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@veetveet

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Just wanted to let you know, we are thinking of you and your family today on this most difficult of days. Lots of ((hugs)).
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Me: 32 DH: 33  High School Sweethearts  Married 5/28/2005
DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency
DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.
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  • jonahsmajonahsma member
    Thinking of you today...we are all here for you.
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  • MCH77MCH77 member
    ((Hugs))

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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  • bunnybun4bunnybun4 member
    thinking of you and your sweet boy.  ((HUGS))

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    8/12-Suprise BFP- Sweet Bunny Born Sleeping 11/21/12 (19 weeks)

    -5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)

    11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13

    8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF

    IVF #1- 11/14- 6R5M4F=2 perfect frosties

    12/19/14- FET of 2 embabies = BFP!!!  One Little Bean EDD: 9/3/15

    Everyone Welcome.

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  • kaydee_2008kaydee_2008 member
    sending lots and lots of love your way my dear (((hugs)))
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                          My sweet Rylee girl 8-13-2007 and my sweet Emmett man 4-13-2010
                               Annaleigh Willow Elise born and passed at 26 weeks 1 day
                                      Thursday October 17th 2013 from trisomy 13
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  • VyD81VyD81 member
    Hugs
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    BFP #2, EDD 12/26/14, please be our rainbow.

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  • jess123456jess123456 member
    Thinking of you too. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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  • sunflwrasunflwra member
    Hugs mama!

    BFP #1- 4/2011; DD Brynn born 12/2011

    BFP #2- 7/13; EDD- 4/2/14; Lost DS at 20 weeks (11/16/13) due to cord accident

    BFP #3- 3/14; EDD- 11/28/14; Lost DD at 15 weeks (6/7/14)- cause unknown

    To my angels- I held you every second of your lives and I'll love you every second of mine.

     

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  • kz's_girlygirlkz's_girlygirl member
    So many hugs <3
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    Anniversary

    TTC since 2008
    Dh:34, no issues.  Me:31, Endo, slightly hypothyroid, deformed ovary, paracentric inversion.
    4 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone +TI cycles= all BFN
    Lap in 2012 to remove large unresolving cyst discovered endo and double lobed ovary.
     6 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone IUI cycles= All BFN,
    1st IVF w/ICSI- June '13 Antagonist: Gonal-F, Menopur, Ganirelix, HcG, Estradiol, Crinone= 7 retrieved, 4 mature, 1 unfertilized, 2 abnormally fertilized, 1 normally fertilized.  2DT of only embryo and our miracle BFP.
    Our beloved baby boy was born sleeping Oct. 13, 2013 due to pROM/IC/Uterine infection.
    2nd IVF w/ICSI- Feb. '14 EPP/lupron/antagonist: Estrace, lupron, HGH, Gonal-F, Menopur, HcG, PIO, lovenox, doxy/dex.=21 retrieved, 16 mature, 15 fertilized!!  5dt of 1 blast/ 6 frozen. BFP!  Beta 1 9dp5dt:83.9  Beta 2: 11dp5dt: 145.2  Beta 3  14dp5dt: 497  Please be our sticky rainbow baby!

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  • veetveetveetveet member
    Thank you very much. The procedure to stop his heart was much longer than anticipated.... he put up a fight. That's my boy!! Stubborn like his sister. It was very emotional and physically painful. All I could do was keep saying I'm sorry....over and over.

    I'm waiting for round 2 of induction meds- incredibly awkward and kind of painful application.

    I'm a mixed bag of emotions. One min strong and the next a train wreck.

    I must say tho.... I love Ativan. Magically takes the burning around my heart and heaviness in my chest away.

    I do miss his kicks, punches and rolls tremendously.

    I will let you all know when it's over. They guess I will be going home on Thursday. I brought in an old baby blanket of mine from when I was a baby- his sister used it too. They will give him a bath and then dress and swaddle him for me. I've asked he be cremated with that piece of me.

    So scared for the next 24 hours. Thank god for my husband- he is my rock and I have found a new and much deeper love for him.
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  • Maybe JoleisaMaybe Joleisa member
    Great big hugs to you. Hoping the Ativan helps you through the next 24 hours as well as the first 24 hours.

