First, sorry no GIFs. Forgive me? Stupid work ruins
everything.
My SS is that I spent last night in L&D because I’m a
spazzy FTM. I can admit this freely. I started having shooting pains and dull
aches on Wednesday, figured it was normal, but by Monday when it’s still there
decided to call and check. Since the clinic was closed they had me come into
L&D and they confirmed the pains were just RLP because my uterus is growing
like a friggin’ BEAST! They checked on the babies, the fluid levels, the
cervical length, etc and all is good! The nurses were really nice, it’s just my
pride (and low abdomen) that’s hurt!
I am going to Mexico on Sunday, I am really fucking excited haha. I want to get some sun on this belly and lay in a pool and drink virgin margaritas and sleep, oh god sleep.
Gee maybe I should have started my own thread, haha totally kidding.
Anyone have any suggestions for what a pregnant woman should do on Oahu? I've been once before, but we were with my ILs and didn't have much (if any) say in what we did.
Ooh, I love Oahu. How are you feeling these days? You may
not be up for hiking the mountain but there’s really nice trails and stuff that
aren’t too strenuous. We usually rent a Jeep and drive around the whole island
one day, stopping at little places along the way (Dole Plantation, North Shore,
etc) that look fun. You can get hubby to kayak you around or get a hoby cat to
sail for a bit. If you’re feeling tired though, I’d just spent a morning
reading a book in a hammock or floating in the pool/ocean. And eating… always
eating… lol. Have fun!
I'm pretty excited that I finally got 3 little onesies decorated for LO last night. I had everything sitting out in the living room for over a week and I needed to get it put up! Sad part is they were just iron on appliqués so it was the easiest thing in the world!!!
My SS is that I went presidents day shopping yesterday and bought like $300 worth of baby clothes at Kohls for $80. I was so so excited! I normally get hand-me-downs, so this is the first time I have gotten to pick things out myself :-). I also wanted to get co-ordinating outfits for the twins :-). Between these and the clothes I have left from DD, my twins should have some cute outfits.
My DD also tries to feel the babies every day, and she loves when she can feel them kick. It is so precious. She talks to them and tells them she loves them. DS gives my belly kisses :-).
I had a pregnant lady fail on the way to work this morning. I put my lunch in a backpack so I don't have to carry a bag since my hands get wet in the rain. (I know, I know...) As I was walking across campus I realized that my backpack made the bottom of the jacket creep up so I was flashing the world my fabulous full-panel maternity jeans. Awesome!
Andplusalso, why do college girls think it's necessary to wear short skirts and heels to 8:00am classes when it is raining and 34 degrees outside?
I was so proud of myself for making a great snack last night (since lately I have had an appetite for crap), steamed baby broccoli with garlic, salt & pepper and sprinkled with feta. Good stuff! Que to today, I've eaten 3/4 of a bag (8oz) of Munchos :-S This baby and I cannot get in the same page for what we should eat vs what we crave to eat. I even stated out loud the Bump, there will be no more junk food! Now what to do for lunch to off set the bag of chips...
First, sorry no GIFs. Forgive me? Stupid work ruins
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My SS is that I spent last night in L&D because I’m a
spazzy FTM. I can admit this freely. I started having shooting pains and dull
aches on Wednesday, figured it was normal, but by Monday when it’s still there
decided to call and check. Since the clinic was closed they had me come into
L&D and they confirmed the pains were just RLP because my uterus is growing
like a friggin’ BEAST! They checked on the babies, the fluid levels, the
cervical length, etc and all is good! The nurses were really nice, it’s just my
pride (and low abdomen) that’s hurt!
I'm on board with you here! I made a panicked late-afternoon run to MFM last Friday for a lot of the same reasons. Doesn't help that earlier in the week my cervix had continued to shorten and I ended up with a pessary, but I had myself worked up to basket case levels during the drive to the office. Oh, and that liquid discharge that had me terrified? Probably just babies taking their aggression out on my bladder... :-/ Glad to hear yours was a false alarm as well!
