Did you ladies do your own injections or have you husband or SO? I'm not afraid of needles, but I do not do well with self inflicted pain.... And tips that helped the injections be less painful? Any tips are appreciated. TIA
Most of the shots are sub-q, which really don't hurt at all! Some might burn a little bit, but overall, it's not that painful. (And I'm terrified of needles!) The pre-filled syringes are the worst, because they tend to be rather dull, but it's over quickly. I find the build-up to it is the worst! I had to really psych myself up to do it, but in the end I just ended up wondering what I was so worried about!
DH can't even be in the same room when I do it. He doesn't have a problem with getting needles himself (though he doesn't like blood draws), but he just can't watch me do it to myself! There's no way he could do it for me. Plus, it's not that I don't trust DH, but I figure that if something should get messed up, I'd rather have it be me that messed it up, rather than having DH mess it up, or blame him for hurting me.
For subcutaneous, I did my own in my stomach. My husband did all the mixing/preparation and it was nice having him be part of the process. But I wanted to do it myself (I'm not especially scared of needles though). For intramuscular (on your upper buttcheck), he did it. I couldn't physically manage that one but I wasn't a big fan of not expecting when to feel it (even though he would warn me...it's still not the same as doing it yourself). Which meds are you doing? Most of them don't actually hurt, minus a few that could burn a bit. Ice the area before to help numb it if you're worried about the actual injection hurting. Then a warm compress after )
Our Novel of TTC:
*Male Factor (low count and low motility), High Prolactin, and Polycystic Ovaries (March 2013)
*Recurrent Miscarriage testing also revealed high anti-phospholipids & single MTHFR mutation. (Feb 2014)
*IVF (07/2013): BFP-Natural Miscarriage @ 5 weeks* Madison Riley *FET #1 (10/2013): BFN *FET #2 (12/2013)- BFP-Missed Miscarriage at 8 weeks Kyle Andrew *Chromosomes and Karotyping tests were both normal.We lost a healthy baby boy *FET #3 (04/2014) was cancelled after finding Chronic Endometritis
*Miraculous BFP July 2014!! (I was taking baby aspirin and Cabergoline to stay regulated while "taking a break from TTC" and waiting to consult with a reproductive immunologist!!!)
Our healthy baby girl was born 03/10/15 thanks to daily Lovenox injections and baby aspirin. There are no words for how grateful I am for our rainbow baby.
I did all the subQ injections (lupron, ganirelix, follistim, and menopur) myself. My husband did the IM injections (trigger in the deltoid/arm and PIO in the hip/butt area) for me because they are logistically harder to do yourself.
DH (32): SA is ok, slightly low morph, normal SCSA Me (32): Slightly low progesterone, hostile CM, carrier for CF, Moderately high NKC, High TNFa, heterozyogous mutated Factor XIII, and +APA
October 2012-May 2014: 4 failed IUIs, 3 failed IVFs, and 1 failed FETw/donor embryos
November 2014: IVF w/ICSI #4 Agonist/Antagonist with EPP and Prednisone, Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, and IVIG for immune issues. Converted to freeze all due to lining issues. 2 blasts frozen on day 6!
January 2015: FET #2 Cancelled due to lining issues
I do all of them myself, including IM PIO for this upcoming cycle. DH did them for our first cycle, but I much prefer doing them myself!
For our next cycle I don't have a choice since DH is working out of state right now (he just started his new job but we don't move into our new house for 2 months!).
Getting everything ready, stabbing quick and just getting it over with helps me . GL!
TTC since 2008 Dh:34, no issues. Me:31, Endo, slightly hypothyroid, deformed ovary, paracentric inversion. 4 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone +TI cycles= all BFN Lap in 2012 to remove large unresolving cyst discovered endo and double lobed ovary. 6 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone IUI cycles= All BFN, 1st IVF w/ICSI- June '13 Antagonist: Gonal-F, Menopur, Ganirelix, HcG, Estradiol, Crinone= 7 retrieved, 4 mature, 1 unfertilized, 2 abnormally fertilized, 1 normally fertilized. 2DT of only embryo and our miracle BFP. Our beloved baby boy was born sleeping Oct. 13, 2013 due to pROM/IC/Uterine infection. 2nd IVF w/ICSI- Feb. '14 EPP/lupron/antagonist: Estrace, lupron, HGH, Gonal-F, Menopur, HcG, PIO, lovenox, doxy/dex.=21 retrieved, 16 mature, 15 fertilized!! 5dt of 1 blast/ 6 frozen. BFP! Beta 1 9dp5dt:83.9 Beta 2: 11dp5dt: 145.2 Beta 3 14dp5dt: 497 Please be our sticky rainbow baby!