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    TTC since 10/2010
    IUIs # 1-5 = BFFN
    IVF # 1(July 2012) = BFN
    IVF # 2 (November 2012) = BFP (MIssed MC D&C @ 8w3d on 1/10/13)
    IVF # 3 (June 2013) = BFN 
    IVF # 4 (September 2013) = BFP Fraternal twin boys! (Loss at 21w6d due to IC on 1/26/14...devastated.)
    3/21/14--TAC (transabdominal cerclage) w/Dr. Davis in NJ
    IVF # 5 (May 2014) = BFN
    FET (August 2014) = BFN

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  • MCH77MCH77 member
    More ((Hugs))

    BFP #1 March 24, 2010; missed m/c May 26, 2010 @ 12w 4d; D&E May 28, 2010

    BFP #2 Oct 20, 2010; My little boy was born on July 5, 2011

    BFP #3 April 30, 2013; Chemical Pg May 5, 2013

    BFP #4 Aug 22, 2013; It's a boy.  Loss discovered at 24 weeks on Jan 15, 2014 (cause CMV virus)    

                                  <3 We love and miss you Timothy <3

    BFP #5 April 6, 2014; missed m/c May 15, 2014 @ 9 weeks; Misoprostol May 15, 2014; D&C May June 3, 2014

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  • schulme2schulme2 member
    Thinking of you. That is so sweet to use that blanket. I do hope you will get to spend some time holding him and get some pictures. As painful as it may be, I am so glad we held our daughter and took pictures.
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  • sunflwrasunflwra member
    Thinking of you all. I know I was very grateful to my OB for telling me up front that they would give me as much pain medication as I wanted during and after bc no one should have to endure something like this.  Hugs!

    BFP #1- 4/2011; DD Brynn born 12/2011

    BFP #2- 7/13; EDD- 4/2/14; Lost DS at 20 weeks (11/16/13) due to cord accident

    BFP #3- 3/14; EDD- 11/28/14; Lost DD at 15 weeks (6/7/14)- cause unknown

    To my angels- I held you every second of your lives and I'll love you every second of mine.

     

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  • veetveetveetveet member
    Labour and delivery were both fast...at least.

    We were with him for 9 hours or so. I felt incredibly guilty leaving him. I was a bit shocked at his appearance- he was very purple esp his face (apparently normal) and got darker as the day went on. Still beautiful though- he looked just like his sister.

    He was so big considering I was 27 weeks.... he was over 3 lbs. So tall and the biggest baby feet for that gestation.

    We got to nap with him which was nice and I told him a lot of things....we had a good chat.

    Now I'm left feeling incomplete. Thank god for my husband and my daughter. I don't know what I would do without them.

    Thanks for keeping me in your thoughts.
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  • jonahsmajonahsma member
    I am so sorry you have to go through this.. I am glad you got to hold him and spend time with him, he looks beautiful, what a cute nose! Please be kind to yourself
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  • veetveetveetveet member
    jonahsma said:

    I am so sorry you have to go through this.. I am glad you got to hold him and spend time with him, he looks beautiful, what a cute nose! Please be kind to yourself

    Thank you. I'm trying..... but it's so hard. Xo
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  • SchoolPsychStephSchoolPsychSteph member
    Big hugs to you. You are in my heart

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    DD born on 11/10/2007
    TTC Sept-Nov 2012
    BFP on 10/25/2012 CP 11/1/2012
    Back on BCP
    BFP on 10/13/2013 EDD June 26, 2014 
    Little Girl went to Heaven on January 26, 2014 @ 18 weeks
    TTCAL March 2014-Present
    BFP on 6/20/2014 Blighted Ovum
    BFP on 8/31/2014 It's a GIRL!  EDD May 18, 2015
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  • neptunebljcneptunebljc member
    Sending send lots of hug. 
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    BFP#1 March24,2011  MC on May 29,2011 BFP#2 Sept,2011 MC Oct 2011 (Molar)
    Started Progestrone Treatment, BFP#3 May 10,2013  PROM/PRL on Sept 7 2013
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