I do not think you know what bullying means, and it's bullshit to use it on here. You are anonymous and keep coming here of your own free will. At anytime, you can stop posting or close the site and the conversation ends. No one is pursuing you as you try to get away and tormenting you. This is still a conversation, no matter how ridiculous.
@shellsbells1980 be glad I took a nap and am now exhausted and about to transfer my mammoth ass to bed. If you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen!
Really??? You think you're the bee's knee's most of the time on here don't you? I don't care who you think you are to be fair, because you clearly need your friends standing behind you on here, i'll stand on my own, but at least i know i'm defending myself. and on that note, seeing as it's 1.45am here in the UK, i'll be taking my arse to bed too. Maybe people will be less fucking snarky and pissy tomorrow eh?
Doubtful. I have 11 miserable pounds of babies inside me and I'm bored.
Oh I'm sorry, did you think you were the only one fucking struggling? Of course, THAT'S what makes it ok for pregnant women to talk to others like shit isn't it?
Of course I don't. That was a joke.
By the way, that's how you respond with class if someone misunderstands you.
Oh Lets be 100% honest here shall we?? It's not like i'm the first person to be spoke to like crap on here for being myself. I've seen people being no less than bullied for not fitting into the "click" of this board, and frankly is childish and disgusting behaviour. I'm guessing we're all mature adults here?? I'm also going to take a guess that we're all allowed to have off days every now and again with getting flamed for it?? Well some of us are, but clearly others on here aren't allowed to breathe without someone trying to make them feel like shit!
Jesus. Have you been slowly letting steam about people on this board build up for this one huge explosion??? I can't quite understand what anyone said originally to merit such an embarrassing outburst??? Your original statement was meant to be funny ..... It wasn't taken that way. Soooo move on? No one is bullying anyone....and if anyone is being rude it would be you in your attempt to " maintain your dignity" (when in reality you're accomplishing exactly the opposite).
@shellsbells1980 We all have bad days. You overreacted and won't own up to it. I've done the same before and accepted it or apologized. I got flamed hard once on TTGP because I said something out of line.
You know what....I was actually more than willing to say maybe i did OR a bit at first, i even said i never came here for any shit, but people on here are FAR to quick to judge/flame/jump in and bully others just because they're "bored". It's sad and funny at the same time, the bitchiest girls at my school weren't that bad.
Saying "We are not your personal Google" is bullying? That's all that happened prior to your freak out. I'm honestly trying to be nice here, but you're really quick to call the bully word.
And for the record, I didn't even like FBW until a few months ago. It's not a clique. We've bonded over the course of 8 months together on the board.
No, i didn't mean the first comment was bullying, but seriously, everything that followed from others just because i had a reaction to snark for no reason? Even after i said i never came here for shit, people still felt the need to try to pull me down, tell me how that isn't bullying?
I can see why you didn't like FBW, i'm not so keen on people who think they're more than they actually are either, and i can't see my opinion of that ever changing, even if yours did
1) Have we been appropriately quoting these epic posts? It's one for the scrapbook for sure.
2) @bandteacher your avatar is still a bouquet and I must admit, it takes away from your usual sass lol
3) I hope it isn't a sign that all of our avatars turn into high heel shoes or something... Confused the shit out of me when that happened.
Carry on @ShellsBells1980, your crazy tirade is better than anything in my DVR
Wait... Does no one care what I find out when I do daily cervical checks?
@irf8955 only if you're doing them yourself and you're actually using objects from that chart to measure!
@farmboyswife. Well didn't you want an official reading? And of course I'm doing them myself... God, don't you get on the bump and learn how to do shit?
Edited:too many damn quotes on mobile bump
@shellsbells1980 be glad I took a nap and am now exhausted and about to transfer my mammoth ass to bed. If you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen!
Really??? You think you're the bee's knee's most of the time on here don't you? I don't care who you think you are to be fair, because you clearly need your friends standing behind you on here, i'll stand on my own, but at least i know i'm defending myself. and on that note, seeing as it's 1.45am here in the UK, i'll be taking my arse to bed too. Maybe people will be less fucking snarky and pissy tomorrow eh?
Doubtful. I have 11 miserable pounds of babies inside me and I'm bored.
Oh I'm sorry, did you think you were the only one fucking struggling? Of course, THAT'S what makes it ok for pregnant women to talk to others like shit isn't it?
Of course I don't. That was a joke.
By the way, that's how you respond with class if someone misunderstands you.
