.
Planning medicated cycle end of summer. FX I get KU before then!!!
Re: If you're trying on your own...
Spontaneous pregnancy #1
DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
We are currently doing the old fashioned way. I know I usually O on cd 15/16 so I try for eod from cd 8. Once we get a +opk, anywhere from cd 12-14, I try like hell to do everyday until O is confirmed with bbt. It's worked twice, even though I mc both times.
I think that Fertility Friend is happiest the more times we "try" the day before, of, and the two days after ovulation.
TTC #2 since April 2012
Year 1 - nothing
Year 2 - two m/c
Year 3 - unexplained diagnosis & 4 failed IUIs with Clomid/Letrozole
Year 4 - still unexplained & 3 failed IUIs with Follistim & Ovidral
Year 5 - trying on our own
TTC#2 since Feb 2013
10/13: 1st IUI, BFN
02/14: 2nd IUI, BFN
03/14: HSG done, found out right tube is slightly blocked
04/14: 3rd IUI, BFN
05/14: 4th IUI, BFN
07/14: IVF no. 1, BFN
11/14: IVF no. 2, BFP