@wtfisup and @lest12 I'm feeling all of these feelings. It's gotten worse the past couple weeks, as I have gotten super preggers-shaped lately. Like, I just feel frustrated as hell with myself. My husband is constantly "joking" about how we never have sex, and he thinks it's funny, but it makes me feel bad. I can't get it through to him no matter how hard I try that making incessant "jokes" about how much I'm disappointing him sexually is not funny to me in any way, and that it actually hurts my feelings. I just don't want to. I am so tired and crappy feeling all the time, and totally unsexy. I was so excited last week when I woke up wanting sex -- I was hoping that it would continue, but it was more of a fluke.
And then there's just stupid shit, like I brought some maternity clothes to Old Navy to return. I haven't been in the actual store in a long time. They had these adorable pants for spring.... I wish I could wear cute things and I can't. I have these ugly maternity pants pulled up over my belly, and I feel like a dumpy blob with a bad back that can barely climb stairs. (I also have the red flaky nose, because I've been sick since Thursday, and it definitely doesn't help things.)
I'm right there with you ladies. I dread getting dressed in the morning because I don't feel cute or attractive anymore. I just feel huge and frumpy. I feel like I'm split regarding sexy time. My sex drive is still there but it just isn't as good anymore with trying to work around a bump and findings positions that are comfortable for me. I often leave feeling unsatisfied, though I know that's all me because DH does everything he can to make me feel good.
All I want to do all day, everyday is watch the dance party LO is having in my belly. At first I was creeped out by the movement, now I can't stop watching.
@Tdonatoni - I love it!! I did this on Saturday for like an hour....I just sat there and stared. It's so much fun!
Random thought and totally contradicting my fashion post yesterday, lol, but every morning I have an internal debated, trying to decide at what point can I wear yoga pants to work and either a) hope no one notices or b) assume that if anyone does notice, they aren't going to say anything to the pregnant chick. The little voice is getting closer and closer to winning every day.
Re: **friday 3/07 aw/ss/random thoughts**
I'm right there with you ladies. I dread getting dressed in the morning because I don't feel cute or attractive anymore. I just feel huge and frumpy.
I feel like I'm split regarding sexy time. My sex drive is still there but it just isn't as good anymore with trying to work around a bump and findings positions that are comfortable for me. I often leave feeling unsatisfied, though I know that's all me because DH does everything he can to make me feel good.