The real random thing I wanted to share actually happened while DH and I were sitting in the waiting room, more than a little anxious. A group of women had accompanied a couple (I assume to see the a/s), and were clucking like a bunch of chickens (DH's very apt assessment) the entire 30 minutes we sat there. The entire waiting room was subjected to their very loud and unedited conversation, but the kicker was toward the end, when they started discussing an acquaintance's current pregnancy. Evidently the woman was having complications, with severe fetal developmental issues. These biddies were throwing around details like "She'll likely have to have an abortion" and "It would probably be better if she just miscarried." Excuse me, WTF???? You're sitting there surrounded by women who are for one reason or another deemed high-risk and talking about abortions and miscarriages??? DH was ready to get up and say something; fortunately for us, the nurse called me back at about that point. Four days later, I still can't get over their sheer ignorance and lack of sensitivity.
On a more positive note, I LOVE that my MFM practice is so supportive with spazzy mothers. They made me feel completely in the right for getting checked out, even with nothing currently wrong.
Glad to see this thread! I've been wanting to get all your opinions, but didn't want to start my own thread. I know we had one like this not too long ago, but the circumstances are a bit different.
There is a concert I am dying to go to. Jason Aldean, Florida Georgia Line, Tyler Farr, and now MIRANDA LAMBERT. It's about an hour away, we would come home that night. The concert is on July 26, my due date is June 28th. It is totally madness to even consider going?? I am planning on breastfeeding. When I asked my mom's advice she just begged to babysit. Lol. My birthday is tomorrow, and DH hinted that he might buy tickets as my gift, but I don't want him to bother if it's a bad idea. I'm ALREADY desperate for a fun summer Saturday night with a beer (I know I'd have to pump and dump) and friends, but that soon after the baby am I going to want to leave him? Also, that's not even considering that I might go into labor late, which would only be about 3 weeks. Ugh, I feel so selfish even considering it. What are your thoughts?
Peraonally, I wouldn't go. I was so engorged for the first month or so and I used to leak everywhere. Being away from a potentially 3 week old baby at that point would probably really hurt your boobs! But I definitely can't fault you for wanting to go and you're not selfish for wanting a fun night with music and beer!
I really love it here. The out pouring of love and support I see given to members experiencing hard times is heart warming and shows just how connected we are as a community.
yellowbird219 - I say go for it! You can pump and leave a bottle for your mom when you're gone, and an extra bottle (or two) for later feeding while you're pumping and dumping. It sounds like a great night - and will be a great time for the two of you to get a break!
I want to slap a friend every time I see her post on FB. She is the perfect parent and every other parent is doing it wrong. Today she said that she "can't save every baby or slap every parent with knowledge." Barf.
Dearest husband if you continue to snore every single night I am going to hit you in the face with a brick in a sock!! *Quote fail... sorry...
@muffinhny- i feel your pain!!! FYI... earplugs work wonders!!!
Ok my SS turn!!! I just discovered Vera Bradley Baby!!!!!!!!! Made my own first baby clothing purchases yesterday- totally couldn't help myself!!! Weeee!!!!!
I have reached the stage of pregnancy where strangers and my patients at work are asking me when I'm due without me telling them I am pregnant. It always takes me by surprise.
I have also started "standing like a pregnant lady" and am resting my hands on my belly all the time. I always wondered why pregnant ladies always seemed to be touching their own belly...but I get it now. The belly makes a pretty good shelf!
Weird part is I caught my husband sitting on the couch last night holding HIS belly! He said he is not sure why he is doing that, but thinks he just picked it up from me. Highly amusing - he may be the most SS of us all!
Does anyone ever lurk on any other pregnancy apps? I occasionally look at What To Expect and it makes me so very grateful for this wonderfully organized supportive BMB.
I lurk there also and just can't bring myself to get active posting. Most of the time I feel like I'm reading the writings of my 14yr old daughter texting! I get the overall vibe some of the posters on WTE are just not that bright. At least here it's somewhat organized madness and fun.
I'm exhausted and want to take a nap in the worst way (which is unfortunate since Tuesdays are my late night and I'll be at work until 9:30/10ish, eastern time - it's only 2:30 now), but I did manage to get my hairs all cut today. Apparently it was the first time since November 13. I did the math and discovered that means it's been three months. Yikes.
I'm exhausted and want to take a nap in the worst way (which is unfortunate since Tuesdays are my late night and I'll be at work until 9:30/10ish, eastern time - it's only 2:30 now), but I did manage to get my hairs all cut today. Apparently it was the first time since November 13. I did the math and discovered that means it's been three months. Yikes.