So . . . the ones that had to be in the butt or upper back area . . . they are big needles but do they hurt more then the smaller needles? If the IUI this month doesn't work I am on to IVF. Just trying to understand what I could be in for.
DS born @32 weeks with IUGR and a heart defect. Passed away May 2015 DD born July 2016 TTC #3
I handle all of them (lupron, follistim, menopur, trigger) myself. Only one DH does is PIO only because I just not sure how I would comfortably do the shot. He absolutely dreads giving me that shot.
FET#2 August: delayed due to thin lining (6.3). Took a few months off to try and thicken the lining with lots of estrodial. FET#2.2 December: Cancelled due to thin lining (4.8). Two frosties left.
*New RE* Sonohystrogram and hystereoscopy done in Feb.
IVF #2: ER 3/4/14 ET 3/7/14, transferred 3, 3 day 9 cell perfect embryos. No frosties.
Beta #1 (14dp3dt) 504
Beta #2 (21dp3dt) 11,561
First ultrasound on 4/3/14 showed 3 sacs: one empty and two with beating hearts!! At 7w2d, found out that one baby did not have a heartbeat anymore. Praying that baby B makes it. Baby B is a girl!
Mine were all sub-q with the exception of 1 of the 2 trigger shots. I did all the sub-q. My husband did the IM trigger because it was awkward for me to reach.
dx: Unexplained IF TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3
TI, 2 IUI = BFN
IVF #1 (May 2013): Antagonist
Protocol: 24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2
early blasts, no frosties = BFN
IVF #2 (August 2013): Lupron Stop
Protocol: 28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1
partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d) FET #1 (April 2014): transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP C.J. born 01/09/15
I do my own.... I love my husband but he would stress me out even more about it. I want full control.
***siggy/ticker warning***
Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012 Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR, DH: normal
IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix. - poor responder ***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms FET 5/20- BFP 1st Beta- 641 2nd beta- 2166 Sono- TWINS!!!! Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks. Healthy and no NICU! So blessed!
I started out thinking OH would do them all, then there was a night that he had to be out, so I HAD to do them, and now it's just whatever gets the job done. I hate the shots cumulatively, but each one isn't too bad. I don't do anything to make it less painful aside from trying to make it as quick as possible.
The blood draws are worse. I don't know what the hell the nurse did to my arm today, but I have a 1/4" long gouge on my best vein.
***Losses mentioned.*** TTC #1 since May 2012. Me: 37, OH: 41. Ectopic August 2012 => tubal damage. Stage 1 endo removed June 2013. IVF #1 Oct/Nov 2013: Long Lupron with Gonal-F. 7R, 7M, 7F. 2 txfer@3d. Nothing frozen. => M/C @ 8 wks. Selected RPL panel all normal. Very hyper and brittle response to stims. IVF #2 (antagonist protocol) Feb 2014 => Converted to IUI (Perfect conditions). BFN. IVF #2.1 w/ new RE June 2014: Antagonist protocol. 33R, 31M, 30F, 19 blasts to test!!! I made it through without crashing!! Hats off to Dr. Fancypants!! ET of one 5AB blast. BFN. 13 10 CCS'ed snowflakes! FET #1 PUPO as of 7/29 Betas: 8/7@24, 8/9@97, 8/11@334 (etc.) Two sacs on 8/15, one seen on 8/18 after a bleed. U/s 8/25 (6+3) "perfect": 5.9 mm + HB@120bpm! U/s 9/4 (7+6): 15.9 mm + HB@172 bpm! Please, PLEASE stick this time!!!!
So . . . the ones that had to be in the butt or upper back area . . . they are big needles but do they hurt more then the smaller needles? If the IUI this month doesn't work I am on to IVF. Just trying to understand what I could be in for.
Yes, the larger needles and intramuscular injections are more, um, noticeable than the subcutaneous injections. I do the sub-q meds myself and DH does the IM ones. Although a few times he wasn't home and I had to work up the courage to do the butt-shot myself. (Cue the Rocky theme playing in the background...) I did feel like a badass afterward though.