Oh Lets be 100% honest here shall we?? It's not like i'm the first person to be spoke to like crap on here for being myself. I've seen people being no less than bullied for not fitting into the "click" of this board, and frankly is childish and disgusting behaviour. I'm guessing we're all mature adults here?? I'm also going to take a guess that we're all allowed to have off days every now and again with getting flamed for it?? Well some of us are, but clearly others on here aren't allowed to breathe without someone trying to make them feel like shit!
Jesus. Have you been slowly letting steam about people on this board build up for this one huge explosion??? I can't quite understand what anyone said originally to merit such an embarrassing outburst??? Your original statement was meant to be funny ..... It wasn't taken that way. Soooo move on? No one is bullying anyone....and if anyone is being rude it would be you in your attempt to " maintain your dignity" (when in reality you're accomplishing exactly the opposite).
I will reitterate, i may have overreacted slightly, but NO i'm not the only one, and yes, people DO bully others on here, and NO, i'm not the only one who may have been rude either.
I think this may be a lost cause. Your response to the original comments was a little bit more than overreacting slightly don't you think?? And maybe some of the responses that followed were rude but not until you asked for that response with your "all caps statement". And just another FYI.....you said this was a convo between the two of you until the others felt the need to say something. Last I checked this was a forum board, so anything posted pretty much goes to anyone and everyone. Everyone that responded was giving their own opinion. Not taking part of a clique or bullying you. Everyone just happens to be in agreement here that you went a little overboard here. You could just admit that and move on.....this board has forgiven people for worse lol. But you seem to enjoy digging this hole deeper and deeper???
Maybe, if you wanted to google something, you could google bullying. I'm pretty sure that anonymous voluntary participation on an internet site that you can leave at anytime doesn't really fit in.
But yeah, keep trying to be clever and insult people and fight for your dignity. Damn the man! Fight the good fight!
I'm more interested in the cervix shaped donuts than this convo. And this board doesn't have a clique. There is just a group of more active people whose screen names are easily recognized (I'm a more recent M'14 slave myself)
I made that ramen I was craving. I may return later tonight after DH falls asleep on the couch. I know you all care so much.
#beingarebelandnotpostingthisinthetandomthread
What kind of Ramen? Now I really want spicy Ramen noodles.
@ShellsBells1980, pride can be a very detrimental thing. No one ganged up on you until you started calling people out randomly. I think it really is time for you to do what you said you were going to do pages ago and go to bed.
Side note: WTH guys! I go watch some TV and this happens? I miss all the fun lately.
It's not all about pride, people might notice at the beginning, those who didn't seem to be jumping on the "talk to her like shit" bandwaggon never got a shitty response, but this is being overlooked for the sake of what?? To make it all about just me being wrong? Trying to make me feel like shit for nothing more than others have done here tonight?
You immediately jumped in and bitched another bumpie out for misreading a very poorly formed sarcastic remark. People then followed up with snark because you blew everything out of proportion. You then followed it up by calling people out who you believe are in a clique. Not sure where you have exhibited that this isn't a pride issue. It truly is past time to step away from the keyboard.
That particular bumpie went to instant snark just as much as i went to instant defense. There were comments that followed explaining what was meant from both of us, people STILL carried it on, sorry, not my fault, i never asked for that. There was a clique going on, even the blind could see that...i see it, i say it. I'll step away from the keyboard when i'm ready, not when a group of people tell me to.
When you're ready?? But you already said you were leaving....
I mean stick around, doesn't phase me. If you like looking like a fool that is....
It's very well to defend FBW for having balls to speak her mind, but i've seen others do it and they got ganged up on, it's not ok for one person to do something and wrong for another, in my 33 years on this earth it's something i've learnt and will stick to.
@shellsbells1980 - "learnt?" Really? If you think this board is
snarky and one big clique, then definitely don't look around on this
site. You might become upset and leave your caps lock on.
An almond croissant and a bear claw are very similar things, but not identical. They are both a pastry dough containing almond paste or marzipan, but the bear claw is usually sweeter and contains raisins as well, while the almond croissant is not as sweet and never has anything but almonds. Also, different shapes.
Is this really march 14?! I expect this type of craziness from an XP!
@shellsbells1980 - when I saw your post I was 75% sure you were being funny. But I can see where your sarcasm wasn't picked up on. Your reaction was disproportionate to the response you got. Just move on. Six pages of all this is just over the top.
