for the last two weeks, ive been going to the gym and eating healthier... and i dont think its working! i go to an hour spin class on monday, run/walk on the treadmill for 30 minutes and do some machines on wednesday, another hour spin class on thursday and a yoga class on saturday - on top of running around after my two little ones during the day!
the scale isnt moving
Re: i dont think its working....
Also, losing weight is a slow process. Unless you have a lot to lose, you should expect to lose about a pound a week. More than that will be miserable and potentially unhealthy.
It takes time. Don't lose sight. Just keep at it!
As others have said - ditch the scale and go off of how your clothes are fitting (this will change with transitioning fat into muscle!) and how you're feeling. The only deficiencies I notice are where is your lifting and what is your diet doing to accommodate the exercise. Notice that DID NOT say "cut calories" because over-exercising and under-eating can be worse for you than doing nothing to get the body back on track. Many of my bodybuilding friends point out how they eat more calories when prepping for a show compared to their normal diet, but remember, everything they're eating tastes like chicken and cardboard..
Lifting is also something you should be doing because muscle burns more calories to maintain itself. My lifting friends say one perk of lifting is they get to eat more to maintain thus "get away with it" in a sense... Muscle will also give you definition which is a good thing. Never fear bulking, women don't have nearly enough testosterone to "bulk"...