I did them all myself this cycle (mother did them for me first cycle). I am a total wuss and a big time needle phobe; however, I was determined to do them all by myself this cycle. I'm with @ksgsmu - my DH would stress me out even more!
I didn't do a quick jab at all. I put the needle against my skin and just pushed it in. I was always afraid to jab. Towards the end of my stims when I was really sore and bruised, I would ice the area for a few minutes before and that seemed to help me. Good luck!!
f/k/a/ Kari3629
Me: 40/DH: 34
Unexplained IF
IVF #1 - 9/2013 8ER/5M/4EF/4ET = BFN
IVF #2 - 2/2014 - Fingers crossed this is the one!
4ER/3EF/3 "beautiful embryos" transferred - Beta March 7 = BFN
My DH has the most UNSTEADY hands ever... which is concerning because he was a medic in the military. Anyway... I've let him give me my shots before, mainly the intramuscular ones (shockingly he does a great job) but every now and again... he makes me so nervous. He asked me this time if I wanted him to help me and my response was HELL NAW I'm not letting him anywhere near me and my shots. He makes me nervous just prepping the needles. But i probably will let him. Its his way of being involved.
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Loss and IF veteran. Current mom of DS 5.5, DD 2, and sometimes DH 40. Due June 2021 with TWINS
Well I think the idea of me poking a needle through my skin freaks me out more than my husband doing it. Let's hope I can put on my big girl panties and do it by myself...
I'll be the odd ball here, but DH did all my injections for me. I'm not a huge fan of needles, but I think I could have probably done the subq ones myself if I needed to. DH is just really super meticulous and had steady hands (I shake really bad) so it seemed natural to have him do them. As for the PIO shot...I have no clue how I would've done that one on my own. I pretty much just closed my eyes and said a little prayer whenever he did it.
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TTC since 2011
Aug. - Sept. 2013 - dIUIs = BFNs
January 2014 - IVF = 3 freezer babies
March 2014 - FET of AA and AB blast = BFP! Twins!
Nov. 7, 2014 - Wilhelmina "Willa" Suzanne (4lb 14oz) and Ari Jose (6lb 4oz) were born via CS
For our first IVF cycle, I was going to have my husband help with the sub-q injections. But, I found they hurt less if I did them myself. So, if my husband was around, he just helped with mixing.
For the IM shots, my husband did all of them until I was out of town for work during one cycle. After I gave my first IM shot to myself, I realized it wasn't as hard as I expected and again it hurt less if I did it. When I was doing PIO, if my husband was around, I would still have him massage the injection site.
~SAIF/PAIF/Everyone Welcome~
Me= 37 and DH = 41
Dx: DOR, Endo, APA+ (really high beta 2 glycoprotein antibody and high everything else tested), heterozygous MTHFR mutation, positive for lupus anticoagulant, high FSH, low AMH and both tubes blocked (per HSG on 3/8/11)
IVF #1 - long lupron (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 4 retrieved, 3 fertilized; ET 2 blasts and 1 frozen = BFN
IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.
IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132. Lil is here!
I did all of the sub-q myself but my DH helped mix and prep! They don't hurt at all...just stick it in quickly don't go slowly...I found that hurts MUCH worse. DH administered my IM shots since they went in the butt area good luck
I guess plans can change when you're actually at the starting line and ready for the start the injection. I'm happy to hear you ladies were able to administer them yourselves. That's awesome.
I've only had two days of injections but my husband has done everything (prep, mix and inject). It's been nice to him have be such a big part of the IF experience for once. Plus there is no way I'd choose to inject myself.
My first 2 cycles, my H or sister or mom or friend did them for me. I'm terrified of needles and blood. This time, I did a lot of them myself, all subQ, but even my trigger since my H works nights now. I could not do the menopur myself because I was afraid the burning would not let me finish it. I literally almost passed out watching the trigger go in, but I did fine. I practiced on a tomato and just kept thinking, " its a tomato!" It's silly, but it helps me. Good luck!
