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If you're trying on your own...

If you're trying on your own (no meds) when do you do it? All cycle long? Use ovulation test? We only do it the days the test gets 2 lines.. im wondering if we shluld just do it 3 days weekly during my cycle.. Maybe the test is not accurate.. We've given up on iui s bc we've had 5 with no luck .. We have a DS from 2 iui 3.5 yrs ago. We are sad to see him with no siblings and hoping for a miracle. Ivf is not covered and too expensive at this time.
Just wondering I can do to try harder.
I often wonder if I have endometriosis, but scared to have a lap.. No real signs of it except infertility Tia !

Re: If you're trying on your own...

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    As long as you do the day of your + and the following 2 days, most Drs will say that is plenty. Depending on when you O, like say for ex you know you are around CD 14- 16, you can try sex EOD from around CD 11- 12, until you confirm your O. 


    Are you charting your cycles? 


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    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
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    Charting would probably help you figure out what is normal for your body and when O happens in relation to positive OPKs, but to answer your original question we've tried a number of different patterns over the last 3 and a half years and none of them have been even a tiny bit successful.
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    We are currently doing the old fashioned way. I know I usually O on cd 15/16 so I try for eod from cd 8. Once we get a +opk, anywhere from cd 12-14, I try like hell to do everyday until O is confirmed with bbt. It's worked twice, even though I mc both times.
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    I think that Fertility Friend is happiest the more times we "try" the day before, of, and the two days after ovulation. 

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    TTC #2 since April 2012

    Year 1 - nothing

    Year 2 - two m/c

    Year 3 - unexplained diagnosis & 4 failed IUIs with Clomid/Letrozole

    Year 4 - still unexplained & 3 failed IUIs with Follistim & Ovidral

    Year 5 - trying on our own

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    I kind of try to have sex at least two or three times a week any way for the sake of my marriage.  DH and I tend to get crabby towards each other if we go too long w/o getting intimate.  But when I know I'm close to o-time, I try to bump it up and go every day or every other day.  
    Happily Mrs. C 
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    start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
    dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
    Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
    Hoping holistic approach works!!!

    BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
    Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

    Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
    Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
    Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
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    Maybe google Sperm Meets Egg plan? I'm thinking to try this on our none IUI cycle. 
    Me: 38, DH: 41
    TTC#2 since Feb 2013
    10/13: 1st IUI, BFN
    02/14: 2nd IUI, BFN
    03/14: HSG done, found out right tube is slightly blocked
    04/14: 3rd IUI, BFN
    05/14: 4th IUI, BFN
    07/14: IVF no. 1, BFN
    11/14: IVF no. 2, BFP



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