Long story short, last summer I sort of cold called a potential employer. I knew a new program was in the works so I emailed her to see what the plans were for a program director position. To my surprise she wanted to meet. I go meet her and another team member... it went great! We emailed back and forth a few times, they told me I would be a great fit, timing could be tricky, but it will work blah blah blah. In the meantime I turned down another job offer (still kicking myself!) Two months later, she is no longer answering my emails (I sent 2 each a few weeks apart). Fast forward to last week, the exact position is now posted?! I applied formally through the company website, but now i'm wondering if I should send the hiring manager another email. I don't want to come off as desperate, but I'm also so confused as to how we went from you are a perfect fit to a complete brush off...
So, what do you ladies think? Should i just see what happens applying through normal channels or take a chance and email her again? If I email, what should I say? "Hey! remember me? you all but promised me the job! what happened?" ha, I kid. sort of

Sorry so long, thanks for any advice!
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Is the person you were communicating with before still in charge of hiring for the position?
You could send a follow up email to the contact person you had, revisiting your qualifications, letting her know that you formally applied for the position via the online application and that you are looking forward to continued conversations with her about the position.
Good Luck
are you a revenge fan or is your name really emily thorne!?
I agree with PP....send another email to both people you met with just saying you formally applied online, look forward to continuing conversations...ask if there is anyone else you should be reaching out to/meeting with, etc. Thats very annoying! But i feel like it happens all the time...