****************SIGGY WARNING****************
TTC since 2011
DH: 29, Severe MFI; grade III varicocele; surgery postponed till KU
Me: 30, POF/DOR, factor II hetero, MTHFR homo
5 IVF's, LLP, EEP, MDLF all BFN
IVF 6 using DEB USA frozen eggs
developed bilateral PE's from BCP, cancelled/delayed 6 mths, taking lovenox
I think I will def require practice... Thankfully I hope my dh will be home with me to administer them for me.. But I must say you kick butt ladies inspire me to try it on my own
I thought giving myself the subq shots gave me a little sense of control over something that is controlling me. Does that make sense? I couldn't bear the thought of letting my DH do it, even though he was totally on board to help in any way. I did, however, make my nurse BFF give me my IM trigger last night because a) how awkward is it to give yourself a shot in the bum- major kudos to you rockstar ladies for getting the job done, and b) as much of a rockstar that I thought I was giving myself all the other shots, that bigger needle was kinda intimidating...
Re: Self administered injections??
Most of the shots are sub-q, which really don't hurt at all! Some might burn a little bit, but overall, it's not that painful. (And I'm terrified of needles!) The pre-filled syringes are the worst, because they tend to be rather dull, but it's over quickly. I find the build-up to it is the worst! I had to really psych myself up to do it, but in the end I just ended up wondering what I was so worried about!
DH can't even be in the same room when I do it. He doesn't have a problem with getting needles himself (though he doesn't like blood draws), but he just can't watch me do it to myself! There's no way he could do it for me. Plus, it's not that I don't trust DH, but I figure that if something should get messed up, I'd rather have it be me that messed it up, rather than having DH mess it up, or blame him for hurting me.
***EVERYONE WELCOME***
*IVF (07/2013): BFP-Natural Miscarriage @ 5 weeks*
*FET #1 (10/2013): BFN
*FET #2 (12/2013)- BFP-Missed Miscarriage at 8 weeks
*Chromosomes and Karotyping tests were both normal.We lost a healthy baby boy
*FET #3 (04/2014) was cancelled after finding Chronic Endometritis
TTC #1 since August 2011
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September 2012: Start IF testing
DH (32): SA is ok, slightly low morph, normal SCSA Me (32): Slightly low progesterone, hostile CM, carrier for CF, Moderately high NKC, High TNFa, heterozyogous mutated Factor XIII, and +APA
October 2012-May 2014: 4 failed IUIs, 3 failed IVFs, and 1 failed FETw/donor embryos
November 2014: IVF w/ICSI #4 Agonist/Antagonist with EPP and Prednisone, Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, and IVIG for immune issues. Converted to freeze all due to lining issues. 2 blasts frozen on day 6!
January 2015: FET #2 Cancelled due to lining issues
April 2015: FET #2.1
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For our next cycle I don't have a choice since DH is working out of state right now (he just started his new job but we don't move into our new house for 2 months!).
Getting everything ready, stabbing quick and just getting it over with helps me
TTC since 2008
Dh:34, no issues. Me:31, Endo, slightly hypothyroid, deformed ovary, paracentric inversion.
4 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone +TI cycles= all BFN
Lap in 2012 to remove large unresolving cyst discovered endo and double lobed ovary.
6 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone IUI cycles= All BFN,
1st IVF w/ICSI- June '13 Antagonist: Gonal-F, Menopur, Ganirelix, HcG, Estradiol, Crinone= 7 retrieved, 4 mature, 1 unfertilized, 2 abnormally fertilized, 1 normally fertilized. 2DT of only embryo and our miracle BFP.
Our beloved baby boy was born sleeping Oct. 13, 2013 due to pROM/IC/Uterine infection.
2nd IVF w/ICSI- Feb. '14 EPP/lupron/antagonist: Estrace, lupron, HGH, Gonal-F, Menopur, HcG, PIO, lovenox, doxy/dex.=21 retrieved, 16 mature, 15 fertilized!! 5dt of 1 blast/ 6 frozen. BFP! Beta 1 9dp5dt:83.9 Beta 2: 11dp5dt: 145.2 Beta 3 14dp5dt: 497 Please be our sticky rainbow baby!
IVF #1 Oct 2013- cancelled
IVF #2 Mar 2014- success.... baby girl born 11/28/14
FET #1 Mar 2016- baby boy due 12/16/16
DD born July 2016
TTC #3
**Sig warning***
TTC since 9/2011. DH - 32, me 32.
IUI#1 (natural): BFN; IUI#2 (clomid): BFN; IUI#3 (clomid and follistim): BFN.
IVF #1 March 2013, freeze all (OHSS).
