My judgement is bad roots. (Which I'm dangerously close to having.) if you are going to dye your hair keep that shit looking good! There's no excuse for 3 inch grow out!
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be ourR AI NBOWtake home baby BOY
What do you judge?
My judgement is bad roots. (Which I'm dangerously close to having.) if you are going to dye your hair keep that shit looking good! There's no excuse for 3 inch grow out!
ha! I had 6 inches of grow out! BUT for the record it was brown on brown so only I really noticed it!
I judge those stupid family stickers on cars, especially the sports ones that give the kid's name, team, and jersey number. They should have "please kidnap my child" written underneath.
Kinda like @Hawkward, I get judgy of the people with the 12 different sports stickers on the back of the cars... I guess I look at it like "hey look at my awesome family that can afford 3 sports per kid!" and then it makes me sad because I feel like they dont have any time to just sit and "be a family together"... but then again that is how some families are "a family together"
I judge ladies who over-process their hair to the point that it is gross, and frizzy on the ends.
I also judge women who tan so much that they look like a leather handbag. I had a friend who would wear baby oil in the summer.... I am so pale I am practically see-through. My dermatologist says I have to wear +60 SPF.
Mine is highly processed but I take good care if it. No frizz here. So I don't deserve judgement right?!
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be ourR AI NBOWtake home baby BOY
I agree with all pp's judging! I judge people who receive WIC, Food stamps, DTA assistance but drive nicer cars than I do and have all the newest gadgets, etc. Um, hello, I am not working so you can collect even though you are capable of working for yourself. (FYI I do support those services if you really need them and are not trying to cheat the system).
Me: 31 * DH: 33 * TTC since Sept 2012
Hx of Pulmonary Embolisms, Right Sided Heart Failure and Nephrotic Syndrome 2001
Began working with RE Dec 2012February 2013: Clomid 100mg + Ovidrel BFP # 1: 2/26/13 * EDD 11/9/13 * MMC at 7w5d -- 3/27/13 * D&C 3/28/13May 2013: Clomid 100mg + Ovidrel + PIO + Lovenox BFP # 2: 6/6/13 * EDD 2/18/14 * MMC at 11w1d -- 7/31/13 * D&C 8/1/13RPL Testing & Karotyping was normal for both of usEmbryo testing was inconclusiveBenched July 2013- January 2014 due to Lupus FlareWTF appt 2/12/14IVF is OUT and Clomid + Ovidrel + Endometrium is in... AGAINBFP # 3: 2/28/14 * EDD: 11/12/14 * CP 3/1/14TTC on our own until April 2014*A persons a person no matter how small*
OOHHH and I get judgy of girls that wear short skirts and 4 inch heels when there is mounds of snow all around and snow covered sidewalks... then complain about not being able to get around.... boots... the proper foot attire for this polar vortex winter is boots...
Oh I judge close-minded people who are completely ignorant about the rest of the country/world outside of their little area. I'm from small town America too.
TTC: Since July 2013 BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
I judge people who complain about their life but don't attempt to do anything to actively improve their situation. It really frustrates me because we live in a country where post-secondary education is nearly free, jobs are plentiful and resources are available.
It's already been mentioned, but I'm super judge-y about grammar and spelling. In addition to the problems with the theres and yours, I hate when people say "I seen" or "axe a question".
What do you judge?
My judgement is bad roots. (Which I'm dangerously close to having.) if you are going to dye your hair keep that shit looking good! There's no excuse for 3 inch grow out!
You would judge the shit out of me right now and I would agree with you. I last got my hair dyed (and I'm a many years dyed redhead) in mid-December. I ended up being OOT a lot of January because of my dad's health and then the whole pregnancy thing happened and I didn't want to schedule anything when I didn't know what was going on.