Beautiful!! Nice cut!! And now I'm embarrassed to admit that I just got a cut last week which was my first since last July... um.. yeah. It had been a while!
Glad to see this thread! I've been wanting to get all your opinions, but didn't want to start my own thread. I know we had one like this not too long ago, but the circumstances are a bit different.
There is a concert I am dying to go to. Jason Aldean, Florida Georgia Line, Tyler Farr, and now MIRANDA LAMBERT. It's about an hour away, we would come home that night. The concert is on July 26, my due date is June 28th. It is totally madness to even consider going?? I am planning on breastfeeding. When I asked my mom's advice she just begged to babysit. Lol. My birthday is tomorrow, and DH hinted that he might buy tickets as my gift, but I don't want him to bother if it's a bad idea. I'm ALREADY desperate for a fun summer Saturday night with a beer (I know I'd have to pump and dump) and friends, but that soon after the baby am I going to want to leave him? Also, that's not even considering that I might go into labor late, which would only be about 3 weeks. Ugh, I feel so selfish even considering it. What are your thoughts?
If you really want to go I say go. My 30th bday is a month after baby is due and I fully plan on going out that night. My parents already agreed to babysit.
Found out my insurance covers a medela breast pump :-bd Only down side is I have to wait until after baby is born which sucks because I'm 40 miles from the town I have to pick it up in :-S
Andplusalso what's a good durable and dependable brand of nursing tanks bras and shirts?
Its 43 MOTHER FREAKING DEGREES IN CHICAGO!!!!! I walked outside today and for the first time in like 6 damn months it didn't HURT to be outside! Nothing went numb!!! It was FABULOUS!!! And, like the stereotypical pregnant lady that I am, I walked straight to the cupcake shop and back to work. Priorities dammit.
(Crumbs Sea Salted Carmel Cupcake, to be precise: )
I'm exhausted and want to take a nap in the worst way (which is unfortunate since Tuesdays are my late night and I'll be at work until 9:30/10ish, eastern time - it's only 2:30 now), but I did manage to get my hairs all cut today. Apparently it was the first time since November 13. I did the math and discovered that means it's been three months. Yikes.
Beautiful!! Nice cut!! And now I'm embarrassed to admit that I just got a cut last week which was my first since last July... um.. yeah. It had been a while!
How often do people usually get their hair cut? I do it MAYBE every 6 months.... Usually it's more like a year.
With how much my haircuts cost, I go as rarely as possible. But since my hair is below my shoulders usually, I can get away with it for longer than I bet someone can who has a shorter bob. I go to a special place in Manhattan that specializes in curly haircuts so I pick my visits wisely Luckily, as soon as I got knocked up, my hair got booted VERY low to the bottom of my priority list! I finally feel human again after a nice trim since I was starting to look like that sister of Marge Simpson with the giant pyramid hair!
Glad to see this thread! I've been wanting to get all your opinions, but didn't want to start my own thread. I know we had one like this not too long ago, but the circumstances are a bit different.
There is a concert I am dying to go to. Jason Aldean, Florida Georgia Line, Tyler Farr, and now MIRANDA LAMBERT. It's about an hour away, we would come home that night. The concert is on July 26, my due date is June 28th. It is totally madness to even consider going?? I am planning on breastfeeding. When I asked my mom's advice she just begged to babysit. Lol. My birthday is tomorrow, and DH hinted that he might buy tickets as my gift, but I don't want him to bother if it's a bad idea. I'm ALREADY desperate for a fun summer Saturday night with a beer (I know I'd have to pump and dump) and friends, but that soon after the baby am I going to want to leave him? Also, that's not even considering that I might go into labor late, which would only be about 3 weeks. Ugh, I feel so selfish even considering it. What are your thoughts?
@yellowbird219 Considering I'm buying tickets to go see Diana Gabaldon 11 days after my EDD (I'll have a RCS the week before), I'd say go for it! But I'm crazy.
I really love it here. The out pouring of love and support I see given to members experiencing hard times is heart warming and shows just how connected we are as a community.
@Natalie78W I totally agree It sort of flies in the face of what some people say about the culture and nature of the board.
