My family and I are attending a gender reveal party for a close friend of mine on Saturday. It didn't specifically say the word "shower" on the invite, but I am wondering if I need to buy a gender neutral gift to give at the party? This is her third child, second biological. I was planning on bringing my favorite book about becoming an older sibling for the kids...but that's not really for the mom to be, or baby exactly. So should I get something else? I have a 3 week old and a 21 month old so getting out to go shopping right now is a bit difficult...any suggestions on what to get?