I'm totally calling my girl today, though, and am going to try to get in next week. It doesn't look too bad if my hair is in a bun, but my greys are showing through big-time. My bangs have grown out so much they look like either side-swept on purpose or a really short layer. I am a mess
TTC #1 since 11/2012 Me-31, H-27 **Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP** **Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25** Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14 SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal. HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall. Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed. 9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014 BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000! U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015 U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
I judge people at the gym who are chatting or playing with their phones the entire time. I'm not talking about taking a little break here or there. Don't kid yourself, you did not exercise and don't boast about how much time you "workout". My SIL is one of those people... goes to the gym for 2 hrs, gets 30 min of actual work in and then talks about how much time she spends at the gym.
TTC #1 since March 2011
BFP #1: EDD 4/16/13~~blighted ovum w/ 2 gestational sacs~~Loss on 9/18/12 BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13
9/13, 10/13, 1/14: letrozole + trigger + TI = All BFNs
I judge people who abuse their roadside assistance insurance. For instance: Sitting in ones driveway and calling for "free" gas knowing full well they have plenty to get around. Ive actually been told I pay my insurance, they owe me.(wtf?) If I don't have to put a customers address into the gps to get to them and I have their number saved in my cell as fuel abuser, they call way too much.
I judge people who complain about not having any money, yet smoke, drink, eat out all the time, have expensive phones with a huge data plan and splurge on stupid crap.
TTC since 4/28/07 Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.
I judge people who are underwater on their house and get cars repossessed yet purposely have more children.
I judge the homeless people that beg me for money with their fancy clothes, shoes and phones.
I judge the people who talk down about the food I'm eating. "Hey did you know that has this much fat or is not organic blah blah" yet they never EVER workout.
I judge people who argue about a cause but then never do anything to help support it. Donate some time or money and stop bitching.
"It's, not, where you are, it's where you're going, And it's, not, about the things you've done, it's what you're doing, now" TTC Journey Began 8/12 BFP #1 11/9/12, MMC/D&C 12/21/12 @ 9w2d, EDD 7/24/13 SAs: 2%-3% Morph - RE Official Diagnosis Unexplained BFN = IUI #1 (Clomid) | IUI #2 (Letrozole) BFP #2 4/19/14 = IUI #3 (Letrozole) Expecting Our Elf 12/27/14 ~All Welcome~
I judge people who have bratty kids and are oblivious to the fact. I also judge people who let their kids go out in public with bare feet.
I also judge people who smoke in public parks near others - people who swear in public -- people who spit -- people who use bad grammar.
05/31/1997: Married DH - Began TTC right away | 08/2002: Diagnosed with PCOS, Endometriosis
10/05/2005: Adpoted DS - Funniest boy ever! 09/2007: Ectopic with rupture - lost right tube | 09/2012: Ectopic - saved the left tube 08/05/2013: BFP not ectopic | EDD: 4/22/2014 | 09/15/2013: Miscarried at home
Underwent Gastric Bypass 01/06/2014 to help with PCOS and weight. Lost 186 lbs - had to TTA for 1 year Burned the bench 01/20/15 - Medicated Cycle with Clomid and HCG trigger shot on 02/08/2015 ++++ BFP 2/17/18 ++++ EDD 10/26/2015
"Now the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that ye may abound in hope, through the power of the Holy Ghost." ~ Romans 15:13
I judge people that park crooked in a spot. It literally takes 6 seconds to straighten the damn car out. I timed it
I judge women that don't knowbasic information about their cycles
I judge people that "speak" in abbreviations on facebook ALL the time (u, imma, r, etc) or those with horrendous spelling (obviously mistakes happen but check that shit sometimes before hitting post)
I judge people that show no interest in caring for their well being
I could go on forever
4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012) All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal
I judge people who complain about their situation but do nothing to improve it (I know this was already said but this is mainly me b*tching about work).
I judge adults who use words such as "yucky" "poop" (especially when they don't have young children).
I judge people who smoke.
I judge ignorant people (but I also envy them).
I judge judging.
