Ventish/ need some support

JuddandJessica

I know this may sound ventish but you ladies are the only ones I know who will understand. Two years ago today I lost my son. I held him in my hands. I'm still very much grieving him. Not a single person remembered; not DH or even my mom who buried my infant sister. Not one person...

He was real. His life was real. He is loved.. Yet not a single person but his mommy remembers today. I'm feeling a bit down. I just put my rainbow down for a nap and told him again about his big brother. I miss him.

Mmm79

I am so sorry.  I'm tearing up for you and your LO.  He was your baby and he is loved.

((Hugs))

 

VeilSdeGTO

I'm sorry. (Hugs)

MJM3108

Oh, hon. I am crying for you and your precious son! He was your baby, he does matter, and he is loved. Saying a prayer for you and your Roo, and sending you huge (((HUGS))). I am so sorry it seems as if no one remembers him but you. That is so hard... 

Can you try and talk to your DH about this? I know my DH has not always remembered Grace's anniversary on his own, but as soon as I mention her, he knows. 

daisy19782011

Oh, I am so sorry. I lost my girl at 19 weeks, and I feel like I am the only one that misses her every day. Even though I have my new girls, I still miss her tremendously. I understand your pain, and I hope you feel better.

martinimomma

RosiePeare said:

I'm thinking of you and your sweet Roo today--please know that that little life is remembered and celebrated by all of the loss mamas here. I absolutely love that you remembered Roo today by telling your rainbow all about him; I think that's one of the most beautiful ways imaginable of remembering our angels. {{big hugs}}

This.  ((Huge Hugs))

ellebelle2384

So many hugs.  I'm so sorry.

BootsOrHearts

Hugs to you today!

He was a real person and he knows he was loved for the short time he was with you.

Mom2anAngel2

This breaks my heart.  I am so sorry that you are feeling alone in your grief and that no one remembered your little boy.  I know that your little boy is looking down over you and your rainbow and smiling, knowing that his mommy loves and misses him.  ((HUGS))

luvboston

Hugs I am sorry you are alone in this

4legsRbest

This made me cry. I am so sorry this happened to you, how alone you must feel.

Our angels will all give him an extra hug today. And huge (((hugs))) to you from us!

SciChick

(((hugs)))

orangegoggles

I am so sorry...((hugs))) I'm so sorry that happened, thinking of you and your angel!

JuddandJessica

You girls are the best. I can't even begin to tell you how much this helped me. I talked to DH that night (he was away on business) and though he did not remember the date, he opened up a bit on how much it still hurts. As it turns out, my mom did remember and showed up that night with two white roses.

Thank you girls, so very very much.

SunshinyLees

I'm so sorry to read this. Big (((hugs)))