I'm exhausted and want to take a nap in the worst way (which is unfortunate since Tuesdays are my late night and I'll be at work until 9:30/10ish, eastern time - it's only 2:30 now), but I did manage to get my hairs all cut today. Apparently it was the first time since November 13. I did the math and discovered that means it's been three months. Yikes.
Beautiful!! Nice cut!! And now I'm embarrassed to admit that I just got a cut last week which was my first since last July... um.. yeah. It had been a while!
How often do people usually get their hair cut? I do it MAYBE every 6 months.... Usually it's more like a year.
With how much my haircuts cost, I go as rarely as possible. But since my hair is below my shoulders usually, I can get away with it for longer than I bet someone can who has a shorter bob. I go to a special place in Manhattan that specializes in curly haircuts so I pick my visits wisely Luckily, as soon as I got knocked up, my hair got booted VERY low to the bottom of my priority list! I finally feel human again after a nice trim since I was starting to look like that sister of Marge Simpson with the giant pyramid hair!
Pre-pregnancy: I had my hair cut and colored every 8 weeks. It was my total indulgence. Haven't had it done since my BFP!
it's 64 degrees here!! So I left for lunch and as I'm walking out of Whole Foods the sun finally came out. Never would've thought I could cruise around with the sunroof open in mid - late February! Now back to work (blah)
I have another one. Apparently there is baby shower drama going on between my two sisters. My family is one two separate sides of the state. My one sister is here by me along with my mom's family. My other sister is on the other side along with my dad's family.
It was assumed by my mom and sister, W, thought that I'd have two showers; one here one there and each sister would get to throw one. My sister, T, assumed I'd have one and one side of the family would travel. Neither side will, so I don't know where she got this idea.
I asked W and Mom to talk to T before anything got planned. They didn't and T's feelings got hurt. Now there's this big elephant in the room and nobody is talking about things. I'm at the point where they took the fun out of it and I don't want either shower. It's a lose lose situation and someone gets their feelings hurt.
@mommywaldron Sometimes BabyCenter, but the posts are all over the place. It makes my head hurt! I like our organization, too.
The posts are so random, and I don't understand how anyone can actually get to know others there. We rule, they drool! Simple.
Wait.... you mean organization is a good thing? I mean... I know it gets old and all, but the way some people talk, this board is controlled by a bunch of power-hungry crazies.
My hair was probably about as long as it is in this picture back in November, and when I got it cut today, it was past my shoulders and looked awful. If you have long hair, I can totally see waiting months between cuts. But mine, with it being short, just looks TERRIBLE if I go more than 8 weeks or so.
Andplusalso, why do college girls think it's necessary to wear short skirts and heels to 8:00am classes when it is raining and 34 degrees outside?
@bebemac, WHERE ARE YOU? At my university, the college girls live in yoga pants/running capris and fleeces. Shoes vary by season: Uggs for winter; sneakers for fall; Old Navy flip flops for spring and summer.
I'm exhausted and want to take a nap in the worst way (which is unfortunate since Tuesdays are my late night and I'll be at work until 9:30/10ish, eastern time - it's only 2:30 now), but I did manage to get my hairs all cut today. Apparently it was the first time since November 13. I did the math and discovered that means it's been three months. Yikes.
Re: **Tuesday AW/SS/Random Thoughts Thread**
First, sorry no GIFs. Forgive me? Stupid work ruins everything.
My SS is that I spent last night in L&D because I’m a spazzy FTM. I can admit this freely. I started having shooting pains and dull aches on Wednesday, figured it was normal, but by Monday when it’s still there decided to call and check. Since the clinic was closed they had me come into L&D and they confirmed the pains were just RLP because my uterus is growing like a friggin’ BEAST! They checked on the babies, the fluid levels, the cervical length, etc and all is good! The nurses were really nice, it’s just my pride (and low abdomen) that’s hurt!
Ooh, I love Oahu. How are you feeling these days? You may not be up for hiking the mountain but there’s really nice trails and stuff that aren’t too strenuous. We usually rent a Jeep and drive around the whole island one day, stopping at little places along the way (Dole Plantation, North Shore, etc) that look fun. You can get hubby to kayak you around or get a hoby cat to sail for a bit. If you’re feeling tired though, I’d just spent a morning reading a book in a hammock or floating in the pool/ocean. And eating… always eating… lol. Have fun!
