Family dynamics

beckymason1988

So my husband always complains about my mother and it's very frustrating but I listen and try to fix it.now his mother is doing the exact same things that he bitches to me that my mother does and I kno it's stupid to bring it up cuz then he just comes up with some excuse y it's different when his mom does it.he seems to think his mom is superior somehow

PB102012

Are you asking for advice or just venting?

beckymason1988

A little of both really

PB102012

Ok. Communication is key. You might want to sit down and calmly talk to your husband about how it makes you feel. However, if your MIL is doing the same things your mother does that annoys him, you need to talk to your mother as well. Maybe reduce the amount of parental involvement in decisions on your LO. This is the best I can do given your OP.

ELauren88

Uhm...maybe you should talk with your H about how it feels to have him criticize your mother all the time. Doesn't feel great.