FET#1 June: BFN
FET#2 August: delayed due to thin lining (6.3). Took a few months off to try and thicken the lining with lots of estrodial. FET#2.2 December: Cancelled due to thin lining (4.8). Two frosties left.
*New RE* Sonohystrogram and hystereoscopy done in Feb.
IVF #2: ER 3/4/14 ET 3/7/14, transferred 3, 3 day 9 cell perfect embryos. No frosties.
Beta #1 (14dp3dt) 504
Beta #2 (21dp3dt) 11,561
First ultrasound on 4/3/14 showed 3 sacs: one empty and two with beating hearts!! At 7w2d, found out that one baby did not have a heartbeat anymore. Praying that baby B makes it. Baby B is a girl!
EDD 11/25/14 BORN 11/29/14
**PAIF/anyone welcomed to comment!! Thank you.
dx: Unexplained IF
TTC since May 2011, 1 year trying, and then 3 TI, 2 IUI = BFN
IVF #1 (May 2013): Antagonist Protocol:
24R, 18M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 2 early blasts, no frosties = BFN
IVF #2 (August 2013): Lupron Stop Protocol:
28R, 23M, 15F w/ICSI; 5dt of 1 partially hatched blast, 7 frosties = BFP
EDD 5/23/14, blighted ovum (6w6d), D&C (8w6d)
FET #1 (April 2014): transferred 2 5d blasts = BFP
C.J. born 01/09/15
Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR, DH: normal
IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
- poor responder
***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
FET 5/20- BFP
1st Beta- 641
2nd beta- 2166
Sono- TWINS!!!!
Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks. Healthy and no NICU! So blessed!
The blood draws are worse. I don't know what the hell the nurse did to my arm today, but I have a 1/4" long gouge on my best vein.
***Losses mentioned.*** TTC #1 since May 2012. Me: 37, OH: 41. Ectopic August 2012 => tubal damage.
2013: BFP #1 - M/C 3/13
2015: Dance break = got healthy
7/2016: IVF #5 = BFP!!!
I did them all myself this cycle (mother did them for me first cycle). I am a total wuss and a big time needle phobe; however, I was determined to do them all by myself this cycle. I'm with @ksgsmu - my DH would stress me out even more!
I didn't do a quick jab at all. I put the needle against my skin and just pushed it in. I was always afraid to jab. Towards the end of my stims when I was really sore and bruised, I would ice the area for a few minutes before and that seemed to help me. Good luck!!
f/k/a/ Kari3629
Me: 40/DH: 34
Unexplained IF
IVF #1 - 9/2013 8ER/5M/4EF/4ET = BFN
IVF #2 - 2/2014 - Fingers crossed this is the one!
4ER/3EF/3 "beautiful embryos" transferred - Beta March 7 = BFN
Everyone Welcome!
Waited a long time, tried a lot of stuff, science made me a mom.
N14 Nov. Siggy: CELEBRATION!
Male Factor (severe oligospermia)
For our first IVF cycle, I was going to have my husband help with the sub-q injections. But, I found they hurt less if I did them myself. So, if my husband was around, he just helped with mixing.
For the IM shots, my husband did all of them until I was out of town for work during one cycle. After I gave my first IM shot to myself, I realized it wasn't as hard as I expected and again it hurt less if I did it. When I was doing PIO, if my husband was around, I would still have him massage the injection site.
~SAIF/PAIF/Everyone Welcome~
Me= 37 and DH = 41
Dx: DOR, Endo, APA+ (really high beta 2 glycoprotein antibody and high everything else tested), heterozygous MTHFR mutation, positive for lupus anticoagulant, high FSH, low AMH and both tubes blocked (per HSG on 3/8/11)
IVF #1 - long lupron (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 4 retrieved, 3 fertilized; ET 2 blasts and 1 frozen = BFN
IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.
IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132. Lil is here!
TTC#2: Trigger + TI = BFN; Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN.
IVF #4: BCP + MDLF + Lovenox = 7R, 1F = Transferred 1 6-cell embryo on day 3 = BFN
IVF #5: MDLF + Lovenox = 4R, 1F = Transferred 1 10-cell compacting embryo on day 3 = BFN
IVF #6: (New RE): Long Antagonist November 2014 (transferred two 8 cell grade 1 embryos and froze one blast) = BFN
FET#1: BFN