*BFP- Sept 2013*
*Ryder due June 1,2014*
*Love of my Life*
I don't even like peaches.
Andplusalso, why do college girls think it's necessary to wear short skirts and heels to 8:00am classes when it is raining and 34 degrees outside?
This baby and I cannot get in the same page for what we should eat vs what we crave to eat. I even stated out loud the Bump, there will be no more junk food!
Now what to do for lunch to off set the bag of chips...
mmmm peach cobbler, drool
San Jose del Cabo. We found a really great deal at a 4 star family resort for the week. Seriously why is it only Tuesday, I wanna go now.
I'm on board with you here! I made a panicked late-afternoon run to MFM last Friday for a lot of the same reasons. Doesn't help that earlier in the week my cervix had continued to shorten and I ended up with a pessary, but I had myself worked up to basket case levels during the drive to the office. Oh, and that liquid discharge that had me terrified? Probably just babies taking their aggression out on my bladder... :-/ Glad to hear yours was a false alarm as well!
The real random thing I wanted to share actually happened while DH and I were sitting in the waiting room, more than a little anxious. A group of women had accompanied a couple (I assume to see the a/s), and were clucking like a bunch of chickens (DH's very apt assessment) the entire 30 minutes we sat there. The entire waiting room was subjected to their very loud and unedited conversation, but the kicker was toward the end, when they started discussing an acquaintance's current pregnancy. Evidently the woman was having complications, with severe fetal developmental issues. These biddies were throwing around details like "She'll likely have to have an abortion" and "It would probably be better if she just miscarried." Excuse me, WTF???? You're sitting there surrounded by women who are for one reason or another deemed high-risk and talking about abortions and miscarriages??? DH was ready to get up and say something; fortunately for us, the nurse called me back at about that point. Four days later, I still can't get over their sheer ignorance and lack of sensitivity.
On a more positive note, I LOVE that my MFM practice is so supportive with spazzy mothers. They made me feel completely in the right for getting checked out, even with nothing currently wrong.
Dearest husband if you continue to snore every single night I am going to hit you in the face with a brick in a sock!! *Quote fail... sorry...
@muffinhny- i feel your pain!!! FYI... earplugs work wonders!!!
Ok my SS turn!!! I just discovered Vera Bradley Baby!!!!!!!!! Made my own first baby clothing purchases yesterday- totally couldn't help myself!!! Weeee!!!!!
I have reached the stage of pregnancy where strangers and my patients at work are asking me when I'm due without me telling them I am pregnant. It always takes me by surprise.
I have also started "standing like a pregnant lady" and am resting my hands on my belly all the time. I always wondered why pregnant ladies always seemed to be touching their own belly...but I get it now. The belly makes a pretty good shelf!
Weird part is I caught my husband sitting on the couch last night holding HIS belly! He said he is not sure why he is doing that, but thinks he just picked it up from me. Highly amusing - he may be the most SS of us all!
Edit - typo
Only down side is I have to wait until after baby is born which sucks because I'm 40 miles from the town I have to pick it up in :-S
Andplusalso what's a good durable and dependable brand of nursing tanks bras and shirts?
@yellowbird219 Considering I'm buying tickets to go see Diana Gabaldon 11 days after my EDD (I'll have a RCS the week before), I'd say go for it! But I'm crazy.
@Natalie78W I totally agree
With how much my haircuts cost, I go as rarely as possible. But since my hair is below my shoulders usually, I can get away with it for longer than I bet someone can who has a shorter bob. I go to a special place in Manhattan that specializes in curly haircuts so I pick my visits wisely
Pre-pregnancy: I had my hair cut and colored every 8 weeks. It was my total indulgence. Haven't had it done since my BFP!
It was assumed by my mom and sister, W, thought that I'd have two showers; one here one there and each sister would get to throw one. My sister, T, assumed I'd have one and one side of the family would travel. Neither side will, so I don't know where she got this idea.
I asked W and Mom to talk to T before anything got planned. They didn't and T's feelings got hurt. Now there's this big elephant in the room and nobody is talking about things. I'm at the point where they took the fun out of it and I don't want either shower. It's a lose lose situation and someone gets their feelings hurt.