Need some GL vibes for a lost dog :( UPDATE!!

BeckyP005

My friend is in Jamaica to get married and the lady watching her 2 yr old dog opened her door and he got out.

He spent last night outside and still not found. A lot of sightings thank goodness. I was going to look for him after work but it will be dark and not a good area. Will get up early tomorrow.

Any good thoughts will be appreciated. Makes me sad. Plus we are getting that bad weather...

Just got a text and video Armani is caught!! It made me cry. He is home and safe and before that nasty storm is here. Thanks for your thoughts and well wishes!!

t2mofok

Oh no.  Poor pup.  Thoughts and prayers that he is found very soon and safe! 

HopefulSoul2

FX you find him and bring him home safely!

Samuelismomma

Thoughts and prayers he is found...I love any critter and I know how it is to worry about them until they are found safe and sound!

on42

Oh no! I am sending good vibes. Hopefully he knows where home is if he gets cold or hungry!

BeckyP005

Thanks ladies. I'm sick to my stomach with him being out for 2 nights. Leaving my house soon. My friend just got to Jamaica on Thursday and is flying back today. Just praying we find him

kindershlitz

Good luck. That's a terrible feeling

Davie813

So sorry he's not back yet. sending good vibes...

hooligans4

Hope he is found soon. Try calling the pound to see if someone brought him there.

BeckyP005

Just got home bit ago. Yes he is on all Fb groups and all of shelters. I spotted him and thank goodness he is still alive. He is very skittish. A search volunteer came and put 3 cages out with food in the areas he has been spotted.

He's been staying near woods. FX he is found tonight. Poor baby...so cold outside.

Davie813

Glad he's ok! Hope he's home soon!

PrivateOne

Hope you can get him soon. So heartbreaking

Desneige

Notify local vets about missing dogs.  Our Beagle got her collar stuck on a tree.  It was loose enough that she was able to wiggle out of the collar and run around with no tags.  She was gone for 2 weeks.  She was picked up and taken home by a family that lives an hour north (they thought she was cute and planned to keep her).  They brought her to their uncle (a vet) for a checkup.  He had seen our missing posters and did the right thing by insisting she be returned to her rightful owners.  Hope that your friends dog gets found soon so he doesn't have to spend another night in the cold.

BeckyP005

We keep seeing him. He is just very scared. The owner flew home and has called to him buy he still runs away. Stlesst we know he is still alive.

BeckyP005

@Desneige wow I am so glad he saw the flyer!! I updated in the beginning. He was caught!!!! He is at home

KirstenAlecia

So glad this ended well. Im an animal lover and i love the ones that end well for the pets and their parents! 

Davie813

So glad he's home!

hooligans4

Oh thank god. I got goose bumps reading the update. This storm is going to bd a doosie I think. So so happy puppy is home safe and sound. One less thing for you to worry about.

Now go buy a dang dryer!!!!!

on42

Yay!!!!

BeckyP005

@hooligans4 can't!! The snow! Plus MH is hurting today. I'm under the covers watching tv. Cleaning can wait

hooligans4

My bed is calling too. MH actually suggested trying to sneak in some sex this afternoon. I won't hold my breath for that since he never follows through. It's been almost a month since we last had sex. I know ladies it's crazy but he absolutely no sex drive. After the last time I begged and wAs turned down I told him it hurts my feelings too bad to be denied. So now I refuse to ask for it and this is what I get - involuntary celibacy!!!!
Pity party over

BeckyP005

@hooligans4 holy cow I just woke up from a nap!

The sex...its complicated over at this end too. He doesn't really have a drive either and I just asked him what the hell is up yesterday. Way longer over here but its my fault too since I'm starting to get use to this situation that I can care less now. Yes prob sad on my end too. We've always had this issue but it got worse over the last year I totally understand about your feelings It hurts...

Lady2010

hooligans4BeckyP005 - I thought I was the only one!  Over the years I have noticed sex becoming less and less important to DH.  If I don't insist on it - he wouldn't bother.  He is always too tired, had too much to eat, has to get up early, etc.  The only reason we had sex more than once a month prior to seeing an RE was because I was ovulating and insisted we have sex every other day for the 4 or 5 days around ovulation just in case (OPKs are not always accurate for me).