I could go on for days.
Married the love of my life June 18, 2011 -- Me (28) DH (29)
I judge women that wear tights as pants.
I judge people that keep their pets outside in bad weather.
I judge people that look at their cell phones more than the people they're with.
YES! Tim Gunn said it best. If you have to ask if this is a dress or a shirt it's a shirt.
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be ourR AI NBOWtake home baby BOY
I judge people who stand in front of you at the gas station with their 1,000,000,000 scratch tickets and then proceed to use their $20 in winnings to pick out each 50cent ticket individually. AND THEN stand there and open them all!
I LOVE this thread, btw. I have never laughed so hard in my life.
Re: Lets get judgy
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014
TTCAL BLOG
All ALers welcome!
TTC since March 2012
BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13
BFP #3 8/11/14 EDD 4/22/14
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
~All AL always welcome~
My Ovulation Chart
BFP 9/24/13 EDD 6/8/14 no HB at 1st U/S Stopped growing at 7 weeks D&C 11/01/13
BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
I'm totally calling my girl today, though, and am going to try to get in next week. It doesn't look too bad if my hair is in a bun, but my greys are showing through big-time. My bangs have grown out so much they look like either side-swept on purpose or a really short layer. I am a mess
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13
Ive actually been told I pay my insurance, they owe me.(wtf?)
If I don't have to put a customers address into the gps to get to them and I have their number saved in my cell as fuel abuser, they call way too much.
That is all
The day the Bump died - Jasper is wise
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
~All AL always welcome~
The day the Bump died - Jasper is wise
Ew! Why? What's wrong with khaki lol
BFP 9/24/13 EDD 6/8/14 no HB at 1st U/S Stopped growing at 7 weeks D&C 11/01/13
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.
June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!
***PGAL/PAL WELCOME***
"It's, not, where you are, it's where you're going,
And it's, not, about the things you've done, it's what you're doing, now"
TTC Journey Began 8/12
BFP #1 11/9/12, MMC/D&C 12/21/12 @ 9w2d, EDD 7/24/13
SAs: 2%-3% Morph - RE Official Diagnosis Unexplained
BFN = IUI #1 (Clomid) | IUI #2 (Letrozole)
BFP #2 4/19/14 = IUI #3 (Letrozole)
Expecting Our Elf 12/27/14
~All Welcome~
I judge people who have bratty kids and are oblivious to the fact. I also judge people who let their kids go out in public with bare feet.
I also judge people who smoke in public parks near others - people who swear in public -- people who spit -- people who use bad grammar.
09/2007: Ectopic with rupture - lost right tube | 09/2012: Ectopic - saved the left tube
08/05/2013: BFP not ectopic | EDD: 4/22/2014 | 09/15/2013: Miscarried at home
Burned the bench 01/20/15 - Medicated Cycle with Clomid and HCG trigger shot on 02/08/2015
++++ BFP 2/17/18 ++++ EDD 10/26/2015
I judge people that park crooked in a spot. It literally takes 6 seconds to straighten the damn car out. I timed it
I judge women that don't knowbasic information about their cycles
I judge people that "speak" in abbreviations on facebook ALL the time (u, imma, r, etc) or those with horrendous spelling (obviously mistakes happen but check that shit sometimes before hitting post)
I judge people that show no interest in caring for their well being
I could go on forever
4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal
5 IUIs = BFN
All AL are welcome
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
~All AL always welcome~
I judge people who are unfriendly.
I judge myself for rating a bagel with cream cheese for breakfast.
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
~All AL always welcome~
THE DARK SIDE IT IS
and GBCB
BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia
BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
~All AL always welcome~
I judge people who stand in front of you at the gas station with their 1,000,000,000 scratch tickets and then proceed to use their $20 in winnings to pick out each 50cent ticket individually. AND THEN stand there and open them all!
I LOVE this thread, btw. I have never laughed so hard in my life.