Officially started TTC January 2012
Dx with PCOS November 2012
2/2013 - First round of Femara - No O
Took 2 months to get vaccinated from the chickenpox
5/2013 - Second round Femara - No O
6/2013 - Third round of Femara + HCG Trigger Shot = O!
7/18/2013 - Found out I was pregnant
Dx with Gestational Diabetes at 28 weeks
Dx with Macrosomia at 33 weeks
Taking Glyburide and Metformin to control GD
Due date is March 29th but we are moving forward with a scheduled C-Section on March 25th
Re: FYI: Dilation and Effacement
By the way, that's how you respond with class if someone misunderstands you.
Oh Lets be 100% honest here shall we?? It's not like i'm the first person to be spoke to like crap on here for being myself. I've seen people being no less than bullied for not fitting into the "click" of this board, and frankly is childish and disgusting behaviour. I'm guessing we're all mature adults here?? I'm also going to take a guess that we're all allowed to have off days every now and again with getting flamed for it?? Well some of us are, but clearly others on here aren't allowed to breathe without someone trying to make them feel like shit!
Jesus. Have you been slowly letting steam about people on this board build up for this one huge explosion??? I can't quite understand what anyone said originally to merit such an embarrassing outburst??? Your original statement was meant to be funny ..... It wasn't taken that way. Soooo move on? No one is bullying anyone....and if anyone is being rude it would be you in your attempt to " maintain your dignity" (when in reality you're accomplishing exactly the opposite).
I can see why you didn't like FBW, i'm not so keen on people who think they're more than they actually are either, and i can't see my opinion of that ever changing, even if yours did
1) Have we been appropriately quoting these epic posts? It's one for the scrapbook for sure.
2) @bandteacher your avatar is still a bouquet and I must admit, it takes away from your usual sass lol
3) I hope it isn't a sign that all of our avatars turn into high heel shoes or something... Confused the shit out of me when that happened.
Carry on @ShellsBells1980, your crazy tirade is better than anything in my DVR
On another note, your avatar (for me at least) is back to normal! It's like in Back to the Future where the pic of his parents starts to fade away lol
@farmboyswife. Well didn't you want an official reading? And of course I'm doing them myself... God, don't you get on the bump and learn how to do shit? Edited:too many damn quotes on mobile bump
Jesus. Have you been slowly letting steam about people on this board build up for this one huge explosion??? I can't quite understand what anyone said originally to merit such an embarrassing outburst??? Your original statement was meant to be funny ..... It wasn't taken that way. Soooo move on? No one is bullying anyone....and if anyone is being rude it would be you in your attempt to " maintain your dignity" (when in reality you're accomplishing exactly the opposite).
I will reitterate, i may have overreacted slightly, but NO i'm not the only one, and yes, people DO bully others on here, and NO, i'm not the only one who may have been rude either.
I think this may be a lost cause. Your response to the original comments was a little bit more than overreacting slightly don't you think?? And maybe some of the responses that followed were rude but not until you asked for that response with your "all caps statement". And just another FYI.....you said this was a convo between the two of you until the others felt the need to say something. Last I checked this was a forum board, so anything posted pretty much goes to anyone and everyone. Everyone that responded was giving their own opinion. Not taking part of a clique or bullying you. Everyone just happens to be in agreement here that you went a little overboard here. You could just admit that and move on.....this board has forgiven people for worse lol. But you seem to enjoy digging this hole deeper and deeper???
But yeah, keep trying to be clever and insult people and fight for your dignity. Damn the man! Fight the good fight!
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What kind of Ramen? Now I really want spicy Ramen noodles.
I was expecting a Joey gif..such disappointment..=]
When you're ready?? But you already said you were leaving....
I mean stick around, doesn't phase me. If you like looking like a fool that is....
@shellsbells1980 - "learnt?" Really?
If you think this board is snarky and one big clique, then definitely don't look around on this site. You might become upset and leave your caps lock on.
But, my internet kingdom for an almond croissant. Mmm...almond croissant.
Either that or a buttermilk. Deep-fried. Just a dusting of powdered sugar.
I'm way too lazy to mobile gif. Sorry to disappoint!
Its all good! I forgive you!
I pick the almond croissant, myself.
@shellsbells1980 - when I saw your post I was 75% sure you were being funny. But I can see where your sarcasm wasn't picked up on. Your reaction was disproportionate to the response you got. Just move on. Six pages of all this is just over the top.