I also feel hurt and that it was because I have put on some weight since we started dating (even though I was underweight when we started dating due to a medicine I was taking and now am at a healthy weight and normal bmi).  And now I have just lost all interest in sex (and I used to enjoy it).  It makes me sad though that we are going to be one of those couples that never has sex once we (hopefully) finally have kids.

I know how you ladies feel, and am so sorry that you are also going through this.  Sending you hugs!

URMySunshine77

Just want to sneak in and commiserate with you other ladies. @hooligans4, @BeckyP005, and @ Lady2010--it's the same case here. It seems to never be the right time, and my drive is high. 

I also don't want him to think that I only want to BD to TTC. I honestly miss doing it in general. And I have a fear that we won't BD after we conceive a second (should that happen).

hooligans4

What is up with our men!!!!!!

I thought men were suposto to want sex all the time. It totally sucks.

@URMySunshine77 my sex drive is high and always has been so I understand. At this point I would take it anytime during the month.

@Lady2010 please don't think it is because you put on weight. This is all on the men. It has nothing to do with us.

We all have to just keep insisting on more sex.
Just know that we are not alone and can lean on each other.

BeckyP005

Ha I actually said that to MH once...guys want it all the time! Then again when you have this problem of low sex drive then they are not "most" men. I can't remember if his Dr gave him anything than Viagra. This was awhile back.

My sex drive used to be high but when your not having sex that often I'm kinda dead now or just accept it. He said it's because of the weight he put on also in combination of his issue. I'm relieved I'm not the only one Its just something we are going to have to work on I guess...

HeathernSteven

Oh ladies I feel your pain!! I am ALWAYS initiating sex, although there was a brief period after getting married I just had nothing, it was strange, but now I do have for the last few years but its always me, just once I would like him to come up to me and drag me to bed. 

he turns me down alot and I tell him I think you are the only guy that turns a woman down, in a somewhat joking way. I just don';t know what it is, he does say he's tired, too much do etc etc...It just baffles me.

So you ladies are not alone.

KirstenAlecia

hooligans4 said:

What is up with our men!!!!!! I thought men were suposto to want sex all the time. It totally sucks. @URMySunshine77 my sex drive is high and always has been so I understand. At this point I would take it anytime during the month. @Lady2010 please don't think it is because you put on weight. This is all on the men. It has nothing to do with us. We all have to just keep insisting on more sex. Just know that we are not alone and can lean on each other.

I came in here expecting to see more posting about a pup….whoa! lol

Im sorry you ladies are having troubles with the men and their drives. Has anyones H suggested its because of it feeling like its just turned into baby making? I know a couple months it seemed like thats the only time we do the deed. For us thats not normal but it really  was about schedules (mine not his). Maybe get the H to tell you what he thinks it is??

URMySunshine77

KirstenAlecia said:

hooligans4 said:

What is up with our men!!!!!! I thought men were suposto to want sex all the time. It totally sucks. @URMySunshine77 my sex drive is high and always has been so I understand. At this point I would take it anytime during the month. @Lady2010 please don't think it is because you put on weight. This is all on the men. It has nothing to do with us. We all have to just keep insisting on more sex. Just know that we are not alone and can lean on each other.

I came in here expecting to see more posting about a pup….whoa! lol

Im sorry you ladies are having troubles with the men and their drives. Has anyones H suggested its because of it feeling like its just turned into baby making? I know a couple months it seemed like thats the only time we do the deed. For us thats not normal but it really  was about schedules (mine not his). Maybe get the H to tell you what he thinks it is??

@KirstenAlecia--I think that could be part of the problem. Since I haven't had a period and we are NTNP right now, he may be thinking about the consequences. He does want another child, but he just is sensitive to the responsibilities behind the act, so to speak.

BeckyP005

No because we are using DE @KirstenAlecia.

Yep pup talk is over haha