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Rileys Results.

I don't know how many are on FB or seen my posts.

We got Riley's MRI results back Wednesday night. She has been diagnosised with Mitondrial Diease. It's in her brain stem, and there is no cure. I am still having a hard time accepting this for her and the long road that we will have with hosptial says and treatments to slow it down. I don't know how much time we have with her, I was told between months to years. But age range we are looking at maybe having her until 6-7.

My heart is breaking, I can't lose another child, I don't want to lose another child. It's not fair to her to suffer.

Once I have more information, were waiting for Children's in Boston to call us back, Ill try to come back and update.

Please pray for our family.

 

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    Oh Amye, I am so sorry to hear this.  Sending T&P for strength and healing to you and dear Miss R this morning. 

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    Oh, God.  I am so, so sorry.  I have been thinking about you and wondering how your appointment at Children's went on the 27th.

    This is so incredibly unfair to you and your beautiful daughter.  And to your entire family.

    You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.  Please let us know if we can do anything.

     

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    I'm so sorry you're having to face this.  I'm sending lots of thoughts and prayers your way.  Please let us know if there's anything we can do to help.  ((HUGS))

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    I am so sorry to hear this. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sending you and Ms. Riley strength to handle her treatment. I am hoping for a miracle for your family. Many many (((hugs)))!
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    ((HUGS)) I am so sorry to hear this. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. You are so strong and amazing and you do not deserve this. It's just so unfair.
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    I don't even have the words to express how sorry I am. Sending you and your family lots of love and t&ps ((hugs))


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    I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. It's not fucking fair at all. I hope you are getting good support from your friends and family members, lean on the people who love you to help you get through.

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    Oh no :(  I am so, so sorry to hear this news.  You will all be in my prayers. I am absolutely heartbroken for you.
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    My heart is breaking for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry.

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    I am so incredibly sorry!!! Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you big HUGS!!!
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    Oh no. Just no. How can the universe throw you so much shit and expect you to get through it?? I'm so so incredibly sorry
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    I am so so sorry Amye!  I dont even know what to say.  You were and always will be in my prayers!
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    Many many Ts&Ps for you and your family.

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    I am so so so sorry. Thoughts and prayers for you, your family and, especially, sweet Riley.
    (((((hugs)))))
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    I'm so, so sorry - wish I had more to offer than that. Sending lots of hugs and prayers for you all.
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    Oh, dear. I am so sorry. This is heartbreaking. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
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    My heart is just breaking for you and your family. You're all in my thoughts.
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    Words fail me. I cannot even begin to make sense of this and my heart is breaking for you and your family. I'm just so sorry.

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    Words are not enough to express what I want to say. My heart is just breaking for you, your family, and sweet Riley. I will be lifting you all in prayer. I am so sorry.... 
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    I'm so incredibly sorry. Many continued T&Ps.
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    I am so sorry for such unbearable news.  I will be praying.
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    Many T&P's coming your way.  I can not image what you are going through right now.  I am so sorry you have to deal with this, especially after everything that you have already been through.  ((MANY HUGE HUGS))

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    My heart is breaking for you and your family.. I can't imagine the devastation this diagnosis brings.. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and of course your sweet Riley.. I truly do believe in miracles.. and I'm praying that a miracle finds you and your precious daughter.
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    I can't begin to find a single thing to say. I am so sorry Riley is struggling and will pray for your family. 
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    I am so so sorry.
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    I am so very sorry. Lifting your family In my prayers..
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    I am so, so sorry to hear this! I remember you from the loss board a couple years back. (((((hugs))))) I can't even imagine. I'm just so sorry. I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts ♥
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    I am so, so sorry to hear this! I remember you from the loss board a couple years back. (((((hugs))))) I can't even imagine. I'm just so sorry. I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts ♥
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    This is incredibly unfair, I am so sorry your family is facing such a difficult diagnosis. I will pray for you and Riley.

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    Sending so many thoughts and prayers.  You have been through more than anyone should ever have to go through already.  I will keep sending strength and good vibes towards you and Riley. <3
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    I'm so sorry. My heart is breaking for you and your family. I will keep you all in my prayers.
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    I am so sorry. Wrapping you in giant squishy hugs ♥
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    Again, I am so so sorry. I hope that the treatment plans work and you have sweet Riley for many more years. My heart hurts so much for you and your family. "Not fair" doesn't even begin to cover it, but she is so lucky to have a mom like you for the time she does have. ((hugs))
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    Many T&Ps for your family. ((Hugs))
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    I am so, so sorry. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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    Sending so many prayers for you and your family. I am so sorry you're going through this. There are no words adequate enough for this but please know you and your family will be in my thoughts.

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    I'm so sorry for you and your family :(
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    I am just so sorry and am praying for your family.
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    Prayers for your sweetheart and your entire family.  I'm so sorry, and I pray for as much time as possible.  (((hugs)))

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    Oh Ayme this is so unfair for you and her. I am sending some many thoughts and prayers your way. ((huge hugs))

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