not sure if I belong exactly

ebwhit

evening ladies- I wanted to introduce myself here as I have previously been active on the TTCAL board for a good amount of time but I have been absent since my last miscarriage in September so I'm not exactly sure where I belong at the moment. After 4 losses I'm not sure the regular TTCAL board is exactly right for me but I want to be respectful of the longer relationships built on this board. I have also intro'd on the infertility board but I notice that almost all those women are pursuing IVF and I also don't feel I belong on the "trouble TTC" board because...I don't have trouble conceiving I have trouble after that.. anyway if people feel like this is a good space for me I'd love to be a part of the group as DH and I start our second medicated IUI cycle after two years ttc. 

ebwhit

Thanks @snegde I guess I never thought about it that way. I will go poke around over there.

KMW08

I agree with snegde that 3T may be a good fit for you. If you don't really feel comfy on 3T I suggest staying on the ttcal board. I recognize your name, but I don't know you well enough or know that you've been supportive enough to be on 6+ (That's my opinion).

Yes there's a lot of us who don't exactly identify with all the fresh losses & newbies on ttcal, but that's part of it. There are so many multi-loss ladies on ttcal, if you've really been there enough where you felt comfy intro'ing on 6+, you would know this.

ebwhit

@KMW08 yup...like I said I wasn't sure. I intro'd over at TTTC. I know there are lots of multi-loss ladies over on TTCAL and I have gotten support from many of them after each of my losses. I definitely didn't "feel comfy" intro-ing here which is why I said I wasn't sure and I wanted to be respectful of the relationships on this board in my original post. 

best of luck to you ladies over here.

luciddreamer106

I'm sorry that you feel like you don't quite belong on the other boards and I agree with PP. I just want to chime in and say thank you for not flipping your shit with the responses here. Though always worded kindly, some women don't take it well.

jenkellen

Feel free to jump into the IF check-in on TTCAL too. I run it ~Fridays. Lots of us are